Topic: Matters of the ❤️ Heart
Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 01/27/20 05:11 AM
Who likes giving gifts to those you admire, just because, no special occasions?
Could be any kind of gift ! :hearts:


This is more address to Men ! But women are welcome to respond.

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Mon 01/27/20 05:45 AM
As I think I've said in another similar thread, I'm a fairly spontaneous gift giver. Often, if I see something that I think someone that I'm close to would like, I'll get it for them. It's sometimes a bit hit and miss but once given, it's theirs to do whatever they like with. :slight_smile:.

oldkid46's photo
Mon 01/27/20 05:56 AM
I rarely buy gifts for others and really hate it when they buy little trinkets for me. What do you do with a piece of junk someone gave you that you have no need for or desire to have? I think people do it just to make them feel better about themselves!!

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 01/27/20 05:59 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Mon 01/27/20 06:00 AM
Whatever a person gives, should be from the Heart.

Could be a hug, word if encouragement.


Doesn't have to cost unless a person doesn't mine spending money.


Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 01/27/20 08:57 AM
Being years disabled and unable to work I used to fret about finding someone who would understand I need the money I get to live.
Then I found her.

Most of the gifts I give her have nothing to do with money.

When I met her she was stressed out. I taught her how to let that stress slide away. People that have known her tell me she is much calmer/happier since she met me.

I give her comfort.
I make her laugh, hard.
I expand her horizons.
I satisfy her sexually.
I demand nothing from her.
I am her friend and she is mine.
I treat her with respect, not only as a person but also as a woman and a mother.
I listen to her speak.
I thank her for all she does for me when she does it.
I do for her without fanfare.
I accept her as she is.
I teach her new things, new ways to look at life.
I show her optimism is easy.

We give each other the gift of change for the better.
Gifts that last far longer with more meaning, than trinkets of affection.

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 01/27/20 09:24 AM
Best gift is spending time with those you care about... which money can not buy, and more precious then what money can buy~~

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚's photo
Mon 01/27/20 09:31 AM
Yes hugs are great, one size fits all..bigsmile

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Mon 01/27/20 09:41 AM

Being years disabled and unable to work I used to fret about finding someone who would understand I need the money I get to live.
Then I found her.

Most of the gifts I give her have nothing to do with money.

When I met her she was stressed out. I taught her how to let that stress slide away. People that have known her tell me she is much calmer/happier since she met me.

I give her comfort.
I make her laugh, hard.
I expand her horizons.
I satisfy her sexually.
I demand nothing from her.
I am her friend and she is mine.
I treat her with respect, not only as a person but also as a woman and a mother.
I listen to her speak.
I thank her for all she does for me when she does it.
I do for her without fanfare.
I accept her as she is.
I teach her new things, new ways to look at life.
I show her optimism is easy.

We give each other the gift of change for the better.
Gifts that last far longer with more meaning, than trinkets of affection.

That's wonderful and moving :sunny:.

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 01/27/20 09:45 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Mon 01/27/20 09:48 AM
These are very interesting replies, shows how people can truly give to others!

Giving doesn't always involve :moneybag: Money!!

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 01/27/20 09:52 AM


Being years disabled and unable to work I used to fret about finding someone who would understand I need the money I get to live.
Then I found her.

Most of the gifts I give her have nothing to do with money.

When I met her she was stressed out. I taught her how to let that stress slide away. People that have known her tell me she is much calmer/happier since she met me.

I give her comfort.
I make her laugh, hard.
I expand her horizons.
I satisfy her sexually.
I demand nothing from her.
I am her friend and she is mine.
I treat her with respect, not only as a person but also as a woman and a mother.
I listen to her speak.
I thank her for all she does for me when she does it.
I do for her without fanfare.
I accept her as she is.
I teach her new things, new ways to look at life.
I show her optimism is easy.

We give each other the gift of change for the better.
Gifts that last far longer with more meaning, than trinkets of affection.

That's wonderful and moving :sunny:.

Its all I have to give anyone.
I live on less than 1/4th what I used to make.
They gave me a cost of living raise in January.
It is $32 per month.
Basically, it comes out to $1 per day.
I get just enough not to qualify for any assistance.
But my bills are paid and I have plenty of food.

Living in a beach town, the resaurants are around $20-25 a plate.
I can no longer afford that but I can cook her a wonderful meal in my romantic apartment that she loves.
I can buy flowers at the grocery store that are here when she comes.
I like flowers too, ya know.

Most of all, we smile when we see each other.

no photo
Mon 01/27/20 10:00 AM
Edited by Seamus on Mon 01/27/20 10:03 AM



Being years disabled and unable to work I used to fret about finding someone who would understand I need the money I get to live.
Then I found her.

Most of the gifts I give her have nothing to do with money.

When I met her she was stressed out. I taught her how to let that stress slide away. People that have known her tell me she is much calmer/happier since she met me.

I give her comfort.
I make her laugh, hard.
I expand her horizons.
I satisfy her sexually.
I demand nothing from her.
I am her friend and she is mine.
I treat her with respect, not only as a person but also as a woman and a mother.
I listen to her speak.
I thank her for all she does for me when she does it.
I do for her without fanfare.
I accept her as she is.
I teach her new things, new ways to look at life.
I show her optimism is easy.

We give each other the gift of change for the better.
Gifts that last far longer with more meaning, than trinkets of affection.

That's wonderful and moving :sunny:.

Its all I have to give anyone.
I live on less than 1/4th what I used to make.
They gave me a cost of living raise in January.
It is $32 per month.
Basically, it comes out to $1 per day.
I get just enough not to qualify for any assistance.
But my bills are paid and I have plenty of food.

Living in a beach town, the resaurants are around $20-25 a plate.
I can no longer afford that but I can cook her a wonderful meal in my romantic apartment that she loves.
I can buy flowers at the grocery store that are here when she comes.
I like flowers too, ya know.

Most of all, we smile when we see each other.

Thanks for sharing :thumbsup: it's a rare person who is content with what they have. May it long continue.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 01/27/20 11:08 AM

Who likes giving gifts to those you admire, just because, no special occasions?
Could be any kind of gift ! :hearts:


This is more address to Men ! But women are welcome to respond.


huh Just why is this topic "more address to Men"?

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 01/27/20 11:11 AM


Who likes giving gifts to those you admire, just because, no special occasions?
Could be any kind of gift ! :hearts:


This is more address to Men ! But women are welcome to respond.


huh Just why is this topic "more address to Men"?

Probably because every woman on dating sites know men are shallower than women.

oldkid46's photo
Mon 01/27/20 12:00 PM


Who likes giving gifts to those you admire, just because, no special occasions?
Could be any kind of gift ! :hearts:


This is more address to Men ! But women are welcome to respond.


huh Just why is this topic "more address to Men"?
Women desire more trinkets of affection than most men are providing.

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 01/27/20 04:36 PM


Who likes giving gifts to those you admire, just because, no special occasions?
Could be any kind of gift ! :hearts:


This is more address to Men ! But women are welcome to respond.


huh Just why is this topic "more address to Men"?



Because it's my topic !