Topic: Would you rather
Anawesomedude's photo
Sat 07/14/18 08:13 AM
Would you rather go out and have dinner with your celebrity crush and make out then tell everyone you know? Or would you rather have sex with your celebrity crush and never tell anyone.

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Sat 07/14/18 09:18 AM
Do it all and call TMZ.

dreamerana's photo
Sat 07/14/18 09:20 AM
I would rather just go to dinner and get to know the person. See if they really are worrh my admiration

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Sat 07/14/18 09:21 AM
TROLLOP!!! surprised

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Sat 07/14/18 09:25 AM
LOL don't believe anything I write

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Sat 07/14/18 09:34 AM
Edited by d__u__b on Sat 07/14/18 09:35 AM
i was speaking to dreamerana. tongue2

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Sat 07/14/18 10:17 AM
Sex.
If the sex was good he’ll come back. I’ll take care of him and he’ll come back for more. I don’t mind being a side-chick. Finding respectful men is an uthopia anyway so might as well go for those who will give me a good time.
My celebrity crush is Eden Hazard.

BlakeIAM's photo
Sat 07/14/18 10:31 AM

Sex.
If the sex was good he’ll come back. I’ll take care of him and he’ll come back for more. I don’t mind being a side-chick. Finding respectful men is an uthopia anyway so might as well go for those who will give me a good time.
My celebrity crush is Eden Hazard.



If you were with someone you really cared about and loved, would you have a problem if they had a "side -chick" as you so eloquently put it?

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Sat 07/14/18 10:57 AM


Sex.
If the sex was good he’ll come back. I’ll take care of him and he’ll come back for more. I don’t mind being a side-chick. Finding respectful men is an uthopia anyway so might as well go for those who will give me a good time.
My celebrity crush is Eden Hazard.



If you were with someone you really cared about and loved, would you have a problem if they had a "side -chick" as you so eloquently put it?


No, I wouldn’t mind.
I don’t believe in monogamous relationships.
As long as I can have side-dudes, he can have side-chicks.
Settling down is something for in my 40s, not for now.

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Sun 07/15/18 08:51 AM
Would you rather go out and have dinner with your celebrity crush and make out then tell everyone you know? Or would you rather have sex with your celebrity crush and never tell anyone.

Neither.
I can't see how choosing either option has any positive connotations to anything.


I just found this hysterical, it's common rationalizing from young people in just pursuing the moment's high:
Settling down is something for in my 40s, not for now.

How do you learn how to be in a relationship?
Theoretically you learn a lot by example from your parents if they're capable of being in a healthy "settling down" relationship.
If your parents relationship sucks, then you have to learn the hard way, plus all the nuances every kid misses when their parents hid stuff and lied about stuff as a kid.

People "settle down in their 40's" because they've had to learn so much before they were capable of actually putting anything practical to use.

If your only real focus is on how to get pleasure until your 40's...then that's all you're ever going to learn or know how to do.

You don't magically learn how to be in a relationship when you turn 40.

It's like saying "I'm going to eat nothing but fast food and lay around until I'm in my 40's. That's the time I will become a nutritionist and chef and jog and get into shape and be healthy. I'm still young. I'm going to enjoy my youth and what tastes good to me now."

Good luck with that.

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Sun 07/15/18 08:52 AM
Neither!

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Sun 07/15/18 08:57 AM

Would you rather go out and have dinner with your celebrity crush and make out then tell everyone you know? Or would you rather have sex with your celebrity crush and never tell anyone.

Neither.
I can't see how choosing either option has any positive connotations to anything.


I just found this hysterical, it's common rationalizing from young people in just pursuing the moment's high:
Settling down is something for in my 40s, not for now.

How do you learn how to be in a relationship?
Theoretically you learn a lot by example from your parents if they're capable of being in a healthy "settling down" relationship.
If your parents relationship sucks, then you have to learn the hard way, plus all the nuances every kid misses when their parents hid stuff and lied about stuff as a kid.

People "settle down in their 40's" because they've had to learn so much before they were capable of actually putting anything practical to use.

If your only real focus is on how to get pleasure until your 40's...then that's all you're ever going to learn or know how to do.

You don't magically learn how to be in a relationship when you turn 40.

It's like saying "I'm going to eat nothing but fast food and lay around until I'm in my 40's. That's the time I will become a nutritionist and chef and jog and get into shape and be healthy. I'm still young. I'm going to enjoy my youth and what tastes good to me now."

Good luck with that.



But people my age are not looking for steady relationships. Most only want sex. So if I would look for a steady relationship and don’t settle for less, then I would have neither.
So I have to go with the flow.

My parents are 48 and married since age 19, but those were different times. Even my mother and father say so.

I want to enjoy my youth.
If I’m entering a conservative relationship now, I will only find unhappiness.
Sex is a short moment of sharing happiness and intimacy with someone you like.
Why should I deprive myself from that?

Elissa.

Up2youandme's photo
Sun 07/15/18 09:33 AM
Very nicely put and downright logical in this time and age kudos Elissa

Rock's photo
Wed 07/18/18 09:34 PM
I'd let Paris Hilton give me a road hummer.


Tell anyone? Hell nah!


I'd post that vid on youtube. :thumbsup:


Rock's photo
Wed 07/18/18 09:44 PM
True.

But another vid on youtube,
might help her land another
fastfood commercial.


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Wed 07/18/18 09:49 PM
this we can do without.

Basha's photo
Wed 07/18/18 10:48 PM
Edited by Basha on Wed 07/18/18 10:48 PM

I would go out and have dinner with my celebrity crush and make out then tell everyone i know

jazzinc's photo
Thu 07/19/18 07:02 AM
Unreal and Utopian question. It belongs to imaginary world. Celebrities belong to another sphere; they don't care about dating sites and Mingle included. But dreams are permitted....when zzzzz.....