is love too much not good?

yes...

No.

How is loving blindly a good idea? That means that there are obvious red flags, but you choose not to see them.

if the one you love too much doesn't love you back then, not good for you.

Yes

I tried that.
I ended up in a loveless marriage with my neighbors dog.
She was quiet, soft, and loved to use her tongue.
But it just didn't last...mostly due to her cooking skills and being a democrat.


No such thing as "too much" love.
But there is such a thing as "too much" of what people erroneously consider "love."

this song just creeped out instinctively in my mind:
too much love will kill you
if you cant make up your mind
torn between the lover
and the love you leave behind
youre headed for disaster
cos you never read the signs
too much love will kill you every time

(i wonder if the singer is still alive )

Yes

The often romanticized idea of true love being blind, is AT BEST a horrible misunderstanding or misrepresentation.

And, there is no such thing as "loving too much," HOWEVER, it is certainly true that people who think that they DO "love too much," almost always actually don't love anyone at all. Rather, they are just doped up on self-induced brain chemical intoxication, usually sourced entirely in desire, hunger and greed, rather than in love. And just as with alcoholic over-intoxication, brain-chemical over-intoxication can and often is blinding.

But the fact that you discover that you are "blinded by your love" for someone is NOT a reason for celebration. It is a reason for great caution. People have been found to literally murder each other, while in such a state, all because they thought that anything that felt so good, couldn't possibly lead to anything bad.

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Over

Loving blindly and loving too much are not the same thing...
Loving blindly may not be so smart.
Loving too much, there's is no such thing as loving too much. Our entire world, existence and universe is based on love, just that most have forgotten this.
"Love makes the world go 'round" IS true --> Just imagine no one loving anyone or anything anymore on the planet, it would be over with in a flash. We'd simply kill each other off and some pencil pusher would push that button to end it a bit quicker for us all.

What I'm trying to say: just keep loving. Even if the other doesn't love you back. If it is true love, you won't be able to switch it off anyways.
If it is the form of love what most call "true love", then you're going about it the wrong way. That's the needy form of love, the love that expects something in return. That is NOT true love.
That form of love says: "I lovely as long as you give me this/do that for me/blablabla."
That is NOT true love...

If you feel true love, you should never stop it, and you couldn't even stop it if you tried, nor would you try, because to love and to be love is all that matters in life. It makes you jump for joy, happy, elated. It makes you shine from the inside out.
And when you truly love, it won't matter if the other feels the same way. You will love them regardless.

love is a feeling, there can't be too much of it

what matters is how we ACT upon that feeling or allow it to manifest

I had this discussion with my son. His father was and will probably remain the great love of my life. We literally grew up and matured TOGETHER. We went through and survived more together than I can even imagine being able to endure now. I still love him to bits. Yet, as we grew and matured our values, standards, goals, and lifestyle grew apart into an incompatibility that at the time, I could not ACT upon with the patience to endure.

And even though they both occasionally hint at the notion of a reunion, I believe that the incompatibility of the above mentioned things would most likely still be there.

in a romantic relationship, 'all you need is love' is not true,, you also need compatibility or else the love begins to feel very empty and unfulfilling and that his hard to endure for very long and often can turn to other much more negative emotions....

Loving blindly imo would be a one way love situation, ie. you love him /her regardless of there actions. blind to the way they treat you, blind to infidelity, blind to everything they do.

Well when I was younger my Father used to say, if you don't stop playing with that thing you'll go blind.

But I loved playing with it. So I'm not sure of the answer, hope this help.

will kill you of course

Sometimes love is! But be realistic unless you are a teenager!!!

It's always sad when we mistake love for the void we fill for our own fear. That think fear is powerful when and if you blind love which a lot so take some that is for moment working but forgot to actually look at the bond then it is over so it's his or her fault and yes it's both rush to settle because to scare to make the decision early or worse not in tune to see till it's past point of to late. And love these days is thrown around so much and the personal fears being alone. These plus list of al the crsp that's blocking progression if your actively purse love you'll fail cuz I place pressure on u and then to develop and maybe miss the chance to grown in love or be open to leave a situation knowing love didn't die of was ever there just the damage of having healthy trust in that person we I think sometimes admit we are trying to get thru life achieving the check list of society description to success and in to many cases it's the line min life comes that the fact of not realizing your real live in life wasn't there and the ability to let blame go seperate action with whokr self and that the only real thing holding back happiness is that you cheated your self. Picked wrong partner cuz he provides or doesn't challenge or that the and is able to force the line to cimtune until it can't. Love is a rare thing that I'm not sure can be lost but.. more important lots South time energy missy wasted I'd had gone or say why not do your run. I essay not xuzyi know a you're comtrplinh action for possible tool to reuse

I know I'm guilty probsbly a lot to do with stress in life especially if get that love when transition to adult and the team makes less scary but the worse part is when both are unsatisfied with life as while cuz blindly labeled love and settled or confirmed to a career that was your passion and jealous when you see success in actual happiness around but it's hard to think at a time with little life experience that a didvory of that size can be done or is it love changes as you grow and if other is different idea's and goals oppps yhstx it on that blind mistake. I hope as I try to think about I'm most in control of the life I'm living so don't spend time angry at the person or closed off to next person cuz ur searching for love. Is seems like forcing something that's pretty specific so what do I know I'm divorced and failed at rest

Loving blindly has been the only thing i regret!