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Topic: Some Things That Put you Off when Looking at Profiles?
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Fri 07/14/23 05:03 PM
Edited by Unknow on Fri 07/14/23 05:10 PM
A repost of what another member has come across in profiles: Here are some put offs for some of us

1. They show the top half of their body, naked.
2. They are laying on a bed or couch in a seductive way
3. They are holding an alcoholic drink or cigarette in their hand or are surrounded by
alcohol.
4. Misspelt words.
5. They are clearly lying about their age.
6. They are 30 years your junior and their starting line is "Hey Babe"?

Do you have any pet peeves?

I found this to be a good summary of a lot what I have seen so far. But then that shows, :wink: they are who they are, being upfront and honest therefore move to the next. Hence our profiles if the right person takes the time to read and absorb it.

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Sun 07/16/23 12:59 AM

When viewing a profile male or female, what things would make you think twice when looking for a potential partner/relationship or friend?

Here are one or two of my put offs ~

1. They show the top half of their body, naked.
2. They are laying on a bed or couch in a seductive way
3. They are holding an alcoholic drink or cigarette in their hand or are surrounded by
alcohol.
4. Misspelt words.
5. They are clearly lying about their age.
6. They are 30 years your junior and their starting line is "Hey Babe"?

Do you have any pet peeves?




Among those, there are the little things, like:

Pictures that sell their huge boobs. Which I am repulsed to.
Their huge thighs and gargantuan buttocks, - which is also repulsive.

Making dumb faces that emphasize their challenged intelligence.

Posing with expensive exotic automobiles/motorcycles.

Wearing gaudy jewelry.

Having a portrait picture the emphasizes the extent of how much they invest their time and money on making their long "hair" fashionably stunning.

Zero criteria for interests or hobbies, for dialog or conversation, i.e. small talk.

Fake scammers using model photographs from known image file archives.

Scammers taking pictures of live doll silicone sex mannequins poorly dressed up in "sexy" attire. Often in their gaming chairs next to their gaming console and keyboards.

Women wearing t-shirts with idiotic descriptions printed on it that emphasize or advertise clueless "bimbo" which always make women appear unflatteringly & degrading.


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Mon 07/17/23 10:55 AM
Materialistic approach

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Tue 07/25/23 03:33 AM
I'm repulsed by you.. <insert every possible reason to justify it> lol

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Tue 07/25/23 06:08 AM

I forgot..

Pictures where you are:

Sticking out your tongue

Making fish lips

Or putting a weird expression on your face ~on purpose~
(I could post examples of this ^, but the mods would probably delete the pics)

Holding/ grabbing your crotch
(not a good look for a 20 year old...and even more disgusting in someone who is 50+)



Absolutely agree!
Someone previously called it "fish lips"...well I call it "cats arse" and as soon as I see that, they are out lol.

There was also comments on showing their dick...yes, I have seen one profile like this!

Many times my search brought a old creep with money in his hands, or card to offer money for masturbation! Very disturbing!!!

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Tue 07/25/23 09:58 AM
If it is of any help, what attracts me is a smile. I notice that first, the rest is not important.

So you need a picture with a smile to get my interest. Just head and shoulders, nobody else in the picture so I know what you look like.

If you also have long hair that is a big turn on for me!

I am the same. Smile makes all the difference in the world because you can then see the eyes sparkle.
Not too bothered about the hair as I prefer my own short.
But what puts me off is a lot of facial hair! In some cases you just want to get a hedge cutter and take it all off!

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Tue 07/25/23 06:37 PM
Doesn’t seem like it matters anyway. Every single person I talk to on this site is either AI, a bot, or prostitute wanting to get you off the app to another app to beg for money.

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Wed 07/26/23 04:05 AM
Doesn’t seem like it matters anyway. Every single person I talk to on this site is either AI, a bot, or prostitute wanting to get you off the app to another app to beg for money.

Hi Mark. maybe you just choosing the wrong type of people...?

I am looking as well and I am definitely not a robot...or a prostitute

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Fri 07/28/23 01:30 AM

All those, plus mainly NOTHING written as a profile..excpet that stupid "tell ya later" or "ask me anything"..

Immediate pass...I do not have the time or interest to try and ferrret out if we'd have anything at ALL in common...

The tell ya later is a piss off for me as well

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Fri 07/28/23 03:24 AM
When their write up is full of negativity or ranting about scammers, rather than being uplifting and positive.

When their profile pictures are bathroom or bedroom shots, or main profile picture is shirtless. Shirtless on a boat or the beach is okay, just not as the main photo.

Religious and/or political overtones

Married, looking for intimate encounters, and/or looking for FWB (friends with benefits)

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Fri 07/28/23 08:23 AM
Men picture looks 60 but he's 45

I am with you toodygirl...there are plenty in their 40s looking more close to 60s. But sometimes they ask for 10 or 20 years younger woman...so maybe that could be not their actual age but the age the are looking for...

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