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Topic: Dating ... One Or Multiple ..?.
Leo Joined Mon 03/15/21 Posts: 31	Sat 05/22/21 12:17 PM
One at a time; invest in that person to see if you are a good fit! Stay Focused!!

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Sat 05/22/21 01:10 PM
It is difficult enough to find a date these days. If you get one, on first meet you would know right away if there is chemistry between you and them. If chemistry is there, go for a second meet, which would be considered a date. If there is no chemistry and you couldn't see yourself holding hands with this person... Run and never look back.

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4935	Sat 05/22/21 01:15 PM
Four. According to Sharia law

Unknow Joined Wed 10/25/17 Posts: 2473	Wed 05/26/21 02:50 PM
Four. According to Sharia law You get one. She doesn't share.

Redrider1500 Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 865	Wed 05/26/21 03:51 PM
I do none at a time. The rare times I did date, it was only one at a time. It took some time to adjust to not dating much. Since I was never into the same things others were into, I guess I didn't mind after a while. Sitting around, talking and drinking got old fast. Watching a bunch of idiots chasing a ball around was worse. A few times when I was married, we'd get invited to parties. I generally sat and listened, they would talk about all the garbage I could care less about. Now, I just don't care.

Alex Joined Sun 11/15/20 Posts: 3	Fri 05/28/21 08:09 PM
Exactly. There's nothing better than a one on one relationship in every sense of the word

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Sat 05/29/21 12:30 AM
My plan since I retired back here is; date many which raises the odds of meeting my next LTR. So far I have a few FWB but that's exactly what we are at this point is friends.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Sat 05/29/21 05:16 AM
It is difficult enough to find a date these days. If you get one, on first meet you would know right away if there is chemistry between you and them. If chemistry is there, go for a second meet, which would be considered a date. If there is no chemistry and you couldn't see yourself holding hands with this person... Run and never look back. Wise words my dear friend, rosie

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 36757	Sat 05/29/21 05:29 AM
plenty of meet and greets , casual dates etc but the one with resulting chemistry , sparks , butterfly etc is elusive...... but yes, one at a time works for me !!!

Laska Paul Joined Sun 11/08/20 Posts: 19367	Sat 05/29/21 05:43 AM
Is Dating Considered as a Relationship ???????????

Rajat Joined Thu 05/20/21 Posts: 5	Sat 05/29/21 02:09 PM
it's better , date with one

Laska Paul Joined Sun 11/08/20 Posts: 19367	Sat 05/29/21 11:26 PM
it's better , date with one The Journey to Dating is not an Eazzzyy Thing , Remember There are Potholes . Once lost Balance, difficult to come Out .

bristi198 Joined Mon 03/17/14 Posts: 16	Sun 06/20/21 02:45 AM
Multiple and keep looking

Michael Joined Sat 06/19/21 Posts: 15	Sun 06/20/21 06:47 AM
unfair question since a large swath of the population is not mentally equipped to deal with multiple partners at once. the rise of polyamory as a fad for average folks is nothing but a recipe for disaster. it takes a unique, free thinking and highly confident individual to attempt such a relationship with like minded individuals.

Mario Joined Wed 06/23/21 Posts: 3	Fri 06/25/21 08:01 AM
I don't date more than one although it is a good thought. There are dating coaching that recommend it for women as women tend to attach and get committed too soon. But then this is recommended by US coaches and although I do agree up to a point with it, Dutch people aren't like Americans, meaning Dutch men aren't either. However, I don't and can't date more than one for the reasons these coaches give. I invest when I date someone for an extended period of time. And I have indeed paid a steep price when it turned out that I was invested and committed, but the man wasn't. So there is a good reason for what is called circular dating. I find it difficult to do though. Hi queen, how long have you been here and what are you searching ?

Mario Joined Wed 06/23/21 Posts: 3	Fri 06/25/21 08:01 AM
It is difficult enough to find a date these days. If you get one, on first meet you would know right away if there is chemistry between you and them. If chemistry is there, go for a second meet, which would be considered a date. If there is no chemistry and you couldn't see yourself holding hands with this person... Run and never look back. Hi queen, how long have you been here and what are you searching ?

Unknow Joined Tue 02/16/21 Posts: 12	Fri 06/25/21 08:05 AM
only one person but....?

Scott Joined Fri 06/25/21 Posts: 2	Fri 06/25/21 08:46 AM
I need a legit partner