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Topic: SO, How do you spot a GOLD DIGGER help me
GentleS0ul Joined Sat 10/08/16 Posts: 168	Mon 11/07/16 07:45 AM
Usually their outfit gives them away...miner's safety hat, etc. Mental detector can be handy too. LOL

Sos Joined Fri 09/16/16 Posts: 8	Mon 11/07/16 07:52 AM
If you walk around with a banner advertising your big company definitely expect those attentions

bradpepper Joined Sun 11/06/16 Posts: 17	Mon 11/07/16 06:22 PM
Perhaps you attract them by what you put out there... if you're wearing Armani, and Hermes and showing up to the coffee house in a lambo....the immediately fawning all over you...run and run fast. Like I said I want to up front so I dont waste my time with them later.. I just want to be able to spot a good woman type of deal

Robxbox73 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 5302	Mon 11/07/16 07:39 PM
No offense, but you have the perfect scammer profile. No way of knowing for sure. I would remove that from the profile. The honesty jazz can make you look like a con man. Signed, Devils advocate. :^/

Blossom Joined Sat 12/19/15 Posts: 58	Mon 11/07/16 08:26 PM
I would change your profile statement. You have said nothing about your interests. Focus on what your interests are first. You can say you are self employed without giving away your financial status. If you make a connection through this and she has no idea of your financial situation then she probably is interested in you and not your buisness. That can come later as she might be wealthy herself and playing it safe. Trust is thus established that money is not the drawcard.

Tamunerd Joined Sat 11/05/16 Posts: 10	Mon 11/07/16 08:26 PM
This is true but I like to be upfront about it so I can try and read them I guess They might respond to you better if you withhold some things, so as not to appear to brag :-) Tis a great idea to learn to read the signs..when I was dating I would nearly always want to do something that played a game, a physical game, a boardgame..because when push comes to shove, their true personality emerges...and sometimes it can be a real shocker :-) (PS: I liked the way you worked out why you mention the biz :-) I let my wife beat me a games for years. Darts, poker, shuffle board, etc... (except basketball, she stomped me). We are friends now and still gets pissed off when I beat her. Like, she get supper competitive.

SunshineMaryRose Joined Mon 11/07/16 Posts: 4	Mon 11/07/16 09:23 PM
Way to easy of a question. First of all, do not announce that you own a large company. Talk to them for awhile before going on a date. Gold diggers always reveal themselves. Go in the conversation with caution. Not with your heart!

RustyKitty Joined Fri 05/15/15 Posts: 1601	Tue 11/08/16 12:03 AM Edited by RustyKitty on Tue 11/08/16 12:04 AM
A girl has to separate the wheat from the chaf and ya can't blame a girl for making sure the guy she is attracted to, can support her..and/or is at least, self-supporting.. yep, I'm 'old-fashioned' - my next dude better have a stash of green... ha, ha,... wanna play?, ya gotta pay rotflmao Does that make me a gold digger? I just wanna keep my own gold..

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Tue 11/08/16 12:27 AM
He's already deactivated perhaps he already found a pretty 23old who is in love with his personality

HonestSinner Joined Wed 04/20/16 Posts: 9	Tue 11/08/16 01:32 AM
I am avoiding to use that word which i find it sometimes quiet inconsiderate for other When it goes the other way like this.. I met some women, westerner and other nationalities who seem attractive and they don't look highly upon themselves in front of me These are ringing in my ears "What if they think i am after their wealth?" Since i am just a worker who they may know as a fairly paid one Though i may still try to agree with knowing different people expanding the view and those women may too, just remembering that word could send me few steps back, and walk away, then as a guy i'd be looking kinda rude so.. What a word that is

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Tue 11/08/16 02:00 AM
No offense, but you have the perfect scammer profile. No way of knowing for sure. I would remove that from the profile. The honesty jazz can make you look like a con man. Signed, Devils advocate. :^/ He took your advice and deactivated

mkamjika Joined Tue 11/08/16 Posts: 1	Tue 11/08/16 03:53 AM
Pry that is all i have to tell you.You have to devote your self 4 night prayers, then that you are looking for your God will give it to you that is all i have to tell you.

HonestSinner Joined Wed 04/20/16 Posts: 9	Tue 11/08/16 11:51 AM Edited by HonestSinner on Tue 11/08/16 11:57 AM
I might only read the teaching not understanding.. doing the right don't make me good person I've heard it's not only respect that matter to women, but i'm not sure it was intended to me It becomes all grey now There's sin i feel in disheartening others Even when i think i'm doing what is right That is why i'd better not claiming myself religious, or appear like one I wonder if anyone could feel always right (Ups i'd better cut it out, it started to feel not right)