believe in me hes serious

A younger woman is good for an older mans ego...and vice versa. They say age is just a number....but is it?
I am getting ready to retire so why hook up with someone that can't travel and do things?
I dated someone 17 yrs younger than myself once and said never again.
I prefer men a little younger than I am cuz I am young ( and I don't mean 30...or 40 yr olds) 63..but that's just me. If the guy is older and not a couch potato...that's great..its your own personal preference. I do not shut the door...
I have taken the time alone to find out who I am and what I would like or not and quite comfortable being alone...and maybe that's a fault for me..I am no longer on the bargain rack...cuz I don't have to be.

wow..don't know where all this came from!

Well....is you serious to him? Thirty one years difference means his sack will wrinkle faster than.....well....I better shush now.

Yeah his already matures so much maybe not the problem with him, its on you because all the experiences in life and total achievements and trials already been thru to him, so you will amaze to the moves of him, how he talks and how he will amaze you and everything but be careful not all the guy and very sincere and faithful maybe they just want some pleassure in life only.

Yeah his already matures so much maybe not the problem with him, its on you because all the experiences in life and total achievements and trials already been thru to him, so you will amaze to the moves of him, how he talks and how he will amaze you and everything but be careful not all the guy and very sincere and faithful maybe they just want some pleassure in life only.

how is it with a younger man? i mean the connection?

have you ever been in love? guess you still not.. you are also here looking for a companion. we have different reasons why we here.. if you were in my shoes you would be probably understand it.. the way he cares, talks, sharing good conversations, laughters, and many stuffs..you think it`s not possible? don`t judge the people how long their gap is.. I hope in the near future it wont happen to your children. id better shush my mouth now

For the uninitiated.....I have been in love. And I do realize age doesn't matter. My parents are in love, been married for 38 years, and there is 10 years age difference. Now...that is ten years, and so there is still much that they can (and do) have in common. You have a larger gap. If it works for you then hey....knock yourself out. Sometimes an age gap like yours can be successful. But the odds say differently....so don't hate cause I tend to favor the odds.....Vegas baby!

Well we dont live to impress them. Why bother right? CARE NO more for negative comments and let there be peace on you

I am guessing, again, if everything was perfect you would not be on a dating site asking for advice.

If you ask for opinions, not everyone will tell you what you want to hear.

Yes i respect that.. people judge you everywhere. I'm just correcting their thoughts about age difference.. thats why i came here.

My parents were 15 years apart, and my Dad got sick and died a long time before my mom.. She was alone a very long time.. That's just them, but age is more than a number it's years.

Odds are not in your favor, but that doesn't mean you can't be happy with what you have right now - as long as that is enough.

For me and maybe for some people. Some people are old at 18 and some are young at 90. Time is a concept that humans created. So age is always just a number and Maturity is a choice.

Correcting their thoughts?

niffik1, it sounds like you know what you want and made up your mind. Hopefully you can talk to your man about your concerns with your relationship. Good luck.

Yes thank you.

I don't think the age difference is the problem. Sounds like insecurity problems. I am not into the huge age difference, myself, but if people are secure...it wouldn't matter

"Negative"

Correcting who's thoughts, about what and why?