Topic: Am I ugly? ???
BlackPower254's photo
Thu 03/23/17 03:42 PM
it's hard 4 me to get my soul mate here

panchovanilla's photo
Thu 03/23/17 03:50 PM
No luck after 9 whole days????
Well, give it another week.

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Thu 03/23/17 08:25 PM
I could tell you that you're ugly but it's what you think about yourself that really matters.

BlackPower254's photo
Thu 03/23/17 08:58 PM
No woman is replying my messages, They only think Scam, Or don't they believe in an online dating?

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Thu 03/23/17 09:09 PM
Don't view any dating site as your final solution. There's a real world outside of the online experience, take notice of it. Enjoy the chatrooms as much you can and don't get disheartened. You might bump into the love of your life while at your local supermarket. M2 is a place where conversation can be had amongst the forums. Anything else is merely a bonus.

BlackPower254's photo
Thu 03/23/17 10:07 PM
Thanks Funkyjunky

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Thu 03/23/17 10:24 PM
You're welcome BlackPower

TheChamp89o1's photo
Fri 03/24/17 10:49 AM
I tend to not know what to do on social apps, so is it because I'm ugly that I don't get any responses?

AdamaBee's photo
Tue 03/28/17 07:51 PM
very handsome with a beautiful smile

hellobyrd's photo
Tue 03/28/17 11:58 PM
you're profile name is a little off putting. at least to me. you're not ugly. you have to give info about yourself. if someone sees that you didn't put effort into your profile they're going to think that you're just looking for a hookup and that you're not serious about a relationship. on another note, girls aren't used to going after men. they literally get on here and wait for others to message them. well...that applies to men and women. they're lazy or shy/insecure, or both. even the "pretty" girls are scared to approach others. you have to initiate and keep the conversation going but after a while, they're not as talkative or inquisitive than they're probably here for the wrong reasons. you want someone mature and that is willing to put the effort in. but remember, not everyone will be attracted to you, it's just a fact do don't let that get you down and start doubting yourself. the right one will come along if you're patient. you get to be picky too. and last, no matter what, make it fun.

Twintidbits24's photo
Wed 03/29/17 12:18 AM

No luck after 9 whole days????
Well, give it another week.


Yep, and if it still doesn't work add another week, others have been here for years and they didn't complain, except for a few like me, don't know what else to do to hunt down that soulmate of minegrumble

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Wed 03/29/17 10:03 PM
I don't think many people find their soul mate here. I've been here 12 weeks and it all looks very promising
and then things fall apart. I won't say anymore except to say that I don't think the problem is you. I've been
here 12 weeks and no luck either.

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Wed 03/29/17 10:05 PM
I don't think most women here are here for online dating, so the problem isn't you.

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Wed 03/29/17 10:08 PM
Looks are in the eye of the beholder. Who's to say who is ugly? You may be a little different than other
people. I know I am, but I don't think that means anything about being ugly, nor does it apply to you.

BlackPower254's photo
Fri 03/31/17 09:37 AM
very handsome with a beautiful smile



Thanks AdamBee, I gained more courage from you

BlackPower254's photo
Fri 03/31/17 09:40 AM
you're profile name is a little off putting. at least to me. you're not ugly. you have to give info about yourself. if someone sees that you didn't put effort into your profile they're going to think that you're just looking for a hookup and that you're not serious about a relationship. on another note, girls aren't used to going after men. they literally get on here and wait for others to message them. well...that applies to men and women. they're lazy or shy/insecure, or both. even the "pretty" girls are scared to approach others. you have to initiate and keep the conversation going but after a while, they're not as talkative or inquisitive than they're probably here for the wrong reasons. you want someone mature and that is willing to put the effort in. but remember, not everyone will be attracted to you, it's just a fact do don't let that get you down and start doubting yourself. the right one will come along if you're patient. you get to be picky too. and last, no matter what, make it fun.


I'm patient now

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Fri 03/31/17 11:31 AM

you're profile name is a little off putting. at least to me. you're not ugly. you have to give info about yourself. if someone sees that you didn't put effort into your profile they're going to think that you're just looking for a hookup and that you're not serious about a relationship. on another note, girls aren't used to going after men. they literally get on here and wait for others to message them. well...that applies to men and women. they're lazy or shy/insecure, or both. even the "pretty" girls are scared to approach others. you have to initiate and keep the conversation going but after a while, they're not as talkative or inquisitive than they're probably here for the wrong reasons. you want someone mature and that is willing to put the effort in. but remember, not everyone will be attracted to you, it's just a fact do don't let that get you down and start doubting yourself. the right one will come along if you're patient. you get to be picky too. and last, no matter what, make it fun.


drinker drinks

mikejeepyj's photo
Sat 04/01/17 02:41 AM
New to this how I look

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 04/04/17 06:06 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Tue 04/04/17 06:26 PM
Given your age and location I don't want to speak for the local ladies which in a real world scenario you probably want to be hearing your effort.

I can't believe it is that much different than anywhere else.

That means given what a woman from 18-24 wants it's probably not you. That is just the facts of life that most women are more mature in SOME of their wants; serious career direction, education, maybe obtaining the independence and safyey not to mention independence of owning a car, getting married before they get pregnant. Maybe even living away from home.

Your profile doesn't sound like they are even on your long term agenda.

So you could be the cutest thing since kittens and you are dead in the water.

And if you read down through your long and difficult to read profile it kind of sounds like an Peter Pan type that thinks that "dreams come true" by accident.
Even your singular profile shot looks like a half baked effort. Backward hat, no smile, looks like taken in Mommy & Daddy's house.

And here is a truth that even many music fans believe is "How do you know when a musician is lying?
......His lips are moving." Fair?; not really but you know who told me that? A very successful musician.

You can redeem yourself bit you want to correct some of you deficiency and make a really high profile in the forums in Mingleland and on you community . pass out some cards with your email with a big smile maybe your luck will change.