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jazzinc's photo
Tue 05/02/17 11:14 AM
Are "tight kisses" friendly kisses? Or are there something more "disguised"?

soufiehere's photo
Tue 05/02/17 12:28 PM

Are "tight kisses" friendly kisses? Or are there something more "disguised"?
Is this something to prevent French kissing?

RustyKitty's photo
Tue 05/02/17 12:32 PM
Is a tight kiss a closed :lips: kiss??
I know of a guy ..doesn't matter who you are...he'll slip you the tongue...poor Grandma!

dreamerana's photo
Tue 05/02/17 12:38 PM
What's the context of the situation

jazzinc's photo
Tue 05/02/17 01:44 PM

What's the context of the situation


Tight kisses = friendly kisses

yes or not

??

no photo
Tue 05/02/17 02:05 PM


What's the context of the situation


Tight kisses = friendly kisses

yes or not

??



Most probably....what about sloppy kisses? Do they equate to not so friendly kisses laugh

no photo
Tue 05/02/17 06:50 PM
Are "tight kisses" friendly kisses? Or are there something more "disguised"?

Are you asking if there are ulterior motives to "friendly kisses?"

Depends on the culture. Some cultures people kiss each other in friendly ways.
I'm thinking the kiss on each cheek hello.

In the U.S. I don't believe there is a whole lot of innocent opposite sex friend kissing going on.

At most there's some occasional cheek pecking going on.

I haven't met very many families that kiss each other on the lips.

I've never really encountered a lot of same or opposite sex "just friends" that do a lot of lip kissing.

I think if two people are "just friends," socialized in the U.S., and there's a constant push to always kiss on the lips, or constant attempt by one person to kiss something of the other person, then there's something more "disguised."


Dodo_David's photo
Tue 05/02/17 06:52 PM

Are "tight kisses" friendly kisses? Or are there something more "disguised"?


Why don't you ask Spiderman and Superman. They are always wearing tights. indifferent

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Tue 05/02/17 09:17 PM
friendly kisses i think doesn't necessarily mean lips to lipsslaphead

mzrosie's photo
Tue 05/02/17 09:27 PM
Edited by mzrosie on Tue 05/02/17 09:29 PM

friendly kisses i think doesn't necessarily mean lips to lipsslaphead


I agree with sceptical. OP didn't say if it was lips to lips.
... and why would you kiss your friend on the lips?





Manturkey1's photo
Tue 05/02/17 09:39 PM

Are "tight kisses" friendly kisses? Or are there something more "disguised"?

Are you asking if there are ulterior motives to "friendly kisses?"

Depends on the culture. Some cultures people kiss each other in friendly ways.
I'm thinking the kiss on each cheek hello.

In the U.S. I don't believe there is a whole lot of innocent opposite sex friend kissing going on.

At most there's some occasional cheek pecking going on.

I haven't met very many families that kiss each other on the lips.

I've never really encountered a lot of same or opposite sex "just friends" that do a lot of lip kissing.

I think if two people are "just friends," socialized in the U.S., and there's a constant push to always kiss on the lips, or constant attempt by one person to kiss something of the other person, then there's something more "disguised."




Id have to agree with this .

However, if there's some kind of connection to get to "cheek pecking" (in the US) aside from the dance floor . That's a way of saying thank you.

Woman to woman- That can be a way to ether entice to the male or she is not interested. spock

jazzinc's photo
Wed 05/03/17 06:35 AM


Are "tight kisses" friendly kisses? Or are there something more "disguised"?


Why don't you ask Spiderman and Superman. They are always wearing tights. indifferent



Ha Ha Ha...very funny Mr human disguised....(see your photo)// you like disguises for sure.

jazzinc's photo
Wed 05/03/17 06:37 AM

Are "tight kisses" friendly kisses? Or are there something more "disguised"?

Are you asking if there are ulterior motives to "friendly kisses?"

Depends on the culture. Some cultures people kiss each other in friendly ways.
I'm thinking the kiss on each cheek hello.

In the U.S. I don't believe there is a whole lot of innocent opposite sex friend kissing going on.

At most there's some occasional cheek pecking going on.

I haven't met very many families that kiss each other on the lips.

I've never really encountered a lot of same or opposite sex "just friends" that do a lot of lip kissing.

I think if two people are "just friends," socialized in the U.S., and there's a constant push to always kiss on the lips, or constant attempt by one person to kiss something of the other person, then there's something more "disguised."




Thank you for your interesting comment// it's appreciated.

jazzinc's photo
Wed 05/03/17 07:02 AM
Kissing is cultural and is attached to social behaviors in different societies.We can't compare kissing between lovers and kissing between friends and family members;but in some societies;the frontier between both groups is close and sensitive.

