Shhhhhh!!!!!


And OP....Young guys whack off no matter what.....if it interferes in the marriage though, its a problem.

Can somebody tell me why a young guy needs to whack off to porn instead of having sex with his new wife?

most ( not all) young men develop this addiction during adolescence

many men ( shhhhh I know this is a secret) continue to do this

after marriage


if he is only doing this and not wanting to be intimate with you
then I would recommend couples counseling

Can this addiction go away? Or is it there for the long haul?

Yes it was a problem.

The woman shouldn't deal with it then....get out of it and move one...life's too short....but I'm more of a hard azz abt things though, I admit.

I've never whacked off while in a relationship

uh huh

ya here's an eye opener for ya

most married couples still do this even if they have a healthy sex life
with each other

that is up to him to decide how much and how often

Right?! Why go with fantasy... when you have a horny wife or girlfriend waiting to give it to you for real. Lol

..Well. if I had a new wife or girlfriend I would have them whack me off..lol... no need for porn...

Off topic but can we do away with "whacking off"?
There are better terms to choose from....

To name a few:

Abusing the wicked stick
Adjusting the antenna
Aiding and abetting a known felon
Applying the hand brake
Arguing with Henry Longfellow
Arm-wrestle with your one-eyed vessel
Attack the one-eyed purple-headed warrior
Audition your hand puppet
Backstroke roulette
Badgering the witness
Barking up the wrong tree

I keed I keed

Yes.. the whacking off is more of a angry bitter ticked off way of getting that across without spitting out profanities lol.

No worries, I understand lol

Thats kinda hot though

He's getting something in porn that he's not getting from you.. you better check those porns he's been watching..

mmmmm..yes this is where open communication would be a good idea
instead of coming onto a dating site complaining

he may have some fantasies he is not sure you are ready to hear
or he might have a fetish or two

or ...he might simply like watching it out of habit that he had before he met you..

after all, a man can watch all he wants..he does not have to listen to her talk about her day, her mother, take her to dinner or wonder if she is ever gonna come to bed and take her clothes off


it is straight to the point and there are so many different categories to choose from

do you let him know this?

I know in with ny ex wife I'd hint and hint ather, and she didn't seem to reciprocate, so I'd watch porn and take care of things myself...then she'd ne mad that we didn't have sex the night before...

nowiif you walk in the room naked, turn the porn off and grab his hand, and he ignores you and turns it back on...then I'd say there is a problem. ..most likely that is that he can't tell when you want it and when you don't. ...make it easy on him