Topic: Rejection?
nemeton's photo
Wed 03/06/19 03:05 AM
So I am pretty ugly guy but why do women view the profile, like it, then fail to message me? Maybe there is no-one from UK but this is daft! I am wasting my time!

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 03/06/19 04:29 AM
If you feel you're wasting your time go spend it better.
That attitude works against you. You seem to be a pretty negative fella which is worse than not being God's gift to woman.
Your profile says "I need a partner/relationship".
*** RUNS FOR THE HILLS!!***
No one likes someone who's needy. People want someone who's positive, confident and got something going for themselves.
If you haven't got that then you got you're answer as to why it feels like a waste of time.
You can also be a bit more proactive and approach women yourself.
And work on your attitude & vibe.
A genuine smile would help too.

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/06/19 05:34 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 03/06/19 05:36 AM
Women view profiles maybe they not interested in you so they don't message you . It's not always about Looks. Maybe they want you to message them first.

I get dozens of views from men almost daily. Most of them cannot message me because I set filters for certain age.

I am attractive it's not about looks I don't get a message.:smile:


Online is often Very difficult for some to find dates. Don't limit yourself to One dating site.


Mingle is a Social Forums site.

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Wed 03/06/19 05:54 AM
the profile is a bit odd and the stuff about mountains might scare some,any consolation though I get scores of views even from girls or fakes young enough to be my granddaughter, don’t get down about it.
good luck

oldkid46's photo
Wed 03/06/19 06:21 AM
Some of us seem to not be dateable both online and in real life. I believe that is a combination of things: our appearance, our beliefs/attitude, and our chosen lifestyle. These things do determine if anyone is interested in us. It is up to each of us if we want to change ourselves or are happy with who we are. For some of us, the available dating pool is mostly dried up!!!

Rock's photo
Wed 03/06/19 10:12 AM
Could have alot to do with the fact,
that the location on your profile, in
The Ukraine, while in the written section,
you claim to live in the United Kingdom..

To some, it would appear, that you've things
to hide. To others, it would simply appear
that you're duplicitous and dishonest.

Chicks look for red flags like that.


mzrosie's photo
Wed 03/06/19 12:31 PM
Hi nemeton, not all the numbers in Match said yes to your profile, some said MAYBE. Why don't you do the Match option yourself and if you happen to say YES or MAYBE to someone who also said the same to your profile, then the site will send you an email saying "Congratulations! You have a match."

or do the Search option intead and message those you are interested in. But remember, no reply could mean not interested.

However, if you feel you are just wasting your time here well then, you know what to do. happy waving



shooterhub's photo
Sun 03/10/19 08:47 PM
well said!

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 03/15/19 02:53 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 03/15/19 02:55 PM
Most people get rejected by someone during their Life.

If you don't, you're an exception ! :smile: