Topic: Ghosting
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Tue 10/24/17 03:27 PM
Ghosting (relationships) - Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ghosting_(relationships)

Ghosting refers to the act of breaking off a relationship (often used in the context of intimate relationships) by ceasing all communication and contact with the former partner without any apparent warning or justification, as well as avoiding and/or ignoring and refusing to respond in any way to the former partner's ...

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Tue 10/24/17 03:29 PM

Ghosting (relationships) - Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ghosting_(relationships)

Ghosting refers to the act of breaking off a relationship (often used in the context of intimate relationships) by ceasing all communication and contact with the former partner without any apparent warning or justification, as well as avoiding and/or ignoring and refusing to respond in any way to the former partner's ...
..ohhhh.. I've had this happen to me that's not fun..lol... but still kind of sounds like being dumped without closure

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Tue 10/24/17 03:41 PM
To start, I only heard of the term ghosting about a year ago. I took it to mean when two people on the internet are talking often and appear to like each other, and this goes on for weeks or months, then one person stops. That person comes back again to chat after a long period of time, then does it again.

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Tue 10/24/17 05:12 PM

Ghosting (relationships) - Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ghosting_(relationships)

Ghosting refers to the act of breaking off a relationship (often used in the context of intimate relationships) by ceasing all communication and contact with the former partner without any apparent warning or justification, as well as avoiding and/or ignoring and refusing to respond in any way to the former partner's ...


Not meaning to dispute your word, but this doesn't sound right. Like, I've had different women at different times to be talking to me and they would tell me that they thought I was a good guy. I've had them to tell me that talking to me was like a breath of fresh air because of how other men talked to them. I've had several very good conversation.

And when I would finally ask if they would like to meet, POOF, Gone. And never answer another message I sent. But, would still go back and forth to my profile looking. But never speak another word to me. Which is OK. Because by that time they've creeped me out. But still, want to "ghost" my profile. This is the kind of ghosting I thought the thread was about.

LitEduc8r's photo
Sat 10/28/17 08:12 PM
I think ghosting is passive aggressive and lacks courage. I’ve always appreciated it when I’ve been chatting with someone or even after a date and she tells me she doesn’t think we are a good match. I try to do the same rather than leaving people hanging. I was recently breadcrumbed (breadcrumbing is similar to ghosting) by a women who things were going wonderfully with. I am learning to look for earlier warning signs of communication issues and set my boundaries earlier.

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Sat 10/28/17 08:15 PM

Ghosting (relationships) - Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ghosting_(relationships)

Ghosting refers to the act of breaking off a relationship (often used in the context of intimate relationships) by ceasing all communication and contact with the former partner without any apparent warning or justification, as well as avoiding and/or ignoring and refusing to respond in any way to the former partner's ...


Well crap, I think I have been ghosted upon then. tears

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Sat 10/28/17 11:15 PM
I think ghosting is from peeps with damaged ego's.

They invest enough of themselves with their best behavior to get the validation that they are indeed 'awesome' to someone. Once they get it, they have no use for you. abuh byeee.

Or

They got caught by their s.o.

Either way, you are well shot of them.


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Sun 10/29/17 01:16 AM
i think you folks have ghosting wrong,
my experience of ghosting is when someone takes your name and uses it to talk to someone else you know.

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Sun 10/29/17 01:51 AM

I think that is called Blagging.

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Fri 11/03/17 08:05 AM
I often wonder why people do that online. I mean I have meet that is conversation. Like for example. I meet this guy I was talking with and I was in fact enjoying the conversation. They where not promising to date me. It was a basically friendship and then randomly stopped. I was basically wonder what in the world happened.

Why do people do that?

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Fri 11/03/17 02:37 PM
Breadcrumbing? That's a new one to me.

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Fri 11/03/17 04:00 PM


Ghosting (relationships) - Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ghosting_(relationships)

Ghosting refers to the act of breaking off a relationship (often used in the context of intimate relationships) by ceasing all communication and contact with the former partner without any apparent warning or justification, as well as avoiding and/or ignoring and refusing to respond in any way to the former partner's ...


Well crap, I think I have been ghosted upon then. tears


me too, PW tears

thanks, peggy... I didn't know what ghosting was... now I know. It's like pretending one is dead or been kidnapped and lost all ways of communication. So sad.

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Fri 11/03/17 04:33 PM
hii

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Sat 11/04/17 02:35 AM

Breadcrumbing is the hot new trend

http://metro.co.uk/2016/11/16/breadcrumbing-is-the-hot-new-trend-to-remind-you-how-much-you-hate-dating-6261602/

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Sat 11/04/17 06:32 AM
I've been Ghosted and Bread crumbed in this year already. Will just say both of the terms and the actions that go along, Just completely suck! frown explode grumble

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Sun 11/12/17 05:35 AM

I've been Ghosted and Bread crumbed in this year already. Will just say both of the terms and the actions that go along, Just completely suck! frown explode grumble


Aaawwwww... sorry to hear about that scoob flowerforyou

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Sun 11/12/17 08:13 AM
I have been ghosted on here ... but did not know that term or the others are using for examples...

I say ghosting in here should be when someone is following you ... and you forget you have these followers or who they are ... laugh that seems more like a ghost to me ...

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Mon 11/13/17 01:22 AM
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Mon 11/13/17 01:22 AM
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Mon 11/13/17 01:22 AM
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