I wonder how many "hi" messages I am going to get after updating my profile.

It doesn't even matter what's inside.

If there were no mail settings I would get messages from men who could be either my sons or my fathers by age. And from other continents as well.

Men should be aware of the fact that they are not the only ones dealing with unwanted attention.

I used to be kind, reply to everyone...and eventually got tired of two word messages from men who just browse photos and decide to say the usual "hi" when they see what they like.

I am not actively looking for anyone now, but I will leave the profile as is, because it really doesn't matter what's inside.

Majority of men don't read them anyways. It is not an opinion, but a fact based on my experience.

Does anyone here seriously believe that profile which clearly states what I want and what I don't shall prevent people who are obviously not a match from contacting me?

I don't. LOL

Back to forums. That's why I came back to Mingle, to begin with. :-)

If you are not willing to allow men to be at their worst you have o right to expect one at his best.... Ignoring idiots is apropos and being patient also helps too Be where you are comfortable but that sounds like in neutral which guarantees being free of jerks but also eliminates any potentials...

Correct observation. I am in neutral position now.

I liked everything but the "ask me for my photo."

Although, I guess if anyone actually READS it, they might ask for one.

Which is the whole point, right? In that case, bravo.

I think it says too little about you. Honestly.

I am reluctant to get in contact with anybody who does not share at least one common ground.

And I love the 1.98.

I wonder how many, Hi I liked what you said in your profile, Emails you will get now

I am not going to generalize and say that nobody reads profiles. That would not be right.
I just can't believe that after writing an honest, opened and profile that left no dilemma about who I am and what I am looking for, so many people just sent an invite (to become online friends) without even a hello (and they are not on the forums) and blew kisses!?
I was tempted to reply using the language I almost never use either online or offline, so...it is all gone.
If there is any meaningful communication online it is here on the forums.
I am going to leave the profile empty and hopefully avoid having to block "hi", nudges and kisses(!?).
Thanks for sharing your opinions.
M2 Forums have very interesting members.
It is a pleasure to meet you, even just virtually.
Thanks! :-)