There are many people very sensible to kissing;and even more to kissing between friends; specially in a expressive way. Kiss + eyes mean something between friends...and very often.

Two friends can share different kind of kisses...

Kisses between Ex lovers is another matter.....:wink:

have a good day!!

msharmony's photo
Wed 05/03/17 07:57 AM
I have no idea what a 'tight' kiss is

I may give someone a friendly kiss on the cheek or even a friendly closed mouth kiss on the mouth

once the mouths are open,,,its more than 'friendship' happening

jazzinc's photo
Wed 05/03/17 08:08 AM

I have no idea what a 'tight' kiss is

I may give someone a friendly kiss on the cheek or even a friendly closed mouth kiss on the mouth

once the mouths are open,,,its more than 'friendship' happening


Between friends; it exists normal or light kisses on the cheeks;but...it exists "tight kisses"...with some discreet pressure on the cheeks or near to lips and a little longer than normal. This tight one can have different interpretations depending in the relationship type.In general; close friends like that.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 05/03/17 08:28 AM
During dating (this is a dating site) I lead a kiss with a tight closed lip to lip light pressure. I do not open my lips until I sense her doing so. It is respect. The 'French Kiss' does not happen until she sets it in motion.
I am told I am a great kisser.

A tight kiss can be sensual if done correctly. It is a matter of pressure and stimulating the nerve endings of her lips. Something that takes focus.

Tight kissing is also sensual when placement of the kiss puts your lips in contact with erogenous zones. I have stirred a woman's desire by kissing her hands, neck, ears and many other parts of her body. It is the method and the location.

You can also kiss in such a way as to not incite passion. Its all in the way you do it. If I am kissed in that manner, I know to back off. When I kiss to show interest but not sensual will my kisses change as well. I kiss differently with a lover to express concern, parting, reunion and sympathy.

Kissing loved ones that are not potential or current lovers is also a different kind of kissing. I will not kiss someone unless I have reason. It is not an uncontrolled act. Passion can make it uncontrolled but that is beyond the mere act of a tight kiss.

Being in the moment helps to judge the kiss you get and the one you give. If you are kissing for the first time, on a date, understand that if that person doesn't want to kiss you, respect that. If you do kiss, be in the kiss and stay in control of yourself until passion changes it. If there is no passion, let it go.


PacificStar48's photo
Wed 05/03/17 10:19 AM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Wed 05/03/17 10:24 AM
When,where,who,and why come in to the process of how I kiss someone. And how I kiss someone usually changes over time.

A casual date would maybe get a handshake air kiss only if they sparked some kind of interest; but it is unlikely that it would be more than a short sweet peck even if I was interested.

It is much more seductive to create passion with your eyes or a lightly held hand, or how you set across from someone and engage them with body language. How you speak,look,and smell. What your manners convey. I have always believed that grace, femininity, and confidence and a dash of humor; (not haughtiness or being snooty or bitchy) was what get men interested and keeps them so. I don't have to slobber all over a man to make him interested.

I find the kiss for a date kind of a juvenile and stilted moment especially if it is forced or the man seems to think he is entitled. I guarantee it will be cold and a singular insult.

I am not a fan of PDA's even when I am very seriously in love with someone. I have been known to detour to the nearest private spot when my loved one returned from deployments but public stuff no.

The time place and desire to actually kiss someone is for him, for us, means something for me and I more likely than not will take my time and linger in the luxury of it. I love kissing and can do it for hours privately.

And Usually I didn't/don't allow people to take me to my home after dates. I have lived in gated communities for years. And almost always transport myself. or the gentleman sends a car/cab and pays for it so the whole at the door thing is rare. I think it is tacky to make professional help pretend they don't see your private moments. And I sure don't want security somewhere getting a buzz being a voyeur.

People I have dated over time would be a different story but usually even the first time someone comes to my home it is a patio party or large holiday gathering so none of that neighborhood gossip garbage. And it would be the rare occasion I would go to a gentleman's home alone if we were not very serious; probably engaged.

I know public tonsil tango, hotel rendezvous, coming in for a drink, and sleepovers are common; but common is never been something I aspired down to.

And it has an "amazing" affect on the dating process. Kind of separates the chaff from the straw. And it also makes men out of boys because then you are not any "body", everybody's, but somebody and yes the woman they want to kiss, not once, but forever.








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Wed 05/03/17 10:20 PM
never had a "tight kiss" . but then i have been told im not a bad kisser too. i think it is always personal and dependent on whos kissing who and the purpose behind it.

jazzinc's photo
Thu 05/04/17 03:07 AM

never had a "tight kiss" . but then i have been told im not a bad kisser too. i think it is always personal and dependent on whos kissing who and the purpose behind it.


As you indicate; you never received kisses like those;but you can give them because you are a good kisser; always we have a first time with that special person in your life. You look beauty and sensual.

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