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Liz Joined Fri 02/22/19 Posts: 124	Thu 02/28/19 11:41 AM
Why do I have so many 30 to 50 years old men looking at my posts and matching with me? I'm 65 years old. Where are the men my age?

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1709	Thu 02/28/19 11:54 AM
Most of them fall in the same pot that the 25-35 women that message me. They are looking to "help" you with your bank account!!

... Joined Sat 09/26/15 Posts: 1932	Thu 02/28/19 12:19 PM
Sad, but true. Use the search facility to limit the age range, distance and more. Ignore those unsuitable ones who approach you. Good luck!

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 8910	Thu 02/28/19 12:26 PM
Hi Liz .. the match function is just a random game ..as for the rest you can use filters to limit who can contact you but you cannot stop who views you .. just laugh it off .. it is a global dating site .. for many English is not their first language and they will view based on just your photo . Contact those you are interested in and ignore the rest . Same with message replies

Freebird Deluxe Joined Sun 12/23/18 Posts: 4637	Thu 02/28/19 12:53 PM
Why do I have so many 30 to 50 years old men looking at my posts and matching with me? I'm 65 years old. Where are the men my age? yes I get a dozen a day young chicks good luck

Vera Joined Sun 03/31/13 Posts: 304	Thu 02/28/19 12:53 PM
Why do I have so many 30 to 50 years old men looking at my posts and matching with me? I'm 65 years old. Where are the men my age? It's not only for money. Some young men think about the qualities of an elderly woman. She knows herself and she has life experience. With her the times for Babies is over and she will not bother him to building a house. Her life has stability. Her children have their own life. And now it is time to enjoy life. I am 63 and my husband is very young. He is very caring and loving, and he never ask for money! It's a true love. I thank God! *In the forums is a topicof how to identify scammers! Wishing you the best and that love finds you!

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14438	Thu 02/28/19 01:20 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 02/28/19 01:21 PM
Search men of your own age group on the search function. It works finding men in your own age group.

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Thu 02/28/19 02:27 PM
Hi Liz .. the match function is just a random game ..as for the rest you can use filters to limit who can contact you but you cannot stop who views you .. just laugh it off .. it is a global dating site .. for many English is not their first language and they will view based on just your photo . Contact those you are interested in and ignore the rest . Same with message replies I agree with Blondey Welcome to Mingle2, Liz

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10623	Thu 02/28/19 02:54 PM
Liz, some men only look at the picture and that is all, and you don't look 65. You look younger.

Liz Joined Fri 02/22/19 Posts: 124	Thu 02/28/19 09:08 PM
Ok. Thanks everyone for your input.

Goingforasong Joined Mon 04/02/18 Posts: 196	Thu 02/28/19 10:29 PM
Don't believe any of them Liz.All the men of your age are busy rocking with the 25 year old chicks who find us mature guys so appealing.

Smartazzjohn Joined Sun 06/03/07 Posts: 4844	Thu 02/28/19 10:52 PM
Personally I'm flattered by all the 20 something's that message me....and I know they aren't scammers. I can tell they are real and honest because they all say "Hello handsome, how are you?"

olivepit Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 393	Thu 02/28/19 11:55 PM
I get the Hotties in the 70 to 85-year-old range.

Colt44 Joined Tue 12/11/18 Posts: 4	Sun 03/24/19 08:40 PM
why must the men be your age? It's just a number and anyway, many of them are dead by now :-)

Colt44 Joined Tue 12/11/18 Posts: 4	Sun 03/24/19 08:41 PM
For a brief second you're flattered, then you realise that most of them want you to pay their phones with Amazon cards.

Colt44 Joined Tue 12/11/18 Posts: 4	Sun 03/24/19 08:42 PM
I guess it takes them all night to do what they used to do all night

Smartazzjohn Joined Sun 06/03/07 Posts: 4844	Sun 03/24/19 08:57 PM
Mine is not to question why.....mine is to just say bye bye.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Mon 03/25/19 03:05 AM Edited by Riverspirit1111 on Mon 03/25/19 03:08 AM
Personally I'm flattered by all the 20 something's that message me....and I know they aren't scammers. I can tell they are real and honest because they all say "Hello handsome, how are you?" Says the man who questioned my honesty when I said you were handsome! OT... I agree with Blondey and rosie Liz. Just focus on the ones you're interested in and don't worry about the others, it's less mind boggling :)