Well I think you have the answer right in front of you. To be with someone probably age is just a # but when you're looking for serious relationship is another story so do what pleases you. JMO As long as you don't hurt any young girl.

Sure

I had one that was 11 years younger than me, and I married her. Time showed me that was a mistake, we had different life experiences. The rest, always older than me, from three to eight years older.

So, only from my point of view. older is better. Your results may differ.

My ex who I was with for years and is now a really good friend is twenty years younger than me... Getting old is mandatory... Growing up is optional. Age difference in regard to life experience doesn't make a difference to a relationship, you put the effort in to really know each other then it's all good, just doesn't work if you don't work at it.. Both of you.

That would be up to the lady ... an if she is into flings ...

Yes

You got it right...

There are ladies who aged beautifully... you can't actually guess their age. So for me, if you are happy and contented regardless of the age difference; it's okay as long as you are not doing anything wrong.

Sorry but that old expression "age is just a number" does not hold water!

I married a man in 1980 who was only 7 yrs younger than me. It was a "non issue" then and a non issue when I divorced him 26 yrs later.

But...in 2011, I met a guy 14 yrs younger than me online and after 3 months of heavy dating...he moved into my home with me and lived with me as a husband for SEVEN YEARS.

Then..after my 71st birthday...things began to go sideways. He became involved with many activities, organizations, clubs, etc., which meant he not only was gone all day at work but then he was gone nights and weekends too!

Eventually, after 1 1/2 yrs of that...we agreed to part as friends and that's what we did.

No regrets on his part or mine...he was an amazing person, man and if not for the 14 yrs age difference, I would have spent the rest of my life with him.

So you can get away with it for awhile...but eventually, it will turn around and bite you....you know where!

That's why I sold my home, land, car, furniture and all I owned and moved from my home state in the south east and moved to NV to be near my only living family members.

I probably will NEVER find a man I find attractive who is even 1 yr younger than me now...but at least I had seven years of happiness with him and that's better than nothing.

In other words: Try not to get involved with anyone more than 5-7 yrs younger than yourself...it's not worth the risk.

May 3, 2019

in love age race doesn't matter

when you're younger, age has more to do with things. When you get older, my experience is it doesn't matter so much. It matters more who you are.

My lady was 10 years my junior. We had 16 wonderful years together. She would no more leave me than I would her. Liver cancer took her. I would have wished for another 20 years with her. But such is life and no one can turn back the clock.

Age was never an issue between us. We got along well.

I m 35 can date from 20 to 50

when you are 12 years old then it's a problem after 18 who gives a ****

Right

Absolutely yes :)

Well I never experience one but I think there is nothing wrong with being older or not as long as both agreed to be.

It shouldn't be a problem if both enjoy it.

There are many historical accounts and stories of large age differences not being a bother. Some cultures embrace it. Older teaches younger while being partners.

Or the unfortunate Edipus. A bad example, but age difference didn't put him off.

I did. my mom wasnt thrilled.

If you don't want sex anymore

I would like to meet a man that is younger than me or same age or even older