what bad is gone to!Get it off your chest?

i get alot of compliments on my testomonies & via e-mails from ladies & still no lady yet to be interested in getting to know me & take time to talk... i talk in different forums i'm one of the sweest, very nice, kind guys on this site & keep in touch with my friends...

i have alot of paitence & a good profile, not picky nor predjudice..

i have notice that JSH members have been leaving due to they have found someone & among other things... i'm still here not giving up on my search..

i know that the mutal matches have been in my state & so far there has been a hand ful that claim eithere said yes or maybe to my profile & i e-mail them of general Q?'s & small talk then i get nothing..

i e-mail other ladies from other states & they keep in contact with me & like talking to me.. go figure

not sure what to do? i hate to leave & miss on an opportunity that may come along..

if anybody has any advice please feel free to tell me?

i know i need more pics of my self some ladies already told me that so i will save you the time to mention it me.

i asked ladies to be friends & they accept then when i try to keep in touch find out oh sorry your not accepting e-mails due to age range or not in within miles where they live.. please ladies if this is so can you just tell me up front or just send me an e-mailing stating i'm not in there citeria.. that would be nice.. i'm not the only guy that this has happen to

You can send me a email.

HI Charles. Nothing wrong with you. Most of my friends and contacts are from other states. Don't give up.

I try not to think of all the BAD that is gone...just gets me angry and depressed.....

thank you beth

Please don't give up...................think about how your friends would miss you..........and friendship can turn around and be something else when you least expect it.........no matter what your never alone on here..........because of friends.........I am alone.........and my friends get me through the good and bad times.......without them from on this site........I would be so lonely.......so never give up....you never know what tomorrow will bring.


Yes I know Suz........I should take my own advice

sorry i can't do that due i'm not in your age range

Charles, you're sweet, funny and an excellent dancer You'll meet someone, somewhere. I think we all have the problem with the "mutual" match, I've had probably 60 or so since they began it, and have heard, or heard back from, very few. The person I'm dating now I met on the forums, so go figure

Just keep being you

thank you suzin

thank you snuggles i won't give up

Awww Charles my friend we have been e-mailing back and forth and you are a very caring person with a big heart. There is nothing wrong with you at all. At this time you just have not found that special one for you yet. You will all in due time. Love is one thing in this life we can not rush it is out there for all of us believe me. I have been here much longer than most have. And have not found that special one but you know I feel when the time is right it will happen. Sometimes we try to hard looking for that one. It will happen as they say when you least expect it to happen. Don't try to rush love it will happen automatic and then you will be so happy that it was not rushed for you will know when the right one comes along you will have that feeling deep within your gut one that will make you smile each time you talk to them and it will all be worth while in the end for sure. Just hang in there don't give up but let Nature take it's course. In due time you will see just step back and don't try so hard for a while you might be surpised.

Perhaps I'm an idiot, but I don't understand this thread, and what it's intention is...


Charles, I know you just a bit from your postings here, mostly the Let's Get It Started' thread, and though you and I have never interacted directly, you appear to me to be a sincerely sweet guy. There's nothing wrong with you that I can tell. There are A LOT of sincere, sweet people here and on other sites who feel the same as you, including me from time to time. I get discouraged too and it is sometimes difficult not to let it get me down. I try to keep in mind it will happen when it is meant to and in the meantime try to keep a positive attitude, post in the forums and be a good friend to the folks I've met here. ((Charles))

thank you so much kristi for encouragement & your right i'm not try to rush things i understand what your saying though

(((( robin ))) thank you for your comment i will keep trying to keep a positive attitude on things & cya in Let's Get It Started thread

please i woud like to know if anybody else have to say what i have posted?

i guess that i'm not worthy of having someone speical cry:

This might make you laugh. I'm new and mistakenly emailed people without asking them to be a friend first. It goes to show i really have no clue what I'm doing on here and hopefully people will understand. No one has me to be a friend, so maybe people are afraid of me?

the people not afraid of you they just don't know you the more you post comments in threads & stay in one place like on lets get started people will get to know you & you won't think they are afraid of you.. next time you want someone as your friend just click onto the friennds request it will show a box & you can ask them if you like to be there friend that what i do..

I LOVE FRIENDS!!! You can email me if you want!