there is so much mistrust now .... nobody believes my profile! ... im tired of trying to convince possible partners that I am real...

Hello Bertoknee

ok I took a look at your profile...

Marital status - no answer


Perhaps nobody believed that you didn't know the answer to that.


No answer normally means married and most women will not give your
profile a second look, specially when you live in Malaysia.


Welcome to Mingle2

Welcome to Internet dating. !!!

Not that uncommon.

*shrug*

marital status - no answer - no different than a lot of women on here along with a whole bunch more of "no answer".

Yes, there is a lot of mistrust on the internet. We all realize you can be anyone you want in cyber land and no one will know until that meet and greet time. The mistrust goes hand in hand with assumptions others make about any of us and who they think we are. We all also nee to realize that most on a dating site are somebody's rejects.

It seems like most of the profiles on this site are fake ones anyways. Especially the female profiles...lol

The most profiles are fake or long time not used. But in another way it's funny to see how many fake girls, with half of my age are sending me kisses or telling me that they love me.

You mean to tell me that the bevy of big breasted babes ranging from 22 yrs old to 28 yrs old that I've accumulated don't really want to meet my old butt..say it isn't so..

Did you met one yet??
If you did, tell me how and who.

You mean my ' Haram in a hard drive" is not real?

Exactly! Also, why should women trust a man who doesn't know whether or not he has children?

New to all this-1ST Y'ALL ARE FUNNY FOLKS-2ND-IS THERE A WAY TO ONLY GET ONLY LEGIT MESSAGES?3Rd-INSTEAD OF NO REPLY WHY NOT JUST SAY NOT INTERESTED,IT WOULD SAVE A LOT OF TIME AND WONDERING -IVE NEVER DONE THIS BEFORE BUT BEING HERE ONE WEEK I'VE TALKED TO SOME AWSOME FOLKS AND I'M MORE OPTIMISTIC ABOUT MAYBE FINDING THE WOMAN THAT IM SUPPOSED TO B WITH-B GOOD Y'ALL -

I delete friend requets daily Only because they can't fit through my Age Filters!

Filters should work on friend request too.

Oh wait !! Basically FREE. Mingle!

I mean no disrespect guy but in the first place do not use all capital letters. That is considered shouting. Secondly, there is no way to filter the messages and receive only the ones you consider legit. When people get messages they have the option of replying or not replying. There is no rule that says they have to reply. If they do not reply, generally that means they are not interested so the best thing to do is leave it at that. Thirdly, I would start your own thread with your own questions there since where you posed your questions is in someone else's thread.

A lot of it has to do with our individual experiences.

Thank u for your reply and advice, trial and error -