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i been told to be my self but i never have that alot of confidence
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In my college I have noticed you have to be a D1 athlete or in a Frat.....Others guys like us have no luck.
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you got to have confidence, women love confidence. If you can't get that down ur not gonna have much luck with women plain and simple
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Yes confidence is a must! To get a girl like me, you have to dig a little deeper. Instead of the typical hitting on someone and all that, search your soul and be real! Ask important questions and really want to get to know me. Love me for Who I am, not be all about the physical stuff right off the bat...sooo a turn off! I want true appreciation and adoration for the core of who I am.
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how can i do that
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then pretend to be someone with confidence and wear t-shirts with bunnies on them and carry bags of cheetos with you at all times  Yep girls like bunnys and cheetos!! Really do just be yourself....but you have to confident with who you are! So I would say the first step is doing what ever you need to do in order to like your self and be confident!!
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What? Gain confidence?
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Edited by
xander29
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Sat 12/08/07 08:22 AM
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ask questions about the girl and really try to get to know her. questions like: what music does she like, what she does in free time, what she aspires to. And be active in the conversation.... if all else fails... wear a bunny shirt
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yeh
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yeh
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then pretend to be someone with confidence and wear t-shirts with bunnies on them and carry bags of cheetos with you at all times Now this I found to be VERY hysterical Thank you so much 
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try stalking them
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stalking them is a bad thing and she will be freak out uh no thanks
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be fun, if you can't be fun...
be creative, if you can't be creative... be humorous, if you can't be humorous... be sexy, if you can't be sexy... be interesting, if you can't be interesting... have pizza, if you can't have pizza there is one last hope... have money, buy pizza  does the circular pizza dance slinging pepperoni slices to the bemused studio audience.... |
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Stalking them in defiantly NOT the way to go!
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Be yourself...be honest, be kind, be confident...
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Edited by
JoeKur
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Sat 12/08/07 08:42 AM
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then pretend to be someone with confidence and wear t-shirts with bunnies on them and carry bags of cheetos with you at all times THIS is wisdom at the Jedi Level! any man confident enough to walk around with a Bunnie shirt on excudes confidence at such a level, women cannot resist! LOL! ANYWAY - fix the inner game first... as soon as you take on the "how can I get a girl to like me" thing, your doing two things: 1) You're really trying to trick her 2) your already negative on yourself. Make a list of 10 things that are cool about yourself. when YOU realize YOU are great, then you'll feel it. When you feel it, you'll show it. And when you show it, women will be interested. Women want confident men - and confident doesn't mean "jerk" either. It just means you know who you are and you like who you are. You worth isn't based on what women think of you. Women will like you because, well, YOU like you... when you fix that inner game (I don't mean "game player" - you know what I mean), you can work on the outside - which, by the way, will mostly come naturally once you fix the inner. Be funny, be interesting, be differnt. THEN, when you listen to a woman, and come to understand her, it will Mean something to her - "Here's this confident, together man showing a real interest in me." Not "Here's this weenie who wants me to like him 'cuz he doesn't like himself and he doesn't have anything better to do" Make'em laugh - keep'em on their toes... be interesting - be a bit of a challange. Women don't like men they can't respect. They want to have fun, be respected, and cared for. Of course I'm not speaking of ALL women - the list varies - but that covers the majority. I don't know many (or any) women that want wimpy, insecure, uninteresting, and unfunny guys... So don't be that guy. And, BTW, YOU need to do that - don't depend on Someone ELSE to tell you how great you are - you have to know that you are, on your own. Take what you know that's great about yourself, and then BELEIVE it... fix the inside, the outside will then be half-done. |
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Just be sincere sweetie! Be yourself and be genuine...thats how my guy got me!
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Find the ONE thing that ANOTHER CHICK has found to SAY (compliment)about YOU..Then just explore WHY she said THAT about you, and then LET "THAT" be your EDGE with talking to ladies here and there..
Like a girl says Your open,,,,,,You speak your feelings freely. Then allow that to GROW in YOU, and to allow THAT to SHOW more to them...   Then YOU at LEAST, have an angle and respect for yourself and a door to open for THEM to talk and KNOW YOU... Just BE ""YOU"", and IF "YOU" are of good heart and mind, THEY WILL READ THAT, and WANT TO KNOW "YOU"!! But "PLEASE" don't forget to TRY and make THEM smile,,lol Laughter is the BEST FRIEND to ANYONE trying to MAKE FRIENDS!! |
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In order for a girl to be interested in you, you have to BE interesting... Unfortunately, 'Hi, I'm _____, how are you?' just isn't as effective as it should be.
I agree with JoeKur. Keep in mind that women tend to weight what you say and how you say it more heavily than outward appearance, just like we tend to do the opposite. :-P lol. But it's just what we're naturally hard wired to do. As Joe said, you have to be different and you have to be intersting. Keep in mind that anything above a 7 is going to get 10+ emails every day on a dating site, and they'll get approached several times every time they leave the house. So they've been socialized, they know what's coming. Maybe you're not a jerk but maybe the last 5 guys were. Given the constant overload of men who are slave to their hormones contacting them, they train themselves to sift through the bullsht. lol. So no response doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong with you. She just has a split second to figure out if you're different or if you're like all the other jerkoffs before. That having been said, try to stand out a bit, think about what you say before you say it, and find an entertaining way to show her you're a confident funny guy who's respected by others and is worthy of her time. Also, keep in mind it's good to make gentle unintrusive casual conversation with as many ladies as you can. Most will talk to you if they don't see alterior motives written all over your face. They'll socialize you in no time. lol. Plus you can figure out what it is in a woman that you find attractive, and what they seem to find attractive in you, that way you're better equipped to find the right one for you, instead of doing as I'm sure we've all done at one time or another and tried to force something that wasn't right just because we weren't sure how to open up any other options... Good luck! |
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