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        RustyKitty
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      hmmm... I think I'll go to starbucks..never thought of that,.. for conversation of course.. lol..
 
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     Actually not everyone the same if you decided to turn everyone down by not given them a chance who knows maybe one of are yours. Men are not to be turn down , you need just sit with them and listen to whatever they have to say.  | 
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     Hi Buddy   How are you  | 
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      had supper with my sister Vicky tonight :) how is everyone?
     
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      How does this^^^^^ relate to the op's topic?
     
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     Actually not everyone the same if you decided to turn everyone down by not given them a chance who knows maybe one of are yours. Men are not to be turn down , you need just sit with them and listen to whatever they have to say.   
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      Good morning everyone
     
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      Have a great Friday  
   
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      Just a follow up on my original post:
 
  After all the kind and (not so kind) reply's, I have decided that the overwhelming opinion is that I should lighten up a little and not present myself so self indulged as not to acknowledge people who are just trying to be friendly. This morning, I actually looked up and said good morning and smiled. The moment was quick and ended as fast as it started but I actually made an effort. Thanks to all for the great advice!  | 
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      Very proud of you Karen
     
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      My original thoughts may have been cruel and I am sorry myself
     
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      I want to thank you because your topic has showed me just how people can be cruel to me in because of you I have learned what type of people to avoid
     
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      You are a good lady Karen
     
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      Thank you Buddy, sometimes an honest opinion has it's merits. Have to admit my morning coffee experience has definitely changed. 
     
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     Have to wonder why every time I try to just sit and enjoy a cup at Starbucks by myself, I am usually approached and asked "hows the brew today or something to that effect. Now, I do understand people just being friendly but.. because I am alone really does not mean I am wanting to entertain open conversation with strange guys. Anyone else out there having the same problem? I really hate to be mean so I will try to be a polite as possible but it usually winds up with me having to look at my watch and stating I have to go before I was really ready. Any thoughts or ideas are welcome. studies have shown that's why chicks go to starbucks.  | 
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      Think I am just addicted to their coffee 
    
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      When I am sitting at Tim Hortons; no one normally bothers me but usually the conversation takes place in line and I am the one to initiate it. LOL  Only time I have ever been bothered is when there is someone drunk trying to talk to me. Although; you have me thinking of what a character on Star Trek said. If you wanted to be alone; you wouldn't be in a public place around people. Not saying that sitting alone gives people an open invitation to talk to you but personally when I don't want to to talk to anyone; I grab my coffee and go. You could try bringing a book and pretend to be reading it and maybe that might throw people off. Either way; Op I hope you can find a place to have coffee without someone annoying you. 
     
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      Love your photo!
 
  Yes, do understand that people are probably just being friendly and yup, no ring on finger does make it appear I am seeking friendship (or more) sitting by myself. Have since though about my original post and realized just how smug it make me sound. Have recently make a positive effort to converse an not be so sullen in the mornings.   
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