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what do u do if your patner is obsessed with you and has hit you when in rage.he is a good man and promise never to do it again.how
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what do u do if your patner is obsessed with you and has hit you when in rage.he is a good man and promise never to do it again.how i think you know the answer here, unless you like to be hit by men.... |
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Humm.. myself I would end the relationship and walk away....
Violence is not love....Regardless how good of a person they are abuse is not worth sticking around if you value your life...  But...only you can make that move.. or help him make excuses why he is the way he is... good luck and hope you make the choices that are right for you~~~ I have known those that took the abuse for many years and it brought them down to the point they felt they were worthless.. Get out before that happens.. |
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am not the victim.so stop d inusult pls.it just a topic.cause most celebrities suffer from one violence or d other.
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Edited by
yellowrose10
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Thu 09/14/17 11:51 AM
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It isn't always as simple as just walking away. There are many factors involved amd might be different for different victims.
But, as far as the OP, love isn't abusive. You have to get it in your head. You can't change or save another. You can only protect yourself. Until you see it, nothing will happen No one is being insulting. People are speaking their truth! |
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am not the victim.so stop d inusult pls.it just a topic.cause most celebrities suffer from one violence or d other.  whatever... the "celebs" are IDIOTS if they stay with someone that hits them...
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If you want to discuss celebrities or someone else, indicate that. No one can read your mind.
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Walking away isnt as easy as it seems.there is legal battle,emotional truama,fear of the unknown,kid emotional health and so on.its quit difficult.
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Walking away isnt as easy as it seems.there is legal battle,emotional truama,fear of the unknown,kid emotional health and so on.its quit difficult. ok, so it's easier to stay and get beat up...good luck with that, "celebs"... |
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Edited by
Piscesmoon02
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Thu 09/14/17 12:33 PM
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Walking away isnt as easy as it seems.there is legal battle,emotional truama,fear of the unknown,kid emotional health and so on.its quit difficult. Yes, it can be difficult, but not impossible. There are resources available to domestic violence victims to help with a safe plan for getting out. Fear of the unknown.... you have no idea if next time it will result in death of you or the children, so fear that unknown and get a safe plan for escaping before it's too late! Domestic violence never gets better without separation and intense therapy, if you want to fix the relationship that is. It only gets worse, the "I'm sorry, it will never happen again" is only a manipulation tactic. It will happen again, because you have now given permission for it to by staying. Sorry if that sounds harsh, I speak from experience, personal and professional. |
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Regardless of who the victim is, I would either stop the violence or call the police. That includes child abuse. I refuse to stand idle while someone is being beat up. How about I say "I'm Sorry" while I pound your face in? Apologizing before, during or after physical violence doesn't make it alright...EVER!
But he or she may be sick or mentally challenged. Go be sick or mentally challenged someplace else. Go to the hospital and stay there till you are well. Stop beating on other people. |
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what do u do if your patner is obsessed with you and has hit you when in rage.he is a good man and promise never to do it again.how I would leave or have him leave - once someone hits you they will do it again. I've known several women who were in abusive relationships and you need to think of your own safety. You might think that he's a "good man" but he obviously has problems there is never a good reason for a man to hit a women. The longer you stay, the harder it will be to get out. |
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if he's a good man he would never hit a woman. I know it's hard and scary to leave but you have to do it. you deserve so much better than that.
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what do u do if your patner is obsessed with you and has hit you when in rage.he is a good man and promise never to do it again.how Never been in the same situation but definitely would have left that person. |
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Edited by
mysticalview21
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Wed 10/25/17 07:09 AM
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OP ...I would just know they will do it again ...
they say that all the time ... violence in a relationship is a toxic relationship ... whether physical or mentally ... it is their insecurity that can lead to this ... or something that their using that can compact the abuse ... and there should be know reason for this from men or women ... I was able to seek out help ... becouse you start to feel its your fault... know they should never be abusive to you... kind like rape u say know ...means know ... happens it is not your fault ... same in this kinds of relationship ... they want to control you and when they can't they abuse you... believe me I am old enough to know ... you want to stay with them... take your chances ... this is not love ... but if you still do... seek out help for the both of you ... or just for yourself... 
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