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Edited by
no1phD
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..why.. are there so many emasculating women out there..?..
I have come to terms with the fact that most women in my life have being cold.,. Ungiving., self-centered.. Dominant.,. Controlling.. lack commutative skills.. and the ability to connect on a deep level... basically thay are .. emasculating women from hell..lol.. Sure sure.. they all start off sugar and spice.. but the red flags are there... thay constantly test your loyalty Your Love.. keep tabs on your whereabouts.. Tell you instead of asking you to do things.. put their needs first.. and make you feel like you can never do enough ..for them..try to control how you go about doing things.. and are always willing to browbeat you over every little thing.. If this sounds familiar you are .. in a emasculating relationship.. with a woman that will suck the life out of you.. just so you don't realize what she's done to you... stand up my brothers... say no! no !.more... look her straight in the eyes and say look woman!!... I'm going into your purse and taking my balls back...lol now get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich.. Oh!! that's right !!..I'm not asking you I'm telling..you... and if you won't. I will find somebody else that will.... but this new woman won't need me to ask..her...lol.. |
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.. first thing on my list of priorities.. must.. not suck at sucking.lol..hi.u..wink.
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Sorry to shatter your illusion that it's the woman's fault and not yours, but I'm going to shatter it anyways: You get what YOU exude. You attract what you ask for.
So if you attract woman that treat you poorly over and over, we can say there is a pattern and that means you have to start looking at yourself. Why are you attracting this? What are YOU giving or not giving? etc. etc. Dates/potential partners only mirror you. Best therapy in the world, and it's free as well :) Quite often people who cannot commit attract people that are needy and clingy. For some odd reason the ones with fear of abandonment fall for the ones with fear of commitment. Since you seem to attract the ones with fear of abandonment... well, do the maths. And then work out why you act the way you do. IF you want a healthy relationship that is. The other options are to keep biotching and blaming women for what you yourself attract OR stay single. |
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Sorry to shatter your illusion that it's the woman's fault and not yours, but I'm going to shatter it anyways: You get what YOU exude. You attract what you ask for. So if you attract woman that treat you poorly over and over, we can say there is a pattern and that means you have to start looking at yourself. Why are you attracting this? What are YOU giving or not giving? etc. etc. Dates/potential partners only mirror you. Best therapy in the world, and it's free as well :) Quite often people who cannot commit attract people that are needy and clingy. For some odd reason the ones with fear of abandonment fall for the ones with fear of commitment. Since you seem to attract the ones with fear of abandonment... well, do the maths. And then work out why you act the way you do. IF you want a healthy relationship that is. The other options are to keep biotching and blaming women for what you yourself attract OR stay single. |
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I believe what is at issue is a power struggle
men call it being emmasculated, but really it is being belittled and condescended to, its hurtful to either gender there has to be a mutual respect , though respect may manifest different ways for each individual the trick is finding the individual who shows you 'respect' the way you want to be respected,,,, |
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I believe what is at issue is a power struggle men call it being emmasculated, but really it is being belittled and condescended to, its hurtful to either gender there has to be a mutual respect , though respect may manifest different ways for each individual the trick is finding the individual who shows you 'respect' the way you want to be respected,,,, |
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Ok. You are having a lot of dating issues going on. I don't know if you are asking any advice or opinions, so I'll leave quietly.
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Hummm seems to me you got a hold of one that likes to control.... Drop them lick your wounds and move on..
But now if you want to use that line on the sammich you might want to think that out for then you would be doing what she is doing...   I've never understood the controlling issues some have... Heck I like my freedom way too much to try to control someone... I like being able to have me time and do as I please.. Sometimes it is hard finding others that want the same thing... but they are out there...  |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Tue 02/07/17 04:06 PM
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Ok. You are having a lot of dating issues going on. I don't know if you are asking any advice or opinions, so I'll leave quietly. |
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Hummm seems to me you got a hold of one that likes to control.... Drop them lick your wounds and move on.. But now if you want to use that line on the sammich you might want to think that out for then you would be doing what she is doing... I've never understood the controlling issues some have... Heck I like my freedom way too much to try to control someone... I like being able to have me time and do as I please.. Sometimes it is hard finding others that want the same thing... but they are out there... Then I would like you to leave.... because I like spending too much time by myself..lol.jk |
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Sorry to shatter your illusion that it's the woman's fault and not yours, but I'm going to shatter it anyways: You get what YOU exude. You attract what you ask for. So if you attract woman that treat you poorly over and over, we can say there is a pattern and that means you have to start looking at yourself. Why are you attracting this? What are YOU giving or not giving? etc. etc. Dates/potential partners only mirror you. Best therapy in the world, and it's free as well :) Quite often people who cannot commit attract people that are needy and clingy. For some odd reason the ones with fear of abandonment fall for the ones with fear of commitment. Since you seem to attract the ones with fear of abandonment... well, do the maths. And then work out why you act the way you do. IF you want a healthy relationship that is. The other options are to keep biotching and blaming women for what you yourself attract OR stay single. Hahaha, you can keep twisting and turning and blame others, No1, it still won't help you. I'm glad I don't have to deal with all that cr@p no more. I took responsibility, faced the facts and learned the lessons. And that paid off big time! I started attracting better men, and I now happen to be with the most masculine and empowered man I've ever come across  The fact that I managed to attract such a man.. well, do the maths! But I loved your comment, I had a good laugh 
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Well like all good emasculating women they have a way of turning the tables, on the guy.... to always spin it ..to seem like he's the one with the problem...lol..
