Topic: Love and Skin Colour
Ras1759's photo
Sun 04/15/18 12:13 AM
At times i wonder why the colour of you skin and your continent matters. i really like this forum from what i have being reading hence my post. I love to find true love without gender and continental bias...To me that is a yardstick for true love. I love and want to be loved but where can o find love, is it the air like flu, i seek to catch that flu, Lol. I want write to you, be happy looking forward to talking to you, but how can i be with her when she likes me not and is yet to understand that my 3rd leg and the cherry in between her legs knows no bias and would be happy to together, how can she know that my lips and hers are longing to be with each other. Love is wicked i heard in a song, but i rather love and lost than not loving at all. I hope to see you my true love and as you find me, i will love to be with you my world to be, i want to write you peoms that you will read without smiles as tears drop from you eyes, i want to wake up every morning and kiss you and prepare your breakfast. I want to live the rest of my life happily ever after knowing that you are the one that came and stayed and was never baised about my colour and continent....Love you till we finally set the ball rolling....Lol. Kisses

princess2450's photo
Sun 04/15/18 12:23 AM
Love is boundless.... Not relegated by color, creed or religion.... Be happy, find your love and treasure each other....

msharmony's photo
Sun 04/15/18 08:44 AM
love has many levels, many forms ... sex is a different matter, but is largely created by what we have conditioned in our brains .... and the correlations we have made there.

I do agree that these things only have basis in race or gender because we condition ourselves, for many reasons, to create those walls and boundaries ....

love finds us more often when we aren't 'looking' IMHO

masju's photo
Sun 04/15/18 09:39 AM
love is blind,you can meet your true love in any continent,love has no bounderies.

DADDY 's photo
Sun 04/15/18 11:08 AM
yes i also love and like with out race or age restrictions bad people come in many forms . wish i could cure all the hate in the world but think that will not happen

maybwecan's photo
Sun 04/15/18 11:20 AM
Edited by maybwecan on Sun 04/15/18 11:24 AM

At times i wonder why the colour of you skin and your continent matters. i really like this forum from what i have being reading hence my post. I love to find true love without gender and continental bias...To me that is a yardstick for true love. I love and want to be loved but where can o find love, is it the air like flu, i seek to catch that flu, Lol. I want write to you, be happy looking forward to talking to you, but how can i be with her when she likes me not and is yet to understand that my 3rd leg and the cherry in between her legs knows no bias and would be happy to together, how can she know that my lips and hers are longing to be with each other. Love is wicked i heard in a song, but i rather love and lost than not loving at all. I hope to see you my true love and as you find me, i will love to be with you my world to be, i want to write you peoms that you will read without smiles as tears drop from you eyes, i want to wake up every morning and kiss you and prepare your breakfast. I want to live the rest of my life happily ever after knowing that you are the one that came and stayed and was never baised about my colour and continent....Love you till we finally set the ball rolling....Lol. Kisses


interesting you selected only two things for your topic...when i could easily substitute socio-economic status...age...religion...education...profession...etc

thus far, I have not met anyone who does not have preferences regarding physical, mental, geographical, geopolitical, etc makeup of the person they desire to share their life with...some may label these as biases...

I am no different with regard to having preferences...

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 04/15/18 12:43 PM

Everyone has a right to his or her preference in the person they date. You cannot force someone to be physically attracted to someone. It's a matter of personal taste. If they don't find you attractive, don't try to make them feel like they are committing a crime. Move on. And writing the following is not helping:

but how can i be with her when she likes me not and is yet to understand that my 3rd leg and the cherry in between her legs knows no bias and would be happy to be together




Exactly !!! :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

msharmony's photo
Sun 04/15/18 01:02 PM


At times i wonder why the colour of you skin and your continent matters. i really like this forum from what i have being reading hence my post. I love to find true love without gender and continental bias...To me that is a yardstick for true love. I love and want to be loved but where can o find love, is it the air like flu, i seek to catch that flu, Lol. I want write to you, be happy looking forward to talking to you, but how can i be with her when she likes me not and is yet to understand that my 3rd leg and the cherry in between her legs knows no bias and would be happy to together, how can she know that my lips and hers are longing to be with each other. Love is wicked i heard in a song, but i rather love and lost than not loving at all. I hope to see you my true love and as you find me, i will love to be with you my world to be, i want to write you peoms that you will read without smiles as tears drop from you eyes, i want to wake up every morning and kiss you and prepare your breakfast. I want to live the rest of my life happily ever after knowing that you are the one that came and stayed and was never baised about my colour and continent....Love you till we finally set the ball rolling....Lol. Kisses


interesting you selected only two things for your topic...when i could easily substitute socio-economic status...age...religion...education...profession...etc

thus far, I have not met anyone who does not have preferences regarding physical, mental, geographical, geopolitical, etc makeup of the person they desire to share their life with...some may label these as biases...

