Topic: Why do men/women cheat? 😢
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Wed 02/05/20 09:56 PM
Zzzzzzzzzzzzz

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Wed 02/05/20 10:17 PM
Might they found something more interesting


Karol Anne's photo
Thu 02/06/20 08:53 AM
ask for permission? u should break up, have some honor and dignity!

lallyn861's photo
Sat 04/25/20 02:18 PM
she want to try him in bed.


Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 05/03/20 11:21 AM
Multiple reasons people use for cheating, none are legitimate.
Just end it, rather than cheat in a relationship.

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Sun 05/03/20 11:24 AM
Because they are human and some people are both stupid and dishonest.

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Sun 05/03/20 03:20 PM
I agree with Toody.

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Mon 05/04/20 04:28 PM

ask for permission? u should break up, have some honor and dignity!


Asking for permission is open and honest and in no way undignified or cheating.

Better solutions at lower cost is what we should insist on from women alleging equality.

How about we flip a coin; heads you get it Your way and tails I get is My way.

What do you think, chics?

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Mon 05/04/20 04:29 PM

she want to try him in bed.




Just claim you want to be a friend so you can help me with the wheel pose and because you love to "break in the new guy".

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Thu 05/07/20 06:57 AM
Applies to both (all?) genders... Because they don't value their commitment to current relationship as much as they value whatever they think they will get from cheating.
My husband and I had an agreement. Lack of fidelity was a deal breaker. If you can't honor that, you need to leave. Neither of us cheated in 41+ years. And yes, I'm sure.
I was once very, very tempted. I will always be thankful that the man was smarter than me. He recognized that it was a bad idea and prevented both of us from ruining our marriages.

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Thu 05/07/20 07:33 AM
Simply because they are not honest to their partner.

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Fri 05/08/20 11:16 AM
Woman cheat, too better themselves in life. Both economically, socially.

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Sun 05/10/20 05:25 PM
I think it’s because they don’t really know what they want..

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Sun 05/10/20 05:42 PM
Ego 🤣

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Mon 05/11/20 01:15 PM
Maybe they need someone new!

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Fri 06/12/20 11:04 AM


Topic: Why do men cheat?


Answer: For the same reason that women cheat.

Really? Quite the tit for tat statement, which is incorrect:

They feel underappreciated, neglected, or ignored.
They feel more like a housekeeper, nanny, or financial provider than a wife or girlfriend. So they seek an external situation that validates them for who they are, rather than the services they perform.

They crave intimacy. Women tend to feel valued and connected to a significant other more through non-sexual, emotional interplay (talking, having fun together, being thoughtful, building a home and social life together, etc.) than sexual activity. When they’re not feeling that type of connection from their primary partner, they may seek it elsewhere.

They are overwhelmed by the needs of others.
Recent research about women who cheat indicates that many women, despite stating that they deeply love their spouse, their home, their work, and their lives, cheat anyway. These women often describe feeling so under-supported and overwhelmed by having to be all things to all people at all times that they seek extramarital sex as a form of life-fulfillment.

They are lonely. Women can experience loneliness in a relationship for any number of reasons. Maybe their spouse works long hours or travels for business on a regular basis, or maybe their spouse is emotionally unavailable. Whatever the cause, they feel lonely, and they seek connection through infidelity to fill the void.
They expect too much from a primary relationship. Some women have unreasonable expectations about what their primary partner and relationship should provide. They expect their significant other to meet their every need 24/7, 365 days a year, and when that doesn’t happen, they seek attention elsewhere.

They are responding to or re-enacting early-life trauma and abuse. Sometimes women who experienced profound early-life (or adult) trauma, especially sexual trauma, will re-enact that trauma as a way of trying to master or control it.

They’re not having enough satisfying sex at home.
There is a societal misconception that only men enjoy sex. But plenty of women also enjoy sex, and if they’re not getting it at home, or it’s not enjoyable to them, for whatever reason, they may well seek it elsewhere.

The reasons men use to cheat are entirely different, like immaturity, selfishness,
insecurity, etc. etc. you can read them here. http://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201704/13-reasons-why-men-cheat


I can add another reason for cheating, not by women, by men: out of spite, to hurt his woman.


All the above and so many more. We can have a whole psychological discussion this. In the end so it doesn't matter why a man or a woman cheats, it's about the damage they cause to more than just one person.

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Tue 06/16/20 10:21 AM
Nice women ask for permission.

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Tue 06/16/20 10:24 AM

Nice women ask for permission.


Of course they do slaphead

Oh honey, is it okay if I cheat on you? Will you give me your permission?

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Tue 06/16/20 10:27 AM


Nice women ask for permission.


Of course they do slaphead

Oh honey, is it okay if I cheat on you? Will you give me your permission?


It isn't cheating if you have permission. Can you leave one of your girlfriends who may be complaining she is not getting enough with me, while you have a girls night out with the rest of your girlfriends.

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Tue 06/16/20 10:30 AM



Nice women ask for permission.


Of course they do slaphead

Oh honey, is it okay if I cheat on you? Will you give me your permission?


It isn't cheating if you have permission. Can you leave one of your girlfriends who may be complaining she is not getting enough with me, while you have a girls night out with the rest of your girlfriends.


I have no words!!!! Do you actually live in the real world?