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Topic: Some Things That Put you Off when Looking at Profiles?
enigma Joined Sun 11/08/20 Posts: 38	Tue 01/19/21 08:43 AM
adies, this post will appeal to both men and women, but as i am a man, it's geared to you. PLEASE FOR GOD'S SAKE, QUIT USING FILTERS! it may be fine for 20's yo, but when 40-50 yo's use them, it's just plain stupid. you might feel cute when your grand daughter takes you photo that way, but being men are visual creatures, hiding your face behind filters, generally means you are hiding something. on that note, men and women both, quit taking photos were your face, fills the frame. we all know hat you are hiding, but come on, 15 pictures of your duck lips or ultra dark goth look. ladies, a bit of make up please, and men and women both, get out of your PJ's and bed for God's sake. just how would you appear in your wedding. just my two cents

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Wed 01/20/21 04:38 AM
I don't care. I am here for the forums and friends I have made on this site.

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Wed 01/20/21 07:15 AM Edited by Poetrywriter on Wed 01/20/21 07:16 AM
^^^^ What Cutie said!

Unknow Joined Sat 12/02/17 Posts: 196	Wed 01/20/21 10:42 AM
When viewing a profile male or female, what things would make you think twice when looking for a potential partner/relationship or friend? Here are one or two of my put offs ~ 1. They show the top half of their body, naked. 2. They are laying on a bed or couch in a seductive way 3. They are holding an alcoholic drink or cigarette in their hand or are surrounded by alcohol. 4. Misspelt words. 5. They are clearly lying about their age. 6. They are 30 years your junior and their starting line is "Hey Babe"? Do you have any pet peeves? All of the above AND all of the previous bitching/moaning, plus all the fake criteria created by third and fouth party scammers.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14468	Thu 02/04/21 08:14 AM
1. Drinks in hand. 2. Too many tattoos. 3. Showing his body/dick print. 4. Smoking. 5. A woman in his photos. At least a man can still show a fish.

Unknow Joined Tue 04/28/20 Posts: 2930	Thu 02/04/21 09:14 AM
I don't look at people's profiles unless I am messaged by them. Everything turns me off, I am sure they are all scammers. So I stay on the forums and check you all out... I wear a mask, so you are safe

CM9999 Joined Mon 08/28/17 Posts: 44	Fri 02/26/21 10:42 AM
Another thing that seems to have become more prevalent recently is people whose profiles say that they are in the UK, so you message them, then when you get to talking it transpires that their profiles change to show that they are NOT in the UK! And especially the ones that say they are in Africa. I block them immediately because that means they are scammers. I wonder if there is a way that the people who run this site could at least "localise" peoples; location, maybe using the IP number of their login device? Just a thought ...

Unknow Joined Tue 06/11/19 Posts: 465	Sat 02/27/21 01:01 PM
Profile pics with mirrored sunglasses, and profile barely filled out.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14468	Sat 02/27/21 04:27 PM
Men picture looks 60 but he's 45

AJ70 Joined Sun 10/13/13 Posts: 47	Sun 02/28/21 01:24 PM Edited by AJ70 on Sun 02/28/21 01:25 PM
Women who say they arent interested in hookups but yet have pics where their cleavage is purposely displayed and boobs hanging out Women who take high overhead pics with their cheeks sucked in while puckering their lips in order to look thin No profile answers filled out or pics to show When they use the phrase....I love this city and all it has to offer"....its such a cut & paste job from other profiles Pics of their pets, sunrises, etc

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14468	Wed 03/03/21 10:10 AM
Pics that look like a Police mugshot, a passport photo or a possum caught in a spot light.

S B Joined Tue 03/17/20 Posts: 1	Wed 03/03/21 10:19 AM
any body wants to say anything please msg me in personal I am looking for good friend girl who want enjoy..

Luca Joined Sat 01/23/21 Posts: 241	Wed 03/03/21 10:21 AM
Men looking for pen pals with their genitals on display .. what is that about ?? Hi Mandy pen must be an abbreviation for penis

Luca Joined Sat 01/23/21 Posts: 241	Wed 03/03/21 11:59 AM
As someone already mentioned, religious talk really puts me off. Also the tendency to ask me money or credit card number though!

delightfulillusion Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 119332	Thu 03/04/21 08:13 AM
Seeing new member’s profiles and reading they are married only to find a few days later they’ve changed their marital status to ‘No Answer’. I know who you all are

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Sun 03/07/21 10:16 AM
A guy asked on the radio what he should / should not have in photos on a dating site. Women could send in reply. NR1 NO GO: Holding a fish like a carp. These sure as hell count as big gross, off-putting fish Others: - bathroom selfies - Bare chest/beach/swimming pool - group photos - kid in photo - animals in general My personal Nr 2 after the fish.... old photo where he cropped his ex missus off, the time he was still happy with her and thus having a big happy smile.

Luca Joined Sat 01/23/21 Posts: 241	Sun 03/07/21 02:15 PM
a big put off for me is right wing talking... like racist, intolerant, bigot, populist... even if one looks like Liv Tyler at her best, if she starts talking that way she's out...

Unknow Joined Wed 10/25/17 Posts: 2473	Sun 03/07/21 03:01 PM
When the say things like "I'm only here for the forums..."

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Mon 03/08/21 04:05 AM
I don't come on here enough to have an opinion.

AJ70 Joined Sun 10/13/13 Posts: 47	Tue 03/09/21 03:17 AM
The audacity of people who comment on this subject that dont even have a PICTURE...LOL!