why is it so hard to find a good woman? someone who's honest, loving, caring, passionate, faithful, and seeking a real relationship. Commitment. who's not with all of the b.s./childish games.

I can say the same for men. But all men lie, cheat, and scam

Unfair to say all men lie, cheat and scam.

^^^ here’s one.

Yes alot of men cheat,lie, and scam. But that's most, NOT ALL. I fully believe in and live by honesty.

thank you for your support

There are always good and real women and men. You may have to search a little.

As I've been looking for that special someone,who I can settle down with and possibly build a future & family with,it seems as if most women are just looking for sex buddies. I guess that real relationships, committed relationships have lost their value, lost their flair...Why is that??? I know that everyone hasn't been harmed to the extent that everyone is giving up on having real relationships. Have everyone lost their faith in the aspect of having a successful long-term relationship with the opposite sex???

I give up. I never found someone i can trust and respect. Most just want sex and no relationship

Seems like lot of bull anymore,from both sides,,id just like to find someone that can carry on a conversation,then c how it goes

In real life.


It's not.
The only thing that causes difficulties are personal subjective biases, standards, and expectations.

95% of female profiles immediately send an external link when sent a message. Each one gets reported as a spammer. Obviously they are not here for a relationship of any type, just to grab credit card details

A simple lesson in life...

If it's only one or two of 'them',
the problem is most likely 'them'.

If it's only 'some' of 'them',
the problem may be 'them'.

If it's 'ALL' of 'them',
the problem is definitely 'YOU'.

well Mr.newbie ... don't take this wrong but some do not want to go out of their comfort zone and date ... a black men ... just saying ... now u will find some that do if u stay with it ... and here in the forums most are not
prejudices and will have conversation on topics ... like this one ... I have found the longer you stay the more you understand people ... and there not all bad in here ... but as they say differnt stroke for differnt folks ... wow have not said that in awhile -> good luck ... on your journey ...

Wow, all u people are bad

Oh Yeah
I think you hit the nail on the head with that one

All of the real women are in Stepford, Connecticut . . . or so I heard.

And can I ask you what you bring to the table that makes you particularly worthy of these "real" women's attentions?

On a serious note, most men really don't understand women. Women need to see a man in all his masculinity.
most guys wanna play "nice" and that's a turn off for women. Then there are words they use that mean the total opposite. So guys, please, I know you are honest and a "good guy" but be open.

What I find too is, most "good guys" really don't know what to say to a woman. Women love to be blown away but not in a pretentious way. be real and creative and you will see how you'll attract a few