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Topic: How to start conversations with women?
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Wed 10/11/17 06:41 AM
Hey hello how are you¡ Hope u all are ok. Let we discuss how to start good and impressive conversation with women's. women's you can also share your opinions. Well am talking about how to start conversations which may lead to love or some kind of interest? Its will be pleasure for me to know your views. Thank you

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Wed 10/11/17 07:40 AM
When in doubt whip it out.

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Wed 10/11/17 07:51 AM
Edited by d__u__b on Wed 10/11/17 07:51 AM
"hi" has usually been good enough for me.


(you may also notice a decrease in solitary confinement as well.)
just a thought.

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Wed 10/11/17 07:48 PM
How to start conversations with women?

Depends on a lot of things, but generally it doesn't matter all that much what you say
Conversations start well before you open your mouth, and most information they receive is not from what comes out of it (or via your fingers if online).

If you're doing it in person, body language and the ratios of your face and body (what triggers attraction) are the most important things that will influence how much she focuses on what you say, changes her mood to receptive. Generally followed by the situation and how you are dressed. (which is generally true for human beings in general.

People say confidence is key, but most don't (seem to at least) understand why.
When you're confident your body language is relaxed and open.
You feel secure and safe, slightly authoritative.
When you're nervous or scared you're tense throwing off body language (communication) of fear.

There's a reason why when one person laughs, others do too, or yawn, or mass hysteria, or when people drive by an accident they slow down and look around.
People take their cues on how to behave, think, and feel from the world around them.
When you call attention to yourself by interacting with them, their focus of the world is centered around you.

If you're telling them (via body language) everything is safe and secure, they will feel safe and secure.
If you're telling them there is danger, there is something to be nervous and scared of, they will slow down and look for the danger of what they should be scared of.
If you throw out mixed messages of insecurity and laughter, they will respond with mixed messages, not sure how to act, at best adopting a social facade in order to get away so they can try to figure out if there is danger or something good they can pursue.



If you're doing it on an online dating site, your picture is the most important thing. It's the only thing that potentially offers first impression body language for her by which she can judge your approach. Secondly is the general tone of your profile. Best thing to do is find a profile of a woman you wish to interact with. Then tailor your profile (with truthful things about yourself) to complement/mirror the tone of hers.
Whatever you send her, continue the tone of your profiles.

Well am talking about how to start conversations which may lead to love or some kind of interest?

Start the conversation for the sake of the conversation and what you wish to say to them, saying something you are comfortable expressing.

If all you're worried about is getting to love, or just want some kind of feedback that validates a desire for her interest, then you're operating with ulterior motives.

Ulterior motives tend to be reflected in speech by what you don't say, or avoid saying, and will come across little differently than insecurity and fear or mixed messages, engendering a similar response from her.

Or IOW, "be open, honest, and yourself," but do some critical thinking first to determine if what's she's expressing (from her looks, tone, body language, profile) seems compatible or complementary to what you wish to express to her.
Her conversation with you started the moment you noticed her.

Doesn't really matter what you say. With the caveat I assume you are a normal human being with basic socialization from the same culture, where you don't just talk about your penis or how big your turds are every morning or that you like to kill people.

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Wed 10/11/17 08:43 PM
Edited by shahzzzad on Wed 10/11/17 08:45 PM

How to start conversations with women?

Depends on a lot of things, but generally it doesn't matter all that much what you say
Conversations start well before you open your mouth, and most information they receive is not from what comes out of it (or via your fingers if online).

If you're doing it in person, body language and the ratios of your face and body (what triggers attraction) are the most important things that will influence how much she focuses on what you say, changes her mood to receptive. Generally followed by the situation and how you are dressed. (which is generally true for human beings in general.

People say confidence is key, but most don't (seem to at least) understand why.
When you're confident your body language is relaxed and open.
You feel secure and safe, slightly authoritative.
When you're nervous or scared you're tense throwing off body language (communication) of fear.

There's a reason why when one person laughs, others do too, or yawn, or mass hysteria, or when people drive by an accident they slow down and look around.
People take their cues on how to behave, think, and feel from the world around them.
When you call attention to yourself by interacting with them, their focus of the world is centered around you.

If you're telling them (via body language) everything is safe and secure, they will feel safe and secure.
If you're telling them there is danger, there is something to be nervous and scared of, they will slow down and look for the danger of what they should be scared of.
If you throw out mixed messages of insecurity and laughter, they will respond with mixed messages, not sure how to act, at best adopting a social facade in order to get away so they can try to figure out if there is danger or something good they can pursue.



If you're doing it on an online dating site, your picture is the most important thing. It's the only thing that potentially offers first impression body language for her by which she can judge your approach. Secondly is the general tone of your profile. Best thing to do is find a profile of a woman you wish to interact with. Then tailor your profile (with truthful things about yourself) to complement/mirror the tone of hers.
Whatever you send her, continue the tone of your profiles.

Well am talking about how to start conversations which may lead to love or some kind of interest?

Start the conversation for the sake of the conversation and what you wish to say to them, saying something you are comfortable expressing.

If all you're worried about is getting to love, or just want some kind of feedback that validates a desire for her interest, then you're operating with ulterior motives.

Ulterior motives tend to be reflected in speech by what you don't say, or avoid saying, and will come across little differently than insecurity and fear or mixed messages, engendering a similar response from her.

