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I'm average. I have always been average. As my age catches up with me my form changes. Its just the way life is.
To me, making love is not just about sex. Sex is an important part but not the only component. Of the few women I have made love with, their body parts were not a factor unless it got in the way of expressing love. Penis envy is a result of low self-esteem. Chances are if a man feels penis envy or inadequate then other low self-esteem factors are likely playing a part in his life. A woman that requires "equipment" to be fulfilled is shallow. I would seriously question any woman that requires equipment to be a certain size or shape. Making love with her would be a chore not an act of intimacy. Since I love in the moment the X never comes to mind except when reminiscing. During those times, I do think of how my current experiences were to my experiences with her. But since I have 25 years of memories of making love to my X I feel it is not fair to my new love to put much value on those memories. I tend to concentrate on the task at hand, in the moment. We are all different. I have met women that are less than a perfect specimen. I have yet to meet one that is. Including my X. When I meet the one that is perfect to me, I will stop looking. I also realize that as time ravishes our bodies things will change. The moment to moment love shall carry us thru. |
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This is a question I have always wondered about my self....
Well some women say size matters. But They all fit somewhere. I personally never compare. If that chemistry is there, you should be saying EX WHO? It is also not healthy to pine for your ex or try to compare it is detrimental to your new to not be over the old. Not wise to compare I say. No to people are alike. If I really think back on it can't even remember... Lol Could be age kicking in... Like my grandmother always told me Men are like buses just wait 5 minutes another one will be along..... She also said" I don't want someone who doesn't want me". There are plenty of fish sea the sea. Life's too short to be miserable. |
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Why would you need to compare when you yourself said every person is different and unique? and what if your previous lover is already 6 or 10 feet underneath? she might would have slapped you with a skeleton palm. And if you couldn't live without her....well you're welcome to follow suit...but then if you're not yet ready then stay single or make a life-sized doll of her features and bring that doll whereever you go....
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Why would you need to compare when you yourself said every person is different and unique? and what if your previous lover is already 6 or 10 feet underneath? she might would have slapped you with a skeleton palm. And if you couldn't live without her....well you're welcome to follow suit...but then if you're not yet ready then stay single or make a life-sized doll of her features and bring that doll whereever you go.... I think OP is more concerned that women still think about their ex's knob, its functionality and size, missing what they had and what they aren't getting anymore. The question was reasonably nicely hidden in a story. Awkward things to discuss as when a woman hints that what he's got -or how it functions- cannot satisfy her, it'll only get worse. If only men knew they had to do Kegels to keep it up and running, they wouldn't have to worry. But I think most haven't even heard of it... |
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Edited by
Beachfarmer
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Tue 03/21/17 03:24 PM
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 Just the terms "knob" and "kegels" Edit:I am laughing "with" you Chica! Your grip on the nuisances of the American English language astounds me Crystal! ! |
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Hiiii nicenn
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Hiiii nicenn
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Hiiii nicenn
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Hi
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Just the terms "knob" and "kegels" Edit:I am laughing "with" you Chica! Your grip on the nuisances of the American English language astounds me Crystal! ! Your flattering me, Beach, again  Making me want to do a girly twirl... Looks like I'm susceptible to flattery 
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Edited by
Beachfarmer
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Tue 03/21/17 04:28 PM
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Not empty flattery. That was freegin funny!
Perhaps you stumbled on that blindly? Still laughing! 
