Have you ever been caught admiring other heavenly bodies in the presence of your mate??...severely admiring!
I'm talking about forgetting where you are and drooling a bit.

See I knew you alls was gay. You have a little P "Venus envy..."

Who you been looken at?

Are you the one standing so close to me in the urinal?

I thought this was a cougar site.

Put a barrel of fish in front of me and I'll shoot the hell out of them.

Too answer the question you meant to ask:

Yes. I have actually pointed and said, "Wow! Look at her she is so beautiful!"

There are just some women that are like OMG Gorgeous.

My girlfriend reciprocated the situation too. We were both secure. It's nice when it's like that.

Isn't that the beauty of NOT being in a relationship? You are free to admire and drool over whoever you'd like to without offending someone!

Now how could anyone take their eyes off you and those adorable dimples.

Haha, thanks.

This is something I've struggled with in past relationships. I mean, sure, we're all human and can admire beauty on the movie screen, television, internet, and even strangers walking down the street. But when you're with someone who is constantly admiring others... or making hurtful comments... it all begins to unravel.

A friend of mine told me that he realized his relationship with his live in girlfriend was starting to fall apart when they kept having a "Who would you rather do?" conversation (always about celebrities). It started off as a joke, and continued on... till they got to the point where they didn't think the attraction was there anymore.

It's not something I would do, if I knew it hurts her....but it was reciprocal behavior with women in my past relationships.

In other words, have you ever been caught being that kind of an idiot?

First of all, I give respect to my mate, I don't let my eyes wander but instead I focus all my attention to him alone. Though I know admiring the beauty of things around you is just normal but I would rather not insult my mate. It's ok with me if I caught my mate admiring a beautiful woman, I don't get mad or jealous, but instead I try to make a joke out of it and tease him, he just laughs and tells me a sweet comment that would make me feel confident and trust him more

Come on ...she's right over there...the woman of your dreams...just turn your head, man.

nice thought

I think its not respectful to sneak a look at another woman when in the presence of your date.Sorry I am not perfect just old fashioned.

Maby there was a better show next door

Yes, that is true. Why do we need to look at others while we have our partners with us. Good gesture mr jack... Being old fashioned is really okay

I've never understood why some guys do this and I've read somewhere that it most likely goes back to primitive dominance thing.

Personally, I barely even use what I have, why should I be jealous of someone else's.

like literally drooling??? If I were your mate I disappear in a Snap!!!

I know some of you will find this hard to believe..lol.. but when I'm in a relationship I give the person I'm with all of my attention.... now that being said..lol.. there has been occasion when my lover and I.. are out and about.. and some scrumptious delicious little snack.. starts walking our way.... well I might sneak a peek but I do it very nonchalantly.... I might comment with my lover..my!!.. she has a pretty dress on.. don't you think so..
Or I might say wow she's very pretty..
But only half as pretty as you my dear..
Secretly picturing my grandfather cutting the cheese .. so I don't become aroused by the sight of this scrumptious little snack... as she passes Us by....lol

that would be in very bad taste to do that..

Immature behavior leads to insecurity.
Insecurity leads to jealousy.
Jealousy destroys relationships.



Admiration is appreciation of something (in this case beauty)
Severe admiration is infatuation.


Infatuation that is so severe you lose control of yourself is an indication of immaturity. The type of immaturity that often leads to infidelity.



Acknowledging beauty in the world around us is natural. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A mature and secure relationship allows you to appreciate the beauty without the jealousy. You both remain focused and in control of yourself.