Topic: A question for the ladies!
SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 09/02/17 07:14 AM
I'm going to give a workshop that is about getting women 'in touch with their femininity', so the goal is to help empower them.

Some short info to clarify my question that will follow tongue2 bear with me!
The feminine is all about being soft, vulnerable and approachable on the outside, strong on the inside. The masculine is the other way round, and life and society has forced women to mostly become that way too. Often they don't even know it. (this has nothing to do with looks!!)
Thing is, being that way is exhausting for a woman because it isn't natural, and... it has a major effect on what type of men you attract. And when in relationship it affects how the relationship will flow: A man doesn't want another man (a masculine woman) at his side, he wants a woman.

Now, let's say you'd want to do this workshop. What would you like to learn? This can be about you as a woman, about feeling more feminine and relaxed. But it can also be about learning to interact with men (dates, partner) in a better way so your love life will improve.
Mind you, it is not about doing all this for another, it is about you as a woman. It is also not about changing who you are as you don't need changing. It's about millimeter shifts, the goal being that you feel better and happier, feminine.

If this resonates with you on some level, what is it you would like to learn from such a workshop?


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Sat 09/02/17 07:30 AM
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Good points and good topic crystal, hope it goes well flowerforyou

sybariticguy's photo
Sat 09/02/17 07:40 AM

I'm going to give a workshop that is about getting women 'in touch with their femininity', so the goal is to help empower them.

Some short info to clarify my question that will follow tongue2 bear with me!
The feminine is all about being soft, vulnerable and approachable on the outside, strong on the inside. The masculine is the other way round, and life and society has forced women to mostly become that way too. Often they don't even know it. (this has nothing to do with looks!!)
Thing is, being that way is exhausting for a woman because it isn't natural, and... it has a major effect on what type of men you attract. And when in relationship it affects how the relationship will flow: A man doesn't want another man (a masculine woman) at his side, he wants a woman.

Now, let's say you'd want to do this workshop. What would you like to learn? This can be about you as a woman, about feeling more feminine and relaxed. But it can also be about learning to interact with men (dates, partner) in a better way so your love life will improve.
Mind you, it is not about doing all this for another, it is about you as a woman. It is also not about changing who you are as you don't need changing. It's about millimeter shifts, the goal being that you feel better and happier, feminine.

If this resonates with you on some level, what is it you would like to learn from such a workshop?


I'm curious as to what credentials you have if any as a little knowledge is a dangerous thing Dr Michael

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Sat 09/02/17 07:48 AM


I'm going to give a workshop that is about getting women 'in touch with their femininity', so the goal is to help empower them.

Some short info to clarify my question that will follow tongue2 bear with me!
The feminine is all about being soft, vulnerable and approachable on the outside, strong on the inside. The masculine is the other way round, and life and society has forced women to mostly become that way too. Often they don't even know it. (this has nothing to do with looks!!)
Thing is, being that way is exhausting for a woman because it isn't natural, and... it has a major effect on what type of men you attract. And when in relationship it affects how the relationship will flow: A man doesn't want another man (a masculine woman) at his side, he wants a woman.

Now, let's say you'd want to do this workshop. What would you like to learn? This can be about you as a woman, about feeling more feminine and relaxed. But it can also be about learning to interact with men (dates, partner) in a better way so your love life will improve.
Mind you, it is not about doing all this for another, it is about you as a woman. It is also not about changing who you are as you don't need changing. It's about millimeter shifts, the goal being that you feel better and happier, feminine.

If this resonates with you on some level, what is it you would like to learn from such a workshop?


I'm curious as to what credentials you have if any as a little knowledge is a dangerous thing Dr Michael

My credentials I would have thought were obvious syb, I'm a guy laugh
Now let's get our selves out of here. This is for the ladies!

TMommy's photo
Sat 09/02/17 08:23 AM
is credentialing and certification, licensing necessary
if it is a casual encounter group to empower and learn?
not necessarily group therapy? I would think many such things do exist. This is based on Jung? loosely? :)
I wish you well on your endeavor
for yes, we as women know that we often feel like a square peg in round hole
when we are expected to handle a career like a man
the homefront like a woman and be the do-it-all dolly when it comes to balancing all this all the time.
I do see this...many a woman getting really frustrated for as she becomes stonger, takes on more there is a resentment even a hostility
that occurs ..when women realize that they no longer rely on men
to do anything for them
have they become what society as deemed as 'masculine'
if you believe in categorizing certain traits along gender lines..
yes I suppose they have in many respects
is it a good fit? no I don't think it is
if we are expected to take on a so-called man's role in this world
then as women we are expected to ignore our nurturing and caregiving side
many women that suffer ungodly amounts of guilt and anxiety over this
leaving their children in the care of someone else in order to pursue
their career and the almighty dollar because they bought into this idea that in order to be a well rounded woman then this was the goal
to have it all baby..but something will have to give
for there are only so many hours in the day
if you are expected to succeed out there in a 'man's world'
then yes you will have to toughen up if you want to make it
but at what cost? bust balls in the business world
can you put on the apron when you walk in the door at home? do you even want to anymore?
so though I think your premise is good
re-teaching women how to get in touch with their feminity
will not change this expectation we have ( at least in this country)
that women will take on full time careers and do the majority of the childcare and be a warm, supportive spouse.

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Sat 09/02/17 08:50 AM
Sign me up I would like to touch some feminine women...lol...wink.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 09/02/17 01:16 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sat 09/02/17 01:18 PM

Crystal .. would you like me to fly over and do a presentation biggrin then I can detour to Germany afterwards bigsmile

You can come over all right, then we can do a sight-seeing tour of Amsterdam. These days Amsterdam is quite appealing to me... any excuse to go see my :heart: cos I happened to be 'round the corner bigsmile So after waving you goodbye and good luck on your trip to Germany... I'll be off to see him smitten

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Sat 09/02/17 01:18 PM


Crystal .. would you like me to fly over and do a presentation biggrin then I can detour to Germany afterwards bigsmile

You can come over all right, then we can do a sight-seeing tour of Amsterdam. These days Amsterdam is quite appealing to me... any excuse to go see my :heart: cos I happened to be 'round the corner bigsmile

Hey, I'm in Amsterdam in 2 weeks bigsmile

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 09/02/17 01:20 PM



Crystal .. would you like me to fly over and do a presentation biggrin then I can detour to Germany afterwards bigsmile

You can come over all right, then we can do a sight-seeing tour of Amsterdam. These days Amsterdam is quite appealing to me... any excuse to go see my :heart: cos I happened to be 'round the corner bigsmile

Hey, I'm in Amsterdam in 2 weeks bigsmile

Ha, another excuse! Keep them coming!! :smile:
If you want, keep me posted on when you're there.

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Sat 09/02/17 01:22 PM
Edited by Unknow on Sat 09/02/17 01:29 PM




Crystal .. would you like me to fly over and do a presentation biggrin then I can detour to Germany afterwards bigsmile

You can come over all right, then we can do a sight-seeing tour of Amsterdam. These days Amsterdam is quite appealing to me... any excuse to go see my :heart: cos I happened to be 'round the corner bigsmile

Hey, I'm in Amsterdam in 2 weeks bigsmile

Ha, another excuse! Keep them coming!! :smile:
If you want, keep me posted on when you're there.

Arhnem 14 -15 -16th dam 17 - 18th tongue2
Anyway, I'm out of here, this post is for you ladies, hope it goes well flowerforyou