Give me one good reason why I should trust men. I trusted one with my heart for the last ten months, and he crushed it, start going out with a guy for about a month now, tells me he is going to call me today at 5 it is now 9:30 and still not one word from him. His phone is even convienently turned off. Hell even trusted my husband until he started getting abusive, and the list could go on and on. so I am asking for one good reason why I should trust men. I am sorry I am just so pissed off now. Thought I could go out and still have a good time, but I just couldn't.

And those individuals are still men. Why would I continue trusting them if they all turn out the same?

yes , there not all the same


u mite as well go out , you mite have the time of your life

Cause it's a pretty ridiculous notion to think that all of roughly 150 million men in the US act the same way. And the alternative is to not trust people ever and then become bitter and angry about it.
I had a girl do wrong by me, I figured it was her problem not mine.

yup I would give up on men and switch to women if I were you

I am already bi, might as well just go straight les.

I am not even going to beguin to put the number down of how many men I have dated. but I can tell you that about 80% have turned out to be the same. I am not trying to put men down, but when the same thing happens over and over again, it is hard not to.

all men are not the same, you just hav'nt found that perfect one for you yet

whisper sorry to hear that, it doesn't sound like you've found any men, just assholes.

Honestly, most men are assholes, but there are a few good men out there, don't give up just yet.

M.....you won't even believe just how frogs I had to kiss before I came acrossed TheCaptain. Please don't give up on all guys just yet, the right man is out there!!

i find it interesting that you went from a 10mo relationship rite into dating another...could it be lack of healing time left you wide open to the same type of guy that just hurt you?

The reason to still trust is because if you don't put yourself out there, you will never know what great guy you might have missed out on. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Ok, most of us know you been on this site for a long time. I don't believe it's all the other people. We all have to take responcibility for our actions. So if you been dating sooomany men as you say. wouldn't that say to us it's time to look at yourself and ask what am I doing wrong? you can get mad at me all you want buy what i said is what i had to do to learn and grow in life and that is what brought me up to this point in my life today.

Sorry for my spelling lol

oops sorry for the laughing emotions , to each their own sexual preference , but two questions , which sex gender do you like better , and are these men also bi ? this is not intended to hurt anyones feelings or be scarcastic

ya just need a good man to change yur feelings towards men. some of us r good guys.!!! cheers

But she's Canadian!
I hope things get better, though they'll probably get worse when he offers up his lame excuse

Sorry you're having such a hard time with this, sweetie.


Maybe the battery in his phone went dead?

sorry Whisper that you are having a rough spell right now. And what does her being from Canada have anything to do with it. She is sweet and caring person.

That is what payphones are for, even MSN and e.mail.


I can not wait to hear is lame excuse


Thank you all. I am just feeling down.