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Topic: HOW DO I SAY GOOD BYE
SHOWTIME23's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:24 AM
LAST TIME I TRIED TO BREAK UP WITH HER SHE WANTED TO KILL HER SELF

Italy0219's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:26 AM
She won't do it, don't break up with her, just get another girlfriend and tell her you want her and the other girl too, this will make her so made she will be the one to leave, works most of the time.

Turtlepoet78's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:27 AM
My ex used to always pull that crap on me. Eventualy I just broke up with her anyway, no point in putting up with all the BS;^]

ellgee1976's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:33 AM
pfftt...those that TELL you they're gonna kill themselves...are lookin for attention in my opinion...

have you ever known anyone that did it? if the answer is yes..then you also know it took you by surprise...they didn't tell you about it before-hand..they also hid it really well..why you ask? they didn't want you to try to stop 'em

so for her to tell you she'll do it..is only a way to guilt you into staying...

MissPuddin's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:34 AM
I do agree with getting a new girlfriend.

Personally - I wouldnt play with fire by saying you want two women. That still encourages her because you're still saying you want her.

Talk to her family and tell them what she has said before, and let her family take it from there.

Move on and cut the tie permanently. Anything else will encourage her there is hope.

Good luck.

MP

RICKG1961's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:36 AM
some of them just like playing game's
men do to, wemen more so.they just want
you to feel bad. and believe me some time's
it work's,talk to her and let her know how
you really feel.and stay friend's it's not
worth fighting all the time....

andreajayne's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:40 AM
i was seeing a guy this summer, and he got drunk, and called me a c*nt. I was pissed, so I tired to leave. he said if i left he was going to go jump off the dam into the river. calling his bluff, i offered to drive him down there myself since it was about a half mile walk.

it still worries you that they are for real, but most are not and just looking for attention. if you think she is serious, call the cops and tell them she is suicidal, they can keep her for 24 hours for an evaluation.

bgeorge's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:42 AM
whatever...oh the drama!!! just walk away and don't play games..and no looking back or stringing her along eithernoway
she'll get over it and on to her next victimflowerforyou

willy_cents's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:42 AM
my ex used to threateen to kill herself often, until I went and got the gun and gave it to her and told her to get it over with or quit threatening. That was the end of the killing herself threats. She just wanting attention and her own way, I suspect. If she in fact kills herself, no fault of yours; we cannot control others actions. Just do what you feel is best for you in this case

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:43 AM

LAST TIME I TRIED TO BREAK UP WITH HER SHE WANTED TO KILL HER SELF



That would solve your problem for life, Once you say goodbye

Its GOODBYE

azrae1l's photo
Sat 12/22/07 08:50 AM
tell her you wanna make a home porn movie with her and a well endowed donkey. usually that gets girls to leave me, even when i'm serious..........

Turtlepoet78's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:00 AM

tell her you wanna make a home porn movie with her and a well endowed donkey. usually that gets girls to leave me, even when i'm serious..........


laugh laugh laugh laugh Never know she might like that laugh laugh laugh laugh

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:41 AM

LAST TIME I TRIED TO BREAK UP WITH HER SHE WANTED TO KILL HER SELF


Kill yourself first, then you dont have to be concerned about breaking up with her


Sorry but this dude needs some therapy, or needs to get out of the house geez

Drew07_2's photo
Sat 12/22/07 01:58 PM
Personally, I'd probably call the bluff by saying something like: "Considering your comment about wanting to end your life over a break up, I feel very strongly that I need to let someone know about this." Then let her know that you'll tell her parents of her threat, and perhaps law enforcment (who will haul her off if they think she's serious.)

Chances are she'll take back her words but if she doesn't you can then let someone know so that you've done the human part of this right. Then, run like the wind, man. I agree with most people here; chances are it's a form of attention she is seeking but I don't imagine any of us would want that on our minds.

Just a though,

Drew

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:30 PM
just walk away aint no need to stay with someone u dont want to,it isnt fair to her or u

I have had a few say the same thing,but they never did so u need to just say bye and leave dont talk to her no more

itsmetina's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:35 PM
Edited by itsmetina on Sat 12/22/07 09:37 PM
u could take the cowards way and be such a jerk she dumps u

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:41 PM
why take any other way then the right way,it isnt that hard to tell them how u fill and say good bye if u really feel this,then say goodbye and go if u dont stay and work through things

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Sun 12/23/07 06:24 AM
1. Tell her parents - even if she isn't a minor, she is still one in her head.

2. Consult a professional or call a hotline

3. Make her bored of you

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Sun 12/23/07 09:56 PM
look dog she knows you will stay if she say that tell her piss off and duce out that peace if she do it bye bye if not same thing its all hood

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Sun 12/23/07 10:15 PM
lets see...
good bye
see ya
im outta here
been nice knowing you
later
in a few
hasta la vista baby
adios
au revoir
bye bye


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