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There are a few, it would be nice if there were more. Especially in the forums because that's where you'll find the more genuine people. I've met wonderful friends here which keeps me coming back. And maybe someday I'll meet that special guy too. either here in the forums or locally in the real world.
And yes, to each his/her own. :) Enough said though, we're getting off topic... my fault, haha. |
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My mistake ... I was being presumptuous, believing that this site was primarily a dating site, especially since everyone I have seen on here seem to be looking for some kind of a relationship. No matter ... to each, his/her own. It *is* a dating szite primarily (unfortunately, I run across very very few real, legit people).. But, as I am in an older demographic...and many guys have an ED issue when they get older....I really don;t care if they are functional in *that* way (of we have a ton of other things in common)...there are TONS of other ways to be close and have "personal time" (only limited by one's imagination  I know 2 guys (not anyone I'd date for oter reasons which are not relevant here, but if you MUST know, PM me) who have given up on dating, because they think no woman will want them because of their condition..that's just sad..  Yes, they know about the "pill"...just really don't care anymore.. So, in summation..one doesn't necesarily equate the other (date=sex), not for *everyone*...people are different, and want different things.. The only problem with that is when two people with vastly different expectations link up...which it is why it is so important to talk for a while before meeting...discuss certain issues/ deal breakers....  |
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It is what it is.......some women just don't want to be asked what size bra we wear, or what we wear to bed , or if we date a lot ( which is a round about way for a man to see if the woman is sexually active, because most men think date=sex). So whatever blows your skirt up, even though I am only here to create havoc and dissension I still receive messages, obviously some men can't take the time to read a profile
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My mistake ... I was being presumptuous, believing that this site was primarily a dating site, especially since everyone I have seen on here seem to be looking for some kind of a relationship. No matter ... to each, his/her own. It *is* a dating szite primarily (unfortunately, I run across very very few real, legit people).. But, as I am in an older demographic...and many guys have an ED issue when they get older....I really don;t care if they are functional in *that* way (of we have a ton of other things in common)...there are TONS of other ways to be close and have "personal time" (only limited by one's imagination I know 2 guys (not anyone I'd date for oter reasons which are not relevant here, but if you MUST know, PM me) who have given up on dating, because they think no woman will want them because of their condition..that's just sad.. Yes, they know about the "pill"...just really don't care anymore.. So, in summation..one doesn't necesarily equate the other (date=sex), not for *everyone*...people are different, and want different things.. The only problem with that is when two people with vastly different expectations link up...which it is why it is so important to talk for a while before meeting...discuss certain issues/ deal breakers....
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Sometimes sexual banter can be fun. We are individuals, and set our own boundaries. Saying that, it’s seems many of the men I have talked to have gone there quickly, I don’t understand that. I guess it’s best to to keep looking, and communicating
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I think someone here needs some sex. And what if I'm a psycho and a retard and like sex too, is that a bad thing ? You wish, that only going to happen in your dreams |
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I think each individual female needs to assess for herself how far it has gone based on your comfort level, if it gives you the creeps or turns you off then move on, or at least let him know you are offended. Maybe he will wise up, maybe not. I know it turns me off if it goes beyond flirty. I want to be treated like a lady while online, things can escalate naturally if a real relationship develops in person over time, and I do stress in person over time.
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It has happened so many times. The first hint of any man being downright crude, I block. And if each and every other message from the guy is about what they want to do with me, will get a warning. Especially when it's from guys that you have hardly known..
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I think I've been doing this long enough.. that All men think with their *****. and when it comes up immediately, or later down the line I'm already expecting it.Im a grown woman. By this time I can read a man's profile and know exactly where he's going to go with but unfortunately I would have to agree with the fact that sex is very important and at some point it is going to come up in a conversation before you meet. I had to go to website that was more geared towards sexual preferences. Because a lot of men my age just was not going to work for me. weather I'm playing or I'm serious about playing you should grown up enough to be able to deal with it. I learned there are three things for happy healthy relationship that's respect communication and I'm very healthy sex life so I might be the first one to talk about sex and if a man's I'm comfortable I can certainly stop or they can block me vice a versa
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I always talk with respect, unless they are fake of course because with fakes everything is permitted,i never bring up the sex talk first i leave it to the lady if she doesn't bring it up i do not but i have to say that it always happens , we always end up talking about it.
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sex really come on guys
in the beginning of any relationship there should be no mention of sex. it should be about common interest and where and what you've experienced in those common interest. and then maybe discussing sharing these interest together. sharing a common interest is far better than sex, for one in last all day and the memory will last a lifetime... now put that in your pipe and smoke it guys....." living the dream" |
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 Ditto what I posted in 2019 . Wonder what moto will say when he sees this thread revived again !!!! 
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I would like to thank mingle for helping me hone my skills in deflecting unwanted attention ., .. thank you mingle
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I want someone i can spend the rest of my life with... no drama or BS i'm tired of the games... If we chat on hangout or whatsapp sometimes they ask if i like sex who doesn't
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Havoc and chaos. Yes! Food for the soul
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Sex can be a very important topic of conversation when handled correctly. I believe the key is maturity and respect. I have talked with women that take offense at any mention of anything of a sexual nature. To me it indicates an immature sexual maturity and removes them from my interest. As adults, chances are anyone I will meet is not a virgin. I certainly am not. I like sex. It isn't my sole reason for being but I expect it with someone I love and if we can't even talk about sex there is something wrong. Again, I stress, Maturity and Respect. The maturity and respect has to flow both directions. Sadly, I know from talking to a multitude of women that have to contend with constant assults by men that have no sexual maturity or respect, the reflex is to take offense at anything sexual in nature. Sexual maturity and respect is very important to me when considering an intimate relationship. The only way to make that determination is to discuss sexual things. There is a difference between discussing and assaulting. I agree. It is an important part of a relationship. You need to have some type of discussion or flirting or even a little sexting. It's all part of getting to know each other. It has to be handled correctly tho as you said. There are guys that jump right in and get suggestive or even gross right from the word Hello. That's an immediate Block. |
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Or maybe he finds you so attractive…he can’t help himself
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Or maybe he finds you so attractive…he can’t help himself
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Or maybe he finds you so attractive…he can’t help himself
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I’m repeating myself aren’t I ?
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