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Edited by
KiK2me
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Sun 11/17/13 07:46 PM
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...........Whatever  I'm not a bad boy ...I'm a good guy with a BAD attitude {snicker}  You're one of the very few good ones. (((Warren)))  Awww geee ... Thank you my sweet lady friend You are pretty special yourself Yo...
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Edited by
milesomally
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Sun 11/17/13 07:41 PM
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The bad boy image is what most girls go after. Its almost like a challenge to see if they can either change him or find the good in him. Unfortunately it always ends up badly with the girl getting attached and the guy dumping her. Then it all repeats over again. Theres not a thing us guys can do about it, we just have to keep moving on until we find something else along the way. |
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All the bad guys I met were very abusive and controlling, so I know better than to ever go near one anymore. And no, not all women want a bad guy. I'm not gonna bother getting into their drama's. What's with all the generalizing? You don't know every woman. Good luck though.
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what i see so much is the belief that attraction is a choice-''attraction is not a choice''the answer to this is self awareness its ''not out there''-
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Seems to me all these women go after the "Bad Boys" and end up getting hurt.And who's usually there for them?The good guys in their life.There's a reason they are called bad boys and that's because they haven't grown up to be real men. That's the reason I asked in my topic "What is this"- Why is it that majority of foriegn people especially American,Uk ladies are always divorcing their spouse or having kid(s) outside wedlock? My answer is because they hangout with bad boys period. |
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Seems to me all these women go after the "Bad Boys" and end up getting hurt.And who's usually there for them?The good guys in their life.There's a reason they are called bad boys and that's because they haven't grown up to be real men. That's the reason I asked in my topic "What is this"- Why is it that majority of foriegn people especially American,Uk ladies are always divorcing their spouse or having kid(s) outside wedlock? My answer is because they hangout with bad boys period. |
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What most guys consider to be a "bad boy" could just be a teddy bear inside who looks tough and a "good guy" could end up being a nightmare if he doesn't get what he thinks he deserves by being good.
This question is far too subjective and implies that the asker thinks all women want the same thing. |
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What most guys consider to be a "bad boy" could just be a teddy bear inside who looks tough and a "good guy" could end up being a nightmare if he doesn't get what he thinks he deserves by being good. This question is far too subjective and implies that the asker thinks all women want the same thing. and "don't judge a book by it's cover." |
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A bad boy is a selfish person who devotes his resources to having the lifestyle of his desire.
If a woman sees the bad boy's lifestyle and wants it for herself, then she may give the bad boy a try. |
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Not all women want bad boys. I have grown up and I know what all that bad boy brings you, nothing but problems. I want a good man with a good heart that I would be proud to bring home to meet my adult children and my Mom. When I was young and was into the bad boy thing, I knew better to bring him home to meet my Mom and Dad because they would be kicking some butt.
I want a good man who doesn't have anything to prove to anyone but me. I want someone who is loyal and honest and wants a good woman. Someone who does not go and sit in a bar and drinks all the time, that is just not my style. |
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I hear that. Too many guys out there pretend to be something until the woman falls for them. Then when their "bad boy" side comes out, it's hard to let them go.
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All the bad guys I met were very abusive and controlling, so I know better than to ever go near one anymore. And no, not all women want a bad guy. I'm not gonna bother getting into their drama's. What's with all the generalizing? You don't know every woman. Good luck though. I have no interest in bad boys....I really have not spent a lot of time with such persons. |
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Seems to me all these women go after the "Bad Boys" and end up getting hurt.And who's usually there for them?The good guys in their life.There's a reason they are called bad boys and that's because they haven't grown up to be real men. That's the reason I asked in my topic "What is this"- Why is it that majority of foriegn people especially American,Uk ladies are always divorcing their spouse or having kid(s) outside wedlock? My answer is because they hangout with bad boys period. anyone who goes into a relationship with the dream or notion of changing their partner IS dreaming....whether man or woman...it's not mentally healthy to try to change another. it's actually very controlling, co-dependent behavior |
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Seems to me all these women go after the "Bad Boys" and end up getting hurt.And who's usually there for them?The good guys in their life.There's a reason they are called bad boys and that's because they haven't grown up to be real men. That's the reason I asked in my topic "What is this"- Why is it that majority of foriegn people especially American,Uk ladies are always divorcing their spouse or having kid(s) outside wedlock? My answer is because they hangout with bad boys period. anyone who goes into a relationship with the dream or notion of changing their partner IS dreaming....whether man or woman...it's not mentally healthy to try to change another. it's actually very controlling, co-dependent behavior I agree; it's also easier to just try to be with a person who has the qualities you want- if you can find them,- instead of trying to change someone else. |
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 Seems to me all these women go after the "Bad Boys" and end up getting hurt.And who's usually there for them?The good guys in their life.There's a reason they are called bad boys and that's because they haven't grown up to be real men. That's the reason I asked in my topic "What is this"- Why is it that majority of foriegn people especially American,Uk ladies are always divorcing their spouse or having kid(s) outside wedlock? My answer is because they hangout with bad boys period. anyone who goes into a relationship with the dream or notion of changing their partner IS dreaming....whether man or woman...it's not mentally healthy to try to change another. it's actually very controlling, co-dependent behavior I agree; it's also easier to just try to be with a person who has the qualities you want- if you can find them,- instead of trying to change someone else. exactly. I can't emphasize the importance of what you are saying. men are visual creatures and will get with a woman based on her looks and then try to turn her into HIS idea of the perfect woman...let's hope she agrees...lol I think women will go for a "bad boy" cuz he seems " exciting" but really he is just immature....then she gets peeved because she can't get him to grow up....all in all waaaaaaaay too much drama...lol |
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No such thing as bad / good on either side some people just bring out the best or worst in a person. It's give and take someone is always at fault aren't you glad it wasn't you
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