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Sits on the stool .. Wearing a short thigh hugging dress .... No.1 I feel sooooo famished ...could you put your apron on and make me something to eat ... Cute naughty smile And I appreciate the effort in your.. wardrobe decision..lol.wink. |
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Sits on the stool .. Wearing a short thigh hugging dress .... No.1 I feel sooooo famished ...could you put your apron on and make me something to eat ... Cute naughty smile And I appreciate the effort in your.. wardrobe decision..lol.wink. |
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Hummm seems to me you got a hold of one that likes to control.... Drop them lick your wounds and move on.. But now if you want to use that line on the sammich you might want to think that out for then you would be doing what she is doing... I've never understood the controlling issues some have... Heck I like my freedom way too much to try to control someone... I like being able to have me time and do as I please.. Sometimes it is hard finding others that want the same thing... but they are out there... Then I would like you to leave.... because I like spending too much time by myself..lol.jk That is what you got out of that?? Ya know on second thought you better keep her, for you may need someone to tell you what to do all the time~~~  |
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Well like all good emasculating women they have a way of turning the tables, on the guy.... to always spin it ..to seem like he's the one with the problem...lol.. You mean they do exactly what you just did in your OP? Gosh, talk about about the pot and the kettle ... |
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Edited by
Funzy65
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Tue 02/07/17 04:31 PM
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Emasculating Females ?? ...Yup, that can be my problem also.
 I am not afraid or worry if I meet one or more, and we become just friends. I give them a pair of britches and a women's denim overall, some Gumboots and a large cotton scarf, I show them where the plowing field is, and tell them, I will be having lunch ready when they are ready, while I vacuum, do the laundry, and dishes . Oh, I almost forgot, I let them also know that the water is in that wooden barrel under the tree if she thirsty. Problem solved.  |
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..why.. are there so many emasculating women out there..?.. I have come to terms with the fact that most women in my life have being cold.,. Ungiving., self-centered.. Dominant.,. Controlling.. lack commutative skills.. and the ability to connect on a deep level... basically thay are .. emasculating women from hell..lol.. Sure sure.. they all start off sugar and spice.. but the red flags are there... thay constantly test your loyalty Your Love.. keep tabs on your whereabouts.. Tell you instead of asking you to do things.. put their needs first.. and make you feel like you can never do enough ..for them..try to control how you go about doing things.. and are always willing to browbeat you over every little thing.. If this sounds familiar you are .. in a emasculating relationship.. with a woman that will suck the life out of you.. just so you don't realize what she's done to you... stand up my brothers... say no! no !.more... look her straight in the eyes and say look woman!!... I'm going into your purse and taking my balls back...lol now get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich.. Oh!! that's right !!..I'm not asking you I'm telling..you... and if you won't. I will find somebody else that will.... but this new woman won't need me to ask..her...lol.. I have to blame the guy for that, for allowing it to happen in the first place. |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Tue 02/07/17 04:29 PM
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Well like all good emasculating women they have a way of turning the tables, on the guy.... to always spin it ..to seem like he's the one with the problem...lol.. You mean they do exactly what you just did in your OP? Gosh, talk about about the pot and the kettle ... Now if that happens to ring the bell in some people and it shakes them to their core... well like my granddaddy use to say when he worked for the Pony Express... don't shoot the messenger boys..lol |
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cold.,. Ungiving., self-centered.. Dominant.,. Controlling.. lack commutative skills.. and the ability to connect on a deep level IME/IMO that's most of society. thay constantly test your loyalty Your Love Most everyone does that to some degree. That's partly how people learn to communicate, figure out what's going on, where they stand, the relationship. Watch any kid. They are always pushing their parents and siblings to see what they can get away with. You don't know the boundaries to a relationship, you don't know your role in a relationship, until you test them in some way. No different than weeding out profiles. People try to find what they want, as well as define what they don't want. Women test men, men test women, they just learned different tests, they get different information than you would from the same test, and for the most part take for granted and feel justified in their own tests since they "feel" normal and are part of their "normal" behavior. .. it's it open topic add what you wish Specific examples would help. I mean there's a difference in things like "tests your loyalty" between: "Last 4 girlfriends hired hookers to come in and hit on me at work to see if I would cheat on them!" and "She's always pushing me away to see if I'll chase her." |
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