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Topic: why feeling alone and single after 5 years of marriage.
sandy0731143's photo
Sun 05/27/18 09:03 PM
tell me what you all feel or think abt it

Easttowest72's photo
Sun 05/27/18 09:46 PM
After my divorce I felt alone if when I was surrounded by people. It takes time but it gets better.

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Sun 05/27/18 09:48 PM
hello

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Tue 05/29/18 02:25 AM

After my divorce I felt alone if when I was surrounded by people. It takes time but it gets better.


He did't say anything about divorce - just said after 5 years of marriage.

Let's see...feeling that way after 5 years of marriage...honeymoon is definitely over...that sounds about right. :thumbsup:

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Tue 05/29/18 07:56 PM
Hi, you know I feel the same....I’m 5 years with my boyfriend and the things are not going so well....the hard thing for me is that iam from Brazil, and I live here for about 4 years and don’t have friends yet...sometimes I feel very alone..but I love this island and really want to stay....
But I feel like this too....

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Wed 05/30/18 03:32 PM
hle

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Wed 05/30/18 04:07 PM

tell me what you all feel or think abt it


Get a dog. Really. A dog is the best friend you can have. unconditional love.

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Wed 05/30/18 04:33 PM
Sounds like you have grown apart ..

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Wed 05/30/18 04:34 PM
I know exactly how ya feel. I went thru the same thing after my divorce in 2009 and ur right. It does get better in time :smiley:

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Wed 05/30/18 04:40 PM
Don't be a jerk. When you get divorced, it's like being single again so pay closer attention before running off with ur mouth and insulting people. It's obvious you have no compassion whatsoever :rage:

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Wed 05/30/18 04:53 PM

Don't be a jerk. When you get divorced, it's like being single again so pay closer attention before running off with ur mouth and insulting people. It's obvious you have no compassion whatsoever :rage:


not running my mouth and not insulting ... anyone. Just stating a known fact.

A pet is recommended by many therapists for people going thru a divorce. A pet is therapeutic. A pet ( especially a dog) gives.. love and attention to the person. Which is beneficial to that person during that stressful time.

So before you go off calling people names ( which is not nice).. do your homework.... o.k.?

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Wed 05/30/18 05:21 PM
Edited by MrBeeKeeper on Wed 05/30/18 05:29 PM

tell me what you all feel or think abt it


Well .. first of all .. it feels like you've posted in the wrong section - it's the new members welcome area not chit chat ..
The second thing .. seems you don't have much to say about yourself, cos profile is pretty empty .. your martial status included.
The third and final - can't say a thing about anything which hasn't been a personal experience - so you might want to enlighten us a little bit about how it feels .. cos seems you might have something to share ..
Also a question .. if you're still married and feeling single - 5 long years! .. why not to get divorced .. better for both of you .. the marriage thing obviously won't work out any longer .. ?
Welcome to the forums !


Poetrywriter's photo
Wed 05/30/18 05:26 PM
Blondey is correct. Sounds like you have grown apart. Now if you want to stay married you need to find that spark to ignite the flame again. But if the spark and flame are gone and you do not see them being lit again then you need to talk about it with your partner. Divorce may be the only answer if neither of you see a future together.

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Fri 06/01/18 02:03 AM
hi

Abbastirmizi's photo
Fri 06/01/18 11:20 AM
expectations leads to disappointment

Abbastirmizi's photo
Fri 06/01/18 11:27 AM
best wishes

Vera's photo
Fri 06/01/18 12:11 PM

tell me what you all feel or think abt it


Namastai. Honestly speaking, Your profile doesn't give any input. Same also the text of your topic. Have you gone for divorce? I don't think so. It would be a shame and a big problem. India is missing 70 Million women for marriage. Be happy if you got one! If you want to live a happy marriage, it depends on you. THE INPUT DETERMANS THE OUTPUT!
Wishing you the best. Namastai

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 06/01/18 12:21 PM
If you aren't feeling it...communicate to your wife 1st

gent2525's photo
Fri 06/01/18 01:04 PM
Hi,
Same here. I takes time to heal after the big one.
Regards,
Virgil

gent2525's photo
Fri 06/01/18 01:04 PM
Hi,
Same here. I takes time to heal after the big one.
Regards,
Virgil

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