Topic: Need advice and honest help!!
Marykate41's photo
Thu 08/09/18 10:47 AM
I need help finding a lawyer or with moving expenses for medical treatment. I just got divorce and need medical help but dont want a handout will pay back. But I have a home to go to just need help paying for the move. I been evicted from my home from a ex sister in law since the divorce . Please dont lecture me or assume I am awful person my life is difficult enough.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Thu 08/09/18 10:54 AM
We have free legal aid centres in Ireland. Not sure if they have that in the US. But something like that should be your first port of call. Good luck :thumbsup:

Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 08/09/18 11:26 AM
You are in the states.

Contact the United Way for bus fare help.
Contact the Red Cross.
Contact the Catholic church. (St Mary's, Catholic Charities)
Contact Travelers Aid International.
Contact women's shelter groups and ask for assistance or ideas of who to contact in your area or the area in which you wish to relocate.

Women's Shelters
http://www.womenshelters.org/
Travelers Aid
http://www.travelersaid.org/
Catholic Church
http://www.catholiccharitiesusa.org/find-help/
Red Cross
http://www.redcross.org/local/missouri/eastern-missouri/chapter-locations/central-northern-missouri
United Way Bus Fare HELP program
http://uwayreno.communityos.org/zf/profile/service/id/25664

Good luck
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May tomorrow be a better day for you.

Marykate41's photo
Thu 08/09/18 12:43 PM
I have but my surgery is schedule in Pittsburgh and I am still in Missouri the only option is a loan but with my credit I need to pay the first payment for collateral and I dont have it and trying to keep to adult kids in school too.

Marykate41's photo
Thu 08/09/18 12:54 PM
I am a 41yr old good hearted mom who is recently divorce and I have kids but I am currently sick right now but I dont want your pity I am struggling and need help and guidance on what to do to get moved for my bone marrow and stem cell treatment at the lung institute in Pittsburgh. They sold the house I was renting and to my ex sister in law and I was evicted . I have to be moved and need help relocating financially and I always pay back but after being scammed out of money by a so called private lender I need help I cant do this alone anymore I dont know where to turn. I have a name and I am real my name is mary Catherine but everyone calls me kate. I just want true sincere friend first please considered I been hurt enough. I am wanting a loyal friend first I have a home to go to I need help finding a loan with no money down I dont have any money left. Everyone here wants money and legal aid is out of funds and we are in a rural area here limited resources here too. I am facing two choices either get the surgery or have hospice come in and I dont deserve this and neither do my kids.

MK2's photo
Thu 08/09/18 01:15 PM
you need to contact free legal help in state of MO
www.lawmo.org
you are in the wrong site for help... this is dating site
good luck

mzrosie's photo
Thu 08/09/18 01:24 PM
Mingle2 is a dating site. Why ask for financial help here?
Go to FB and state your case... there are some people there
who might start a fundraiser for you if you are legit.

Good luck.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Thu 08/09/18 01:47 PM

Mingle2 is a dating site. Why ask for financial help here?
Go to FB and state your case... there are some people there
who might start a fundraiser for you if you are legit.

Good luck.


I think it is a bit dangerous, to spread a case like this on social media. Sure, we are a decent bunch here on Mingle. But the OP has to seek face to face advise. And there was good tips mentioned already.

mzrosie's photo
Thu 08/09/18 02:03 PM
Edited by mzrosie on Thu 08/09/18 02:06 PM


Mingle2 is a dating site. Why ask for financial help here?
Go to FB and state your case... there are some people there
who might start a fundraiser for you if you are legit.

Good luck.


I think it is a bit dangerous, to spread a case like this on social media. Sure, we are a decent bunch here on Mingle. But the OP has to seek face to face advise. And there was good tips mentioned already.


If she and her case are legit then there are groups on FB that might
help her. Why ask help on dating site is really my point.

So in your opinion, my suggestion is dangerous? as in go jump off a cliff?


no photo
Thu 08/09/18 02:23 PM
Hi Kate ..

After reading your post ...I am left wondering .....


Did you have a divorce lawyer ?? You were married and had two children ... yet you now have nothing .. seems incredulous !!

Your profile says your children live away from home .. so your husband perhaps has custody ???

As for the stem cell transplant.. . have you spoken to a social worker at the hospital ?? They are usually fantastic at helping to resolve transport and accommodation issues related to treatment .

are you hoping to meet someone to move in with .. financially support you and drive you for stem transplant treatment .. what does he get in this arrangement .. just curious .


Larsi666 😽's photo
Thu 08/09/18 02:41 PM



Mingle2 is a dating site. Why ask for financial help here?
Go to FB and state your case... there are some people there
who might start a fundraiser for you if you are legit.

Good luck.


I think it is a bit dangerous, to spread a case like this on social media. Sure, we are a decent bunch here on Mingle. But the OP has to seek face to face advise. And there was good tips mentioned already.


If she and her case are legit then there are groups on FB that might
help her. Why ask help on dating site is really my point.

So in your opinion, my suggestion is dangerous? as in go jump off a cliff?




I am just very cautious, when it comes to FB. Please don't take it personal :wink:

Marykate41's photo
Thu 08/09/18 02:55 PM
yes I was married but kids are in college and I still help my kids when In can so please dont assume you know everything I was asking as a friend to another if they been in my shoes for their advice only.

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 08/09/18 02:56 PM
Legal aid ,. Government assistance offices should have 800# s.
Ask. Information.

This seems to be what you need to contact.

mzrosie's photo
Thu 08/09/18 02:57 PM
Edited by mzrosie on Thu 08/09/18 03:02 PM




Mingle2 is a dating site. Why ask for financial help here?
Go to FB and state your case... there are some people there
who might start a fundraiser for you if you are legit.

Good luck.


I think it is a bit dangerous, to spread a case like this on social media. Sure, we are a decent bunch here on Mingle. But the OP has to seek face to face advise. And there was good tips mentioned already.


If she and her case are legit then there are groups on FB that might
help her. Why ask help on dating site is really my point.

So in your opinion, my suggestion is dangerous? as in go jump off a cliff?




I am just very cautious, when it comes to FB. Please don't take it personal :wink:


and I was saying that the OP is better off asking for financial help
on FB than than a dating site such as Mingle2.

OP stated on her first post "I need help finding a lawyer or with moving expenses.."

Asking for money on Mingle2 is not allowed. If you had read the message
that the site had automatically sent to all new members, you would know this...

Subject: For your safety - Please read!

"..So please be wary of anyone who asks you for money or who says he/she can make you money. Mingle2 is a dating site, not a financial service, right?"


Get it?


no photo
Thu 08/09/18 04:19 PM

yes I was married but kids are in college and I still help my kids when In can so please dont assume you know everything I was asking as a friend to another if they been in my shoes for their advice only.
. Just seeking clarification :wink:

seems to me you are mostly asking for financial aid .,

your profile says you are on medical leave . Does that mean you are on a government sickness benefit .. or on sick pay from your employer ??

I am sure the government would solve your transport costs . .. stem cell transplant seems a worthy cause . Have you spoken to the treatment facility in Pittsburgh ??? To a local church group ??? To your family ?? If you were scammed have you spoken to the police ??

Robertcrna777's photo
Thu 08/09/18 07:57 PM
Read your mail. I sent you a message