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Some 'keywords' to consider;
Blind Dedication Honest Communication Relationship Commitment Personal Integrity Self-Esteem Narcissism Lopsided relationships usually fail. Its impossible for you to love him enough for both of you. Are you in love with him or are you in love with the idea of loving him? |
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He could just have the grass is greener syndrome... he enjoys being with you but he does not see the relationship as potential long-term material... sure he's happy with you right now but when he thinks about long-term he probably knows it won't happen... so he keeps the option of meeting someone with the potential for a long-term relationship open..... this is typically what I do... I meet someone they're great I really like them but when I think about having a long-term committed relationship with them if I don't see that happening...well.. then I keep my options open... there's nothing wrong with hanging out with somebody while you're still looking... you shouldn't flirt right in front of their face with someone else... but what you do on your own time in the privacy of your own home should be your business....
And if the other person is snooping are looking at your phone well.... shame on them... live in the moment I say.. if you're enjoying someone's company then enjoy it for what it is... don't hold out any expectations for anything longer than a good time right now... |
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How do you know what he is saying to these women? I’ve known people in committed relationships who socialize on this site and don’t believe they were using the site to foo around on their partner. On the other hand, not being mindful of your partners feelings about it is a concern, and may say something about the relationship. I understand you seeking outside opinions before raising hell with him, because you don’t want to overreact to something he may consider normal by anyone else’s standards. But in the end, a discussion about expectations and boundaries would probably be advisable so you can continue on the same page in the future. This for me, the middle sentence sums it up I think. |
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tit for tat.. get your own conversations going with other men.. you might even find a better one.
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Cause guys are wired differently than girls - plane and simple! I know this will sound like a cop out but do not blame your BF. Men are set up to spread their seed - look at the animal community, how many (other than geese) stay with the same mate? Guys were made to make more human beings so the human race would survive - think about it, we ejaculate millions of sperm at a time and you girls, only one eggs - we have so much more fertilizer to give so we have to release it. Now some of us are good at self release that we do not need help but most need someone to help us with that (hope that makes sense) and I know you girls and guys are going to hate me for this, but the male mind is very simple and it needs more stimulation than one person can give, so we seek out "varied" stimulation - other avenues that help us spread our seed. I've been married 30+ years and love my wife dearly, but I still have urges to "find another way" to spread my seed. I am not bored with my wife and I JO every other day or so but I still need more...... I used to think it was a curse but then I realized, that was the way I was wired. Girls can deal with it, guys cannot (and I hate that, but it is true). So love your BF for who he is and if you really want a DEEP, DEEP connection with him, understand that he needs more than you can give and tell him you love what he does to you and please keep doing it but you will not judge him for his actions. I hope that makes sense and I now many of you girls are going to hate me, but it is true!
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Cause guys are wired differently than girls - plane and simple! I know this will sound like a cop out but do not blame your BF. Men are set up to spread their seed - look at the animal community, how many (other than geese) stay with the same mate? Guys were made to make more human beings so the human race would survive - think about it, we ejaculate millions of sperm at a time and you girls, only one eggs - we have so much more fertilizer to give so we have to release it. Now some of us are good at self release that we do not need help but most need someone to help us with that (hope that makes sense) and I know you girls and guys are going to hate me for this, but the male mind is very simple and it needs more stimulation than one person can give, so we seek out "varied" stimulation - other avenues that help us spread our seed. I've been married 30+ years and love my wife dearly, but I still have urges to "find another way" to spread my seed. I am not bored with my wife and I JO every other day or so but I still need more...... I used to think it was a curse but then I realized, that was the way I was wired. Girls can deal with it, guys cannot (and I hate that, but it is true). So love your BF for who he is and if you really want a DEEP, DEEP connection with him, understand that he needs more than you can give and tell him you love what he does to you and please keep doing it but you will not judge him for his actions. I hope that makes sense and I now many of you girls are going to hate me, but it is true! Gosh that really dampened my hopes for finding someone loyal lol. Anyways I respect your opinion and honesty but I will not lose faith. 
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Cause guys are wired differently than girls - plane and simple! I know this will sound like a cop out but do not blame your BF. Men are set up to spread their seed - look at the animal community, how many (other than geese) stay with the same mate? Guys were made to make more human beings so the human race would survive - think about it, we ejaculate millions of sperm at a time and you girls, only one eggs - we have so much more fertilizer to give so we have to release it. Now some of us are good at self release that we do not need help but most need someone to help us with that (hope that makes sense) and I know you girls and guys are going to hate me for this, but the male mind is very simple and it needs more stimulation than one person can give, so we seek out "varied" stimulation - other avenues that help us spread our seed. I've been married 30+ years and love my wife dearly, but I still have urges to "find another way" to spread my seed. I am not bored with my wife and I JO every other day or so but I still need more...... I used to think it was a curse but then I realized, that was the way I was wired. Girls can deal with it, guys cannot (and I hate that, but it is true). So love your BF for who he is and if you really want a DEEP, DEEP connection with him, understand that he needs more than you can give and tell him you love what he does to you and please keep doing it but you will not judge him for his actions. I hope that makes sense and I now many of you girls are going to hate me, but it is true! Oh, please. There is no scientific support at all for this very old claim. In fact, there are a lot of non-human males who are ENTIRELY devoted to their one and only mate, and DON'T try to "spread their seed." Worst of all, because this nonsense has been solemnly handed out as fact forever, lots of complete jerks, use it as an excuse for their lack of focus, lack of self-discipline, and most of all, for their refusal to accept the seriousness of what they want the other person to do for them. There are men in the world who do take this love stuff and this marriage stuff completely seriously, and who know what they are doing. This guy doesn't sound like he's one of them. He sounds like the kind who think of marriage or marriage-like commitment, as a sort of boiler plate service agreement they have to sign, to get something else they want, but which they never bother to read or think about before they do sign. |
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There are people that would never cheat, I'm one of them, there are people that have no conscience and have no problem cheating, I'm guessing he's one of them. Any decent guy wouldn't be on a dating site if he's in a relationship.
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Cause guys are wired differently than girls - plane and simple! I know this will sound like a cop out but do not blame your BF. Men are set up to spread their seed - look at the animal community, how many (other than geese) stay with the same mate? Guys were made to make more human beings so the human race would survive - think about it, we ejaculate millions of sperm at a time and you girls, only one eggs - we have so much more fertilizer to give so we have to release it. Now some of us are good at self release that we do not need help but most need someone to help us with that (hope that makes sense) and I know you girls and guys are going to hate me for this, but the male mind is very simple and it needs more stimulation than one person can give, so we seek out "varied" stimulation - other avenues that help us spread our seed. I've been married 30+ years and love my wife dearly, but I still have urges to "find another way" to spread my seed. I am not bored with my wife and I JO every other day or so but I still need more...... I used to think it was a curse but then I realized, that was the way I was wired. Girls can deal with it, guys cannot (and I hate that, but it is true). So love your BF for who he is and if you really want a DEEP, DEEP connection with him, understand that he needs more than you can give and tell him you love what he does to you and please keep doing it but you will not judge him for his actions. I hope that makes sense and I now many of you girls are going to hate me, but it is true! ********! There are women that cheat, there are guys that cheat. There are guys and women that wouldn't cheat. It's a matter of whether or not the person has principles or is just an *******! |
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kick his ***
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