Topic: drove 9 hours for nada
texastigress's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:39 PM
Sorry that this happened to you. I had something similar happen to me earlier this year except I drove for about an hour (this was the half-way point between me and this guy) and the guy never showed up or called, much less email me to me know that he had an emergency. I'm going through the same thing with 1 man on here and one one another site except they live here in Austin. They say that they're available on the weekend and for me to give them a call, so I do a couple of times, leave messages and NADA. I just couldn't get these guys to commit to a day and time to meet when we did talk on the phone. THEN they call during the week wanting to meet that weekend and it's a vicious cycle all over again. I try to give these guys the benefit of a doubt, but this is the 2nd weekend they've both done this to me and I'm at the point to where I'm not going to answer their calls or acknowledge their emails. I have way too much to do than worry about them getting their jollies by jerking me and maybe some other women around. What's really bad about the whole thing is that they claim that they aren't like the other guys out there, but I'm beginning to believe that the ones who claim to be sincere are really players. :-(

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Sun 11/04/07 05:39 PM
What a punk ass b*tch. He needs to be beat.

digger56's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:39 PM
Sorry to hear that. Some guys are real losers. Consider yourself a winner that he didn't show up. Sounds like a jerk.

unsure's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:40 PM
Did he act like he was going to back out? This is why I would never travel to meet the guy first!! I say..let them come to me and meet them in a public place. I would never be that mean to anyone!!!
Just mark it up as a bad experience and thats one less jerk that you can weed out!! So sorry you had to waste your time and money flowerforyou

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Sun 11/04/07 05:45 PM
Yea, I wonder what these guys are thinking. Apparently they aren't. Just like some guys. You talked to them for months and form a friendship, then you finally get to meet, things are great, then, BAM, not a single word from them. Like they just disappeared off the face of the earth. But, you see them online. Makes you wonder why pple do the things they do. It would be so nice if everyone was considerate of others feelings. You know, that don't happen much in the REAL WORLD. I beleive you should treat ppl the way you want to be treated. Wish everybody else felt like that, Oh, sorry I wrote so much. Was just on a roll.

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Sun 11/04/07 05:45 PM
thanks all of you. his loss is how im going to look at it, but if he ever brings his sorry azz back on here, it's on. no more going out of my way for no-one, learned my lesson i guess.

kojack's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:47 PM
don t waste your time lowering yourself to his level Sugar.
You are better thatn that. flowerforyou

He lost a chance with a wonderful woman !!!

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Sun 11/04/07 05:49 PM
thanks :smile:

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Sun 11/04/07 05:50 PM
That blows big time, this guy is a peice of s#it. don't let it bother you. sorry it happen to you. I wish you well.

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Sun 11/04/07 05:51 PM
hey let track this as* hole down and hurt him what a f*cking jerk sorry

Twitch's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:52 PM
wow that is totally foul to do that to someone. what an asshole; i agree with donnasic -- man that is mean.

CBD's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:53 PM
what a coward i would have found his place f***up his car, apartment and takin my chances of going to jail what an asshole

texastigress's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:54 PM
I agree with everyone else...it's their loss. That goes the same for all the guys who has done this to all the women on this site. Women, WE'RE JUST TOO GOOD FOR THEM!!!

CBD's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:56 PM
dont get carried away tigress just as many scandolous girls for sure

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Sun 11/04/07 05:58 PM
cbd...haha--yea could have, should have, but im too nice for that. Karma is a b**ch ..he will get his.

anouk's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:59 PM
WHAAAT???noway noway noway
i'm so sorry to hear that!flowerforyou
no balls - just rude,mean and stupid.
can't believe,he let you drive that far to set you up..that's just sickening!!
WAN*ER!!!!mad

CBD's photo
Sun 11/04/07 05:59 PM
your right sugar karma does come around sometimes it just takes awhile

unsure's photo
Sun 11/04/07 06:01 PM
I think there are a lot of mean men and women out there. The whole point here is that everyone should stop and think about the persons feelings that you are playing!! Life is way to short to play these little games with others emotions..so grow up!!

All I can say is sugarnspice, I think you are better off to find out now that he really doesn't deserve you! I say smile and move on!! Be happy and healthy flowerforyou

coco56's photo
Sun 11/04/07 06:02 PM
i always say wot goes around comes around, my date never showed up today either grumble

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Sun 11/04/07 06:03 PM
ive had that done to me before and it sucked .i hate that inconsiderate cr*p! there are still good people out there keep looking you deserve better. ive been hurt by woman but it doesn't mean they are all the same, each is different. heck if i thought they were all the same that wouldn't be fair to the ones who are good.