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Why would you need to compare when you yourself said every person is different and unique? and what if your previous lover is already 6 or 10 feet underneath? she might would have slapped you with a skeleton palm. And if you couldn't live without her....well you're welcome to follow suit...but then if you're not yet ready then stay single or make a life-sized doll of her features and bring that doll whereever you go.... I think OP is more concerned that women still think about their ex's knob, its functionality and size, missing what they had and what they aren't getting anymore. The question was reasonably nicely hidden in a story. Awkward things to discuss as when a woman hints that what he's got -or how it functions- cannot satisfy her, it'll only get worse. If only men knew they had to do Kegels to keep it up and running, they wouldn't have to worry. But I think most haven't even heard of it... |
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Why would you need to compare when you yourself said every person is different and unique? and what if your previous lover is already 6 or 10 feet underneath? she might would have slapped you with a skeleton palm. And if you couldn't live without her....well you're welcome to follow suit...but then if you're not yet ready then stay single or make a life-sized doll of her features and bring that doll whereever you go.... I think OP is more concerned that women still think about their ex's knob, its functionality and size, missing what they had and what they aren't getting anymore. The question was reasonably nicely hidden in a story. Awkward things to discuss as when a woman hints that what he's got -or how it functions- cannot satisfy her, it'll only get worse. If only men knew they had to do Kegels to keep it up and running, they wouldn't have to worry. But I think most haven't even heard of it... Grin, I know, annoying or wot! Keep juggling them balls... That sounded all wrong? Hmmm... Just do some Kegels! You can even do those in the car. Just don't pull funny faces as you do so, haha. You could also get slightly drunk on Scotch or rum... You'll have fun for a long long while -your words- and if she ain't pleased you'd likely not even notice. |
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Not empty flattery. That was freegin funny! Perhaps you stumbled on that blindly? Still laughing! Possibly yeah, but don't matter, as long as you're having fun, and flattering me "Chica" seems to do it for me
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Why would you need to compare when you yourself said every person is different and unique? and what if your previous lover is already 6 or 10 feet underneath? she might would have slapped you with a skeleton palm. And if you couldn't live without her....well you're welcome to follow suit...but then if you're not yet ready then stay single or make a life-sized doll of her features and bring that doll whereever you go.... I think OP is more concerned that women still think about their ex's knob, its functionality and size, missing what they had and what they aren't getting anymore. The question was reasonably nicely hidden in a story. Awkward things to discuss as when a woman hints that what he's got -or how it functions- cannot satisfy her, it'll only get worse. If only men knew they had to do Kegels to keep it up and running, they wouldn't have to worry. But I think most haven't even heard of it... Grin, I know, annoying or wot! Keep juggling them balls... That sounded all wrong? Hmmm... Just do some Kegels! You can even do those in the car. Just don't pull funny faces as you do so, haha. You could also get slightly drunk on Scotch or rum... You'll have fun for a long long while -your words- and if she ain't pleased you'd likely not even notice. And if I could not achieve this goal.. With my Mighty Oak... I would have to rely on kissing her flower Softly.. until her sweet sweet nectar flows.. from that flower..mmmmhmmm.. |
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Edited by
Funzy65
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Tue 03/21/17 05:07 PM
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Go Kristal go..Tell it as it would be, if it could be
LOL...
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personally, I kinda wanna do a girly twirl.
idunno, just sounds fun. Prancing down the street doing girly twirls and skipping too. Innocence lost, ho-hum |
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you guys are all sooooo funny with a capital F.
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Why would you need to compare when you yourself said every person is different and unique? and what if your previous lover is already 6 or 10 feet underneath? she might would have slapped you with a skeleton palm. And if you couldn't live without her....well you're welcome to follow suit...but then if you're not yet ready then stay single or make a life-sized doll of her features and bring that doll whereever you go.... I think OP is more concerned that women still think about their ex's knob, its functionality and size, missing what they had and what they aren't getting anymore. The question was reasonably nicely hidden in a story. Awkward things to discuss as when a woman hints that what he's got -or how it functions- cannot satisfy her, it'll only get worse. If only men knew they had to do Kegels to keep it up and running, they wouldn't have to worry. But I think most haven't even heard of it... Grin, I know, annoying or wot! Keep juggling them balls... That sounded all wrong? Hmmm... Just do some Kegels! You can even do those in the car. Just don't pull funny faces as you do so, haha. You could also get slightly drunk on Scotch or rum... You'll have fun for a long long while -your words- and if she ain't pleased you'd likely not even notice. And if I could not achieve this goal.. With my Mighty Oak... I would have to rely on kissing her flower Softly.. until her sweet sweet nectar flows.. from that flower..mmmmhmmm.. Well... I've been saying this for a few yrs on here, PO a lot of men haha, but... almost every man over 40 has problems with his Mighty Oak (meaning the ex probably had too). It still functions, that's not it, but it's just not as Mighty as it used to be no more. In most cases as far as I know that has to do with the PC muscle not being in good shape anymore. Often times due to sitting to much. And these days, most ppl sit a lot during the day, at work as well as at home. The only way around as far as I know is to do Kegels, to train that PC muscle. And no, training PC muscle doesn't mean spending time online, lol. Look it up. Or.. resort to taking blue pills every now and then. It is a chit thing, cos like I said, it is difficult to discuss as a man's ego is connected to his ability to please his woman. As soon as you address the issue as a woman, you address his ego and sense of masculinity, which won't help the situation. But as far as comparing goes... I've never compared, and from what I've read here so far, I think most women don't. So don't go there yourself.
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