I received an e-mail from my BF's ex wife........Ok let's clarify she will be his ex wife as of 1/10/07 when they sign all the papers in front of the judge.........problem is this e-mail came from his account he has told me before that she has gotten into hisaccount since her's was the master account to begin wiht prior to them seperating.....He has 4 kids and i've talked with 3 of them so i've never figured i was hidden.......but in this e-mail she basically accuses me of being after her husband. She has a BF to my knowledge they are planning on getting married i'm at a total loss if i should respond to this e-mail or let it go and ignore it........I think it's stemming from the fact that he had her and her family(mom,dad,brother and his kids) over for thanksgiving and i don't know if she thought it meant something or what......feed back would be nice

ask him whats going on, if he says nothing and you trust it then ignore it.



and if he told you they were signing papers 1/10/07 then i wouldn't trust him, that was 11 months ago.

Ignore it. Nothing to gain by replying.

Sounds very fishy...show your BF the e-mail. Let him respond to it.

He's never lied yet.........I'm just trying to figure out whatthe hell is going on and why she is in his e-mail

heck yeah tell her to mind her own business with her boyfriend and stay away from your man because he belongs to you now as of january 10 2008!!!!!!!!!

My ex and I split 2 years ago. We have a 4 year old daughter together but we wouldn't spend thanksgiving with each other. And I sure wouldn't spend thanksgiving with my ex inlaws. But thats just me.

hey iceprincess i'd ignore it and theres other guys out there 2 look 4 ok?? but im looking n may have me 1 ( a girl) allready if u want 2 be buddy request me n ill pop u on my friends list names jerry ures is/?
ps by trhe happy holiday and merry xmas 2 !!

hey iceprincess i'd ignore it and theres other guys out there 2 look 4 ok?? but im looking n may have me 1 ( a girl) allready if u want 2 be buddy request me n ill pop u on my friends list names jerry ures is/?
ps by the happy holiday and merry xmas 2 !!

Something doesn't sound right! How does she have his password? I am sure by now he has reset his passwords? Are you sure that he isn't still seeing her? To me, that would be a big red flag!! I would show him the email and ask him to explain just what exactly is going on!!
I would never respond to her, never say stay away from your man! You don't own anyone, he is his own person. No one belongs to anyone...how silly is that? I would show him the email but I would never give her the pleasure to get an answer back from me. I am thinking that she wants to involve you in this divorce issue maybe? Maybe she will show that email to the judge? Nope don't answer that email!!!

this is how it all started i thought i was getting an e-mail from his son who is a little jealous right now:

Plz don't send this email address Fwd's. It's annoying and only adds to the junk mail that he already gets. I'm sure you understand.. Your cooperation is greatly appreciated!!

Thanks!

i responded:

I will make sure I don't make this mistake in the future. I do apologize for your inconvience i didn't realize i had this e-mail linked with my sisters and anything she sends me automatically gets forewarded to those that i do...........I'll make sure i get this corrected. Hope you have a good day.

Your Welcome!


this is what i got back and discovered it was the ex all along:

You know.. You might wanna lose that sarcastic tone. Obviously **** has not warned you about his wife's hot temper? Besides.. I don't know what you're getting so pissy about? Hmm m maybe because your chasing a man who only views YOU as a friend? Or could it be the simple fact that you are trying to latch on to him... I think that must be it.. otherwise why on earth would you be telling someone you barely know that you love them? You do have some deep seeded issues.. and yes.. I've shared MY concern with what is still MY husband! You must truly be blind.. as well as stupid.. he doesn't call you... duhhhhh if it wasn't for you contacting him there would be no contact! Did you really think you could just step on in, and take my place? Sending toys to *****.. I mean get real lady.. just who in the hell do you think you are? And visiting him in Norfolk...yeah.. see.. I know everything...bet you didn't know this.. We've been spending an awful lot of time together.... you really might want to rethink your place little girl.. so now run along.. go latch on to someone who may really want you.. and ooo yeah. while your at it.. since ****'s wifey pooh pissed you off.. turn off all those free pay channels your giving him out at the farm... it doesn't matter any to me.. and o if you feel the need to reach me.. ****'s email is just fine, or if your brave enough.. I'm ********812....ttfn! And, ummm yeah.. get a life.


So tell me do i just ignore?

I THINK YOU NEED TO SHOW HIM THE EMAIL AND SEE HOW HE RESPONS ABOUT IT AND BECAREFUL CAUSE THEM EX`S LIKE THAT CAN CAUSE MORE TROUBLES ....HAD SOMETHING LIKE THIS HAPPEN TO ME BEFOR . JUST BECAREFUL AND WATCH HOW MUCH SHE (THE EX) IS AT HIS HOUSE AND WITH HIM ... BEST WISHES AND GOOD LUCK

Ignore it and block all future mails.

Done! Don't get involved and don't send emails to that account.

I wouldn't personally respond to it. I would however, tell your boyfriend the e-mail you recieved and let him take care of it.
I wouldn't do the e-mail back and fourths with his soon to be ex-wife...she's an ex for a reason right? Besides, it would be a total waste of your time and energy.
I'm sure you will run across more e-mails and nasty remarks from her, afterall...you are with her ex-husband and sometimes jealousy's a *****!

I don't understand this Thanksgiving arrangement...I was married 11 years and divorced now almost 3 years...and even though my ex and I get along for the sake of our two children, I don't think I would invite him and his family over to my home for any type of holiday dinner...but, that's just me.

Good luck to you!

I haven't answered....gotta admitt being me it's hard.......I read him the e-mail and i forewarded it to his work address.......he says he doesn't know how she got in his e-mail as he had changed his password but his son has the password and i don't know if thats the leak.......he says he's gonna talk to her about it tomorrow i don't want to make things worse but i also don't want to keep my head in the sand and pretend all is well if it's not.......I'm transferring my job in may so i can be with him..........I gotta admitt i'm new to this i've never had to deal with an ex-anything b4 and i'm sorry she sounds a little disturbed to me.......

Why did he eat Thanksgiving dinner with her and her family? Is he spending a lot of time with her? HMM I think I would be checking out that whole situation!!!

Humm looks like a BIG RED FLAG TO ME GIRL how big does it have to be to wave in yur face. Girl I have always been honest with you. I would send him the e-mail tell him to deal with his wife for she is not his ex yet and if he really wants you to contact you after the divorce sounds like to me the wife might have something there. YOur stepping into a hornets nest big time.

the hoiday thing is because he had already invited her brother for thanksgiving so he could hunt and her brother decided to bring the parents and because he and the ex get along pretty much he figured she'd want to see them he extended her the invitation...........i told him i didn't like it but hey it's not my life or my ex

Why would he have her family over for a holiday?? Guess I'm just different stock, but think it would be time for him to move past her and her family... I could understand her stopping by to drop off the kids, but not like everyone is a big happy family..

It's just really odd to me because he does call all the time and i don't call him at the house because i choose not too i don't want to make his son uncomfortable instead i let him call me when he's there......there i thing's i'm not sure where she is coming from in there