that was a very sweet and nice thing to say i also hope the same things for you and all here in mingle land. im curious to hear what you have to say to your soulmate

A massive what! ? What the blanks go'in on in this thread?

am here

the other half is with me

I would ask, what the ingredients used in making chocolate?

Dear soulmate:

I've been patient. More than patient. Exceedingly patient. To the point where it generates anxiety. Only you can relieve it, the soothing half of my soul. As much as I would like to say I miss you, I cannot. For how can I miss that which I've never had? Or that which I never knew I had?

I'm not perfect. I can be dense and obtuse. But you wield the mallet so well that you know how to knock sense into me without actually hurting me. Sometimes that's what I need....but I'm growing impatient. Another flaw which I've desperately tried to amend. But it is impossible....without you.

somewhere out there beneath the pale moonlight...someone's thinking of me and loving me tonight. (singing and thinking of you)
i am just here

nice one pj

i am paralyzed by the strength of my feelings for you . its like an obsession that i know i have to control before it controls me. i wish this fire inside me never dies as my desire to be with you gets stronger every day.

You were long my Soul mate
before we even meant and will always be
my first last kiss belovid

hi

please make this pain go away

You silly guy,
I guess you've lost your horse and you have a terrible sense for orientation. Buy a map and sit on the first bus, plane or whatever. I'm right here ^^^

I hope you know me when we meet. I suspect I will not remember you if we have even ever met before.

Maybe, if we are willing, we can become mates and develop our souls.

The source of all hurt is having an image about ones self. See Jiddu Krishnamurti on this subject... I'll even get the links for you ;)

Krishnamurti on being Hurt and Hurting others.

You can listen to it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I54SH0IbpzQ&t=2357s

OR You can read it:

http://www.jkrishnamurti.org/es/krishnamurti-teachings/view-text.php?tid=1111&chid=815


Reading/listening to the previous discussion (The discussion prior to the one I am posting for you), will be essential to your understanding.(But I've skipped you ahead to understanding hurt) I believe it is called "The art of listening". Which is also a discussion between Krishnamurti and Dr. Anderson.

Scepticalsoulmate, this last message is specifically for you. I've looked at your profile. Your beliefs will be challenged. Apply every ounce of skepticism you have, for your own sake. But I trust you will recognize truth when you hear/read it.

you were not kidding when you said it will challenge me , most of all my psyche. i am guilty of stuff mentioned by him but then raised as i was it was that result. now the question would be if i should and want to change or totally remove the image that i have lived with all my life....i think only time can make it possible. pain eventually heals and i hope to live happily ever afterv
your posts hurt my mind thanks

missive : you are and will be the one who will fill my happiness cup (trying to be pessimistic now)

oooppsss that was supposed to be optimistic

I'm glad to hear you took the time, and exposed yourself to the material. Instead of shrugging it off. Reality IS stranger than fiction. Ours is highly manipulated, from birth.

I hope you're better off with the knowledge provided. You should however, even question what was discussed. I still have an image. Maybe I would be better off if I wiped it completely. I think we're attached to ours, like Stockholm syndrome.

P.S. Absolutely be positive and optimistic. Just not to the point of ignorance of our reality. Not everything is happy-go-lucky, that's just what they purvey on the TV. It's ok to not always be happy. In actual fact it's abnormal, and not our nature. Light and dark, good and bad, happy AND SAD :P.

Lol I was going to PM you this question but I do not meet your requirements. So I guess I have to whip out the humility and sound like a moron here.

I'm not sure what you meant by missive. Would you please explain? I did define it but I'm still scratching my head. It's actually the first time I've ever encountered that word. I can be pretty thick can't I?

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