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Topic: Do you deserve it?
no1phD's photo
Mon 06/19/17 03:51 PM
Do I deserve it????...OHHHH..DO I !!!!
I deserve it so bad!!!.. like a fat kid getting caught with his hand in the cookie jar..! deserves a spanking...lol.. I totally totally deserve it...

no1phD's photo
Mon 06/19/17 03:51 PM
Edited by no1phD on Mon 06/19/17 03:51 PM
Do I deserve it????...OHHHH..DO I !!!!
I deserve it so bad!!!.. like a fat kid getting caught with his hand in the cookie jar..! deserves a spanking...lol.. I totally totally deserve it... apparently I deserve it so much I had to say it twice..lol

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Tue 06/20/17 06:17 AM

10 of course, and anyone who thinks they are worth less than 10 stop feeling sorry for yourself.


For those of us who answered with numbers less than 10, it's not a matter of feeling sorry for ourselves. Some of us actually know that we're really not in shape, or in a position to really maintain what's needed for a relationship.

I said a 4, because like the OP stated....There are certain aspects of life where I don't feel like I would provide enough, either loving wise, monetarily, or being in the place to feel good enough for the woman of my dreams. spock

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Tue 06/20/17 07:34 AM



We will have to agree to disagree on this
flowerforyou

So what you're saying is mikeys vote doesn't count? huh


I'm sorry Mikey! Of course your vote counts :) You must be a very confident chap, great!
flowerforyou waving

Phew, thanks.
I'm not saying I'm confident it's just that if people feel less of not good enough it will effect there ability in life. So I thought it would be better to have a bit more self esteem and this will help.
I'm far from confident some times.

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Tue 06/20/17 07:38 AM
Edited by Unknow on Tue 06/20/17 07:42 AM


10 of course, and anyone who thinks they are worth less than 10 stop feeling sorry for yourself.


For those of us who answered with numbers less than 10, it's not a matter of feeling sorry for ourselves. Some of us actually know that we're really not in shape, or in a position to really maintain what's needed for a relationship.

I said a 4, because like the OP stated....There are certain aspects of life where I don't feel like I would provide enough, either loving wise, monetarily, or being in the place to feel good enough for the woman of my dreams. spock

I do agree with you scoob, if people, male or female come across as better than you it will make you feel that your not good enough for them but the probable reason is, hang on, I don't know, maybe a class thing?
But what you're able to provide to one person and have a happy life may be not enough for another person. We say here 'high maintenance 'some are
Happy with love and a little family nice little house, others are more into material things regardless of the love!

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Tue 06/20/17 07:43 AM
Me saying a 10 is not me being big headed, just that there is someone for everyone, it's just finding the one

mysticalview21's photo
Tue 06/20/17 07:47 AM
good ? Op ...

I would say some days I do and some I don't ...


not so much I don't deserve it ...
more like finding the right man for me ...
to be comfortable enough ...which to be able to love again ...
they have to be able to except the good and bad in me ...

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Tue 06/20/17 07:48 AM

Do I deserve it????...OHHHH..DO I !!!!
I deserve it so bad!!!.. like a fat kid getting caught with his hand in the cookie jar..! deserves a spanking...lol.. I totally totally deserve it... apparently I deserve it so much I had to say it twice..lol
smile2 Like your new to me picture ...

Twintidbits24's photo
Tue 06/20/17 07:52 AM




We will have to agree to disagree on this
flowerforyou

So what you're saying is mikeys vote doesn't count? huh


I'm sorry Mikey! Of course your vote counts :) You must be a very confident chap, great!
flowerforyou waving

Phew, thanks.
I'm not saying I'm confident it's just that if people feel less of not good enough it will effect there ability in life. So I thought it would be better to have a bit more self esteem and this will help.
I'm far from confident some times.


I have come to learn that positive outcomes come from positive outlook in life. If you feel less of yourself then lesser will be your chances to achieve your goals but if you fill up your spirit and self esteem to the maximum meaning "encourage your own self that you can do it" then it might just happen. Mindset is a big factor in shaping one's life, it also produces cure to some as well.

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Tue 06/20/17 07:55 AM





We will have to agree to disagree on this
flowerforyou

So what you're saying is mikeys vote doesn't count? huh


I'm sorry Mikey! Of course your vote counts :) You must be a very confident chap, great!
flowerforyou waving

Phew, thanks.
I'm not saying I'm confident it's just that if people feel less of not good enough it will effect there ability in life. So I thought it would be better to have a bit more self esteem and this will help.
I'm far from confident some times.


I have come to learn that positive outcomes come from positive outlook in life. If you feel less of yourself then lesser will be your chances to achieve your goals but if you fill up your spirit and self esteem to the maximum meaning "encourage your own self that you can do it" then it might just happen. Mindset is a big factor in shaping one's life, it also produces cure to some as well.

I love it when someone gets a point across better than me
I am English you know laugh
Thanks

Twintidbits24's photo
Tue 06/20/17 08:14 AM






We will have to agree to disagree on this
flowerforyou

So what you're saying is mikeys vote doesn't count? huh


I'm sorry Mikey! Of course your vote counts :) You must be a very confident chap, great!
flowerforyou waving

Phew, thanks.
I'm not saying I'm confident it's just that if people feel less of not good enough it will effect there ability in life. So I thought it would be better to have a bit more self esteem and this will help.
I'm far from confident some times.


I have come to learn that positive outcomes come from positive outlook in life. If you feel less of yourself then lesser will be your chances to achieve your goals but if you fill up your spirit and self esteem to the maximum meaning "encourage your own self that you can do it" then it might just happen. Mindset is a big factor in shaping one's life, it also produces cure to some as well.

I love it when someone gets a point across better than me
I am English you know laugh
Thanks


You're welcome Mikey, I am not confident of myself sometimes but we should encourage our own self to continue striving for a better life and happiness that everyone of us deserves to have as humans :wink:

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Tue 06/20/17 08:16 AM







We will have to agree to disagree on this
flowerforyou

So what you're saying is mikeys vote doesn't count? huh


I'm sorry Mikey! Of course your vote counts :) You must be a very confident chap, great!
flowerforyou waving

Phew, thanks.
I'm not saying I'm confident it's just that if people feel less of not good enough it will effect there ability in life. So I thought it would be better to have a bit more self esteem and this will help.
I'm far from confident some times.


I have come to learn that positive outcomes come from positive outlook in life. If you feel less of yourself then lesser will be your chances to achieve your goals but if you fill up your spirit and self esteem to the maximum meaning "encourage your own self that you can do it" then it might just happen. Mindset is a big factor in shaping one's life, it also produces cure to some as well.

I love it when someone gets a point across better than me
I am English you know laugh
Thanks


You're welcome Mikey, I am not confident of myself sometimes but we should encourage our own self to continue striving for a better life and happiness that everyone of us deserves to have as humans :wink:

flowerforyou

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