I am no different with regard to having preferences...



these are good points, but do you not think that 'preferences' and mandates are different categories?

for instance I PREFER someone tall, dark, handsome, intelligent, funny, fit , and from the US

but that does not mean I believe I cant be attracted to someone who is three out of the seven or even four out of the seven, that list of 'preferences' is only a range of possibilities, not a list of absolutely inclusive mandates ...



maybwecan's photo
Sun 04/15/18 02:38 PM
Edited by maybwecan on Sun 04/15/18 02:46 PM



At times i wonder why the colour of you skin and your continent matters. i really like this forum from what i have being reading hence my post. I love to find true love without gender and continental bias...To me that is a yardstick for true love. I love and want to be loved but where can o find love, is it the air like flu, i seek to catch that flu, Lol. I want write to you, be happy looking forward to talking to you, but how can i be with her when she likes me not and is yet to understand that my 3rd leg and the cherry in between her legs knows no bias and would be happy to together, how can she know that my lips and hers are longing to be with each other. Love is wicked i heard in a song, but i rather love and lost than not loving at all. I hope to see you my true love and as you find me, i will love to be with you my world to be, i want to write you peoms that you will read without smiles as tears drop from you eyes, i want to wake up every morning and kiss you and prepare your breakfast. I want to live the rest of my life happily ever after knowing that you are the one that came and stayed and was never baised about my colour and continent....Love you till we finally set the ball rolling....Lol. Kisses


interesting you selected only two things for your topic...when i could easily substitute socio-economic status...age...religion...education...profession...etc

thus far, I have not met anyone who does not have preferences regarding physical, mental, geographical, geopolitical, etc makeup of the person they desire to share their life with...some may label these as biases...

I am no different with regard to having preferences...



these are good points, but do you not think that 'preferences' and mandates are different categories?

for instance I PREFER someone tall, dark, handsome, intelligent, funny, fit , and from the US

but that does not mean I believe I cant be attracted to someone who is three out of the seven or even four out of the seven, that list of 'preferences' is only a range of possibilities, not a list of absolutely inclusive mandates ...





Not entirely certain what you mean by mandates...for me, my "preferences" do serve as an initial screening mechanism...but it is not absolute...and since i am not a robot and have experienced a lot of life's rodeos, my specific preferences are not the same as 20 or 30 years ago, but have morphed and evolved as i have...I am aware of them and I choose or not choose to act on all or some of them whenever I am considering a possible companion...

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sun 04/15/18 05:34 PM

At times i wonder why the colour of you skin and your continent matters. i really like this forum from what i have being reading hence my post. I love to find true love without gender and continental bias...To me that is a yardstick for true love. I love and want to be loved but where can o find love, is it the air like flu, i seek to catch that flu, Lol. I want write to you, be happy looking forward to talking to you, but how can i be with her when she likes me not and is yet to understand that my 3rd leg and the cherry in between her legs knows no bias and would be happy to together, how can she know that my lips and hers are longing to be with each other. Love is wicked i heard in a song, but i rather love and lost than not loving at all. I hope to see you my true love and as you find me, i will love to be with you my world to be, i want to write you peoms that you will read without smiles as tears drop from you eyes, i want to wake up every morning and kiss you and prepare your breakfast. I want to live the rest of my life happily ever after knowing that you are the one that came and stayed and was never baised about my colour and continent....Love you till we finally set the ball rolling....Lol. Kisses

Hmmm. Well, just an observation...you seem to me to be drifting into a fair amount of self-indulgent fantasizing about these women's nether regions, and blaming the fact that you can't pursue that fantasy, on racism or "continentism," if there is such a thing.

If I were you, I'd work on improving my appreciation of each woman who you CAN interact with, as being a PERSON, and not as a carrier of a "cherry," or a purveyor of sensual services.

The thing I find most odd, is that you don't see being on another CONTINENT as being an obstacle to building an intimate relationship with someone.

Building a fantasy, sure. But you can do that with a Russian bot program. You don't need to guilt trip real women who are looking for something different than you.

no photo
Sun 04/15/18 07:37 PM

At times i wonder why the colour of you skin and your continent matters. i really like this forum from what i have being reading hence my post. I love to find true love without gender and continental bias...To me that is a yardstick for true love. I love and want to be loved but where can o find love, is it the air like flu, i seek to catch that flu, Lol. I want write to you, be happy looking forward to talking to you, but how can i be with her when she likes me not and is yet to understand that my 3rd leg and the cherry in between her legs knows no bias and would be happy to together, how can she know that my lips and hers are longing to be with each other. Love is wicked i heard in a song, but i rather love and lost than not loving at all. I hope to see you my true love and as you find me, i will love to be with you my world to be, i want to write you peoms that you will read without smiles as tears drop from you eyes, i want to wake up every morning and kiss you and prepare your breakfast. I want to live the rest of my life happily ever after knowing that you are the one that came and stayed and was never baised about my colour and continent....Love you till we finally set the ball rolling....Lol. Kisses

That was like a roller coaster while i read it . All you have to do now is keep it rolling as you want it to be. Good luck sir:angel:

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sun 04/15/18 07:52 PM

I want write to you, be happy looking forward to talking to you, but how can i be with her when she likes me not and is yet to understand that my 3rd leg and the cherry in between her legs knows no bias and would be happy to together


slaphead

Strongnesses's photo
Sun 04/15/18 11:21 PM
definitely you are right

navygirl's photo
Tue 04/17/18 10:18 AM
Skin colour or race shouldn't matter; however I found that a lot of cultures treat women as second class citizens.

navygirl's photo
Tue 04/17/18 10:23 AM
Edited by navygirl on Tue 04/17/18 10:25 AM

Hmmm. Well, just an observation...you seem to me to be drifting into a fair amount of self-indulgent fantasizing about these women's nether regions, and blaming the fact that you can't pursue that fantasy, on racism or "continentism," if there is such a thing.

If I were you, I'd work on improving my appreciation of each woman who you CAN interact with, as being a PERSON, and not as a carrier of a "cherry," or a purveyor of sensual services.

The thing I find most odd, is that you don't see being on another CONTINENT as being an obstacle to building an intimate relationship with someone.

Building a fantasy, sure. But you can do that with a Russian bot program. You don't need to guilt trip real women who are looking for something different than you.


Well said sir.

no photo
Tue 04/17/18 10:24 AM
what's love but a second hand emotion?

no photo
Fri 04/20/18 12:10 AM
Love knows no race, color or religion