...as long as he knows who his wife is, is it really cheating in modern times?

It's in our nature. Men and woman cheat.

Polygamy! So every woman can marry a nice guy and men don't have to cheat.

For the greater glory of our immortal souls!

You would't find the answer.
That's a really personal **** and if you think
that it is only men's problem ,you are really wrong!

...my social skills are somewhat lousy due to my low numbers and lack of practice; is it wrong to ask my girlfriend to help out?

flawed initial expectations.
poor/overconfident self image.
social pressure/"friends".
communication breakdown.
physical/mental abuse.
hormone levels.
alcohol.

Ego.

Changing of diet is important

true, man ant sex freedom, earth is man paradise, free to choose from witch tree to pick an apple fruits to eat a satisfy his sexual hunger. what we don't have at home, if we want it, we look for it from outside source. Lack of communication about make people cheat.

man and women are all different people, we do different things for different reasons ! Why man cheat is a general question, the good question is what is cheating ? it all in our mind.

hi baby

The question "why does someone have the need to cheat" is more interesting and important.
In essence every human being wants love & stability. If someone cannot create and enjoy that, then why not?

I was just reading an article that said men cheat for sexual satisfaction while women cheat for emotional satisfaction. Reprehensible in either case in a relationship but unforgivable in marriage. Nothing worst than breaking a Sacred
Oath that you willingly swore.

Yes, we get different things out of sex. And since it's an emotional experience for us, including lots of bonding due to hormones, it's best for a woman not to jump in the sack with a new man too soon. For him it's sexual fun, for her an emotional investment.
I think this is why men can find it easier to cheat. Now these days so many women are more in their masculine energy, which could be why more women cheat nowadays as well.
But if you imagine that normally for a woman it's an emotional, bonding thing it's logical she wouldn't easily cheat.
I'm more in my feminine energy than masculine, I couldn't cheat. I didn't even find a lover for sex when my relationship was over but were still under the same roof until I found a house. Still felt like cheating.

As for the Sacred Oath... I don't think anyone over here vows 'till death do us part'. I do not believe in lifelong relationship as a given.

Well, of course it very much depends on the content of an Oath sworn during a marriage ceremony.

I honestly do not know. That is all I have to say.

Well said

boys cheated if they are not contented to their partners ..

man do cheated because they are busy for chasing something.. lol