Or IOW, "be open, honest, and yourself," but do some critical thinking first to determine if what's she's expressing (from her looks, tone, body language, profile) seems compatible or complementary to what you wish to express to her.
Her conversation with you started the moment you noticed her.

Doesn't really matter what you say. With the caveat I assume you are a normal human being with basic socialization from the same culture, where you don't just talk about your penis or how big your turds are every morning or that you like to kill people.

Pleasure to have your opinion. This is really informative and this is i actually want to know thank you

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Wed 10/11/17 08:49 PM

Hi

Hello :no_mouth:

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Thu 10/12/17 12:38 AM

Hey hello how are you¡ Hope u all are ok. Let we discuss how to start good and impressive conversation with women's. women's you can also share your opinions. Well am talking about how to start conversations which may lead to love or some kind of interest? Its will be pleasure for me to know your views. Thank you


Having read their profile what's sparked your interest in them, for example, maybe they enjoy hiking and you do as well, so start off by mentioning this mutual interest as an ice-breaker. Good luck.

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Thu 10/12/17 04:43 AM


Hey hello how are you¡ Hope u all are ok. Let we discuss how to start good and impressive conversation with women's. women's you can also share your opinions. Well am talking about how to start conversations which may lead to love or some kind of interest? Its will be pleasure for me to know your views. Thank you


Having read their profile what's sparked your interest in them, for example, maybe they enjoy hiking and you do as well, so start off by mentioning this mutual interest as an ice-breaker. Good luck.

Thank you for your suggestion.

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Thu 10/12/17 04:47 AM

Hi
go get um, tiger

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Thu 10/12/17 04:54 AM
Edited by TMommy on Thu 10/12/17 05:00 AM
1 criticize something they are wearing
" what is that on your head?" or " your'e gonna fall with those heels"
chicks dig that sort of thing
2. then move right into body parts..
" how short are you? did your mama skimp on food growing up?"
" is one of your legs shorter than the other?"
3. say something nasty about her family
" your brother is the biggest douche I think I have ever met"
4. when she says what she does for a living ...laugh
5. look at her with disbeleif and disgust and say " you gonna eat all that?"

Stu's photo
Thu 10/12/17 04:59 AM

1 criticize something they are wearing
" what is that on your head?" or " your'e gonna fall with those heels"
chicks dig that sort of thing
2. then move right into body parts..
" how short are you? did your mama skimp on food growing up?"
" is one of your legs shorter than the other?"
3. same something nasty about her family
" your brother is the biggest douche I think I have ever met"
4. when she says what she does for a living ...laugh
5. look at her with disbeleif and disgust and say " you gonna eat all that?"


rofl thank you for the morning laugh rofl

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Thu 10/12/17 05:05 AM

1 criticize something they are wearing
" what is that on your head?" or " your'e gonna fall with those heels"
chicks dig that sort of thing
2. then move right into body parts..
" how short are you? did your mama skimp on food growing up?"
" is one of your legs shorter than the other?"
3. say something nasty about her family
" your brother is the biggest douche I think I have ever met"
4. when she says what she does for a living ...laugh
5. look at her with disbeleif and disgust and say " you gonna eat all that?"


now i see how where i went wrong and why the big green showed up.

youse gurls should have da rulz tattooed in a prominent place

shahzzzad's photo
Thu 10/12/17 11:15 PM

1 criticize something they are wearing
" what is that on your head?" or " your'e gonna fall with those heels"
chicks dig that sort of thing
2. then move right into body parts..
" how short are you? did your mama skimp on food growing up?"
" is one of your legs shorter than the other?"
3. say something nasty about her family
" your brother is the biggest douche I think I have ever met"
4. when she says what she does for a living ...laugh
5. look at her with disbeleif and disgust and say " you gonna eat all that?"

Don't be angry na.:rolling_eyes:

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Thu 10/12/17 11:20 PM
TMommy
Thank you for your words.
i can understand i will follow the opposite mean i never ever gonna use this stuff with anyone:joy::joy:

mightymoe's photo
Fri 10/13/17 10:26 AM

1 criticize something they are wearing
" what is that on your head?" or " your'e gonna fall with those heels"
chicks dig that sort of thing
2. then move right into body parts..
" how short are you? did your mama skimp on food growing up?"
" is one of your legs shorter than the other?"
3. say something nasty about her family
" your brother is the biggest douche I think I have ever met"
4. when she says what she does for a living ...laugh
5. look at her with disbeleif and disgust and say " you gonna eat all that?"
women always seem to like it when you ask them "how much" as well...

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Fri 10/13/17 10:43 AM
just bonk 'em with a rock. that usually gets their attention.

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Fri 10/13/17 10:45 AM

just bonk 'em with a rock. that usually gets their attention.


Dude... stop.rofl

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Fri 10/13/17 11:09 AM


just bonk 'em with a rock. that usually gets their attention.


Dude... stop.rofl


well, ya gotta stop. otherwise they just lay there all quiet n shite.

wait... hmmmm

Stu's photo
Fri 10/13/17 11:13 AM



just bonk 'em with a rock. that usually gets their attention.


Dude... stop.rofl


well, ya gotta stop. otherwise they just lay there all quiet n shite.

wait... hmmmm


rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Fri 10/13/17 11:25 AM
Reading the answers and your pleasant replies you come across as a nice kinda guy.

I think you'd do just fine if you just stopped concerning yourself with it.
Women will soon latch onto your good nature. @Ciretom hit the nail on the head I think.

Good luck.

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