Topic: Reading profile before messaging
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Thu 05/10/18 10:07 AM

frustrated

Why don't people read profiles before messaging? whoa


well that is what self proclaimed nice guys do and when you dont acknowledge their twisted and idiotic behavior , they blame you and call you the shallow creature for entertaining their requests.

I dont think we are allowed to use and profanity on here

so I will they are dumb phucks

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Thu 05/10/18 06:41 PM

and hence the justification to set mail filters cuz they absolutely don't take the time to read anything
word. People cannot message me unless they are 39-40 and live within 50 miles of where ever Coffeville Alabama is located ... (or im some cases we have already talked:wink:) .. I should probably google that some day.


But dude ... what gives? You block peiple who send nudes? Well i am scratching your name off My Christmas card list. slaphead

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Fri 05/11/18 10:10 AM

In the past I've had guys email me when my profile clearly says I don't date guys who live with their parents or have indoor pets. They wasted my time and theirs.



^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

One of the ones who would never quit sending nekkid pictures of herself to me.

LOL

How are you doing, darlin'?

Big hug!

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Fri 05/11/18 10:14 AM
But dude ... what gives? You block peiple who send nudes? Well i am scratching your name off My Christmas card list. slaphead




You, my dear, are the exception to the rule.

I will gladly accept your nekkid pics.

LOL

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Fri 05/11/18 12:42 PM
If a profile is not even filled out, I won't bother.

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Fri 05/11/18 12:53 PM
But its not about you big Sky its about someone like the OP has stated in her profile what she wants and her criteria and certain people ignoring it for whatever reason.

Whether they are stupid, cant read or willfully ignorant.


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Fri 05/11/18 12:54 PM

I have what I am looking for in age on my profile that way I can still message people.


Age limit just limits who can message you, not the other way around. So if they're younger than your minimum limit and older than your maximum, they can't message you.

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Fri 05/11/18 12:58 PM

But its not about you big Sky its about someone like the OP has stated in her profile what she wants and her criteria and certain people ignoring it for whatever reason.

Whether they are stupid, cant read or willfully ignorant.




I know it's not about me, just saying how I go about things here. I happen to read profiles. Having something in the profile helps to start a conversation beyond small talk. Like I said, if there's nothing there to work from, I just move along.

But yes, I've had instances where women will message me with something like "I read your profile and really like it!", where I will test them and ask them what they liked about it. If they don't answer the question but change the subject, they didn't read my profile. An honest person isn't going to sound like they're working from a script.

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Fri 05/11/18 12:58 PM
Edited by BigSky1970 on Fri 05/11/18 12:59 PM
Deleted ... Double post

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Fri 05/11/18 01:01 PM


I have what I am looking for in age on my profile that way I can still message people.


Age limit just limits who can message you, not the other way around. So if they're younger than your minimum limit and older than your maximum, they can't message you.

Unless you 'break the ice' and message them first, then they can.

From the Mail Filters Settings page:

PLEASE NOTE: Mail filters apply only to the FIRST message sent between two parties. Once you've sent a message to someone, they can send mail back to you regardless of whether they meet your filter conditions. You can still block those users individually if you wish.



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Fri 05/11/18 08:17 PM
Tom, are you a moderator?

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Sat 05/12/18 01:33 AM
Tom, are you a moderator?

Not here.
I do however understand the job of moderator and feel it is important to contribute to the site's public conductivity.
I get topics and replies locked & deleted too.
Its my nature to try to offer a solution when I see a conflict or problem.
Dad liked to say if you can complain, you can offer a solution.

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Sat 05/12/18 02:36 PM
Edited by GalaxyStarz on Sat 05/12/18 02:38 PM
I see shades

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Sat 05/12/18 02:46 PM
I set my message filter to ages 80-82


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Sun 05/13/18 05:53 PM
My profile clearly states I do not want anyone messaging me but no one reads profiles well almost no one

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Sun 05/13/18 06:30 PM

But dude ... what gives? You block peiple who send nudes? Well i am scratching your name off My Christmas card list. slaphead




You, my dear, are the exception to the rule.

I will gladly accept your nekkid pics.

LOL


I see you are still hung up on getting Nekkid pics, LOL

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Sun 05/13/18 07:36 PM

My profile clearly states I do not want anyone messaging me but no one reads profiles well almost no one
beautiful lady flowers

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Sun 05/13/18 07:42 PM

My profile clearly states I do not want anyone messaging me but no one reads profiles well almost no one


I remember you from DH and yeah its pretty clear, you have to be stevie wonder not to see that plus the pics of your boyfriend.


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Sun 05/13/18 08:14 PM


My profile clearly states I do not want anyone messaging me but no one reads profiles well almost no one


I remember you from DH and yeah its pretty clear, you have to be stevie wonder not to see that plus the pics of your boyfriend.


well thats not nice. I messaged her

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Sun 05/13/18 08:16 PM
I wasnt mean to her, I said her profile pretty clear, one has to be either stupid, blind or just plain ignorant not to notice how clear she was.