Topic: Women choosing women as lovers
ivegotthegirth's photo
Sat 07/10/21 08:05 AM
Edited by ivegotthegirth on Sat 07/10/21 08:08 AM
35 years ago I lived with two sweet women (that I'm still friends with) in Atlanta, they were 100% lesbians.
This is what I learned from them;

Most men are very selfish lovers who mostly care about their own pleasures.

Most men are lacking in the knowledge of how to truly please women and for whatever reasons not even very interested in bettering themselves in this regard.

Most men are not much interested in non sexual intamacies that are so important to women.

I lived with them for 8/9 months and we often slept together (by that I do not mean we had penis/vagina sex) they did teach me to perfect a couple of skills however.

They did not wish for men to be more feminine but they did feel that men should address the issues above.

That's JMO and experiences on the OT.

bobtail76's photo
Mon 07/12/21 05:52 AM




Just being honest being very candid here and it goes against my religion, but I kissed a girl and I liked it.
The kiss doesn’t surprise me Ladywind :wink: .

Personally I have zero interest in sexual intimacy with females . I can understand why it happens ., intimacy regardless of gender is still intimacy ... but men should not become scapegoats in such scenarios . unmet needs in this case are a matter of perspective . Curious what those needs are ??


Men become scapegoats? That is your perception. The topic is not about men, it is why women are chosing women. They are not sharing this info with men, they are sharing it with their women friends. I personally think it their unmet needs, I have not delved deep enough to discover why, hence the thread.
All opinions are appreciated.


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yes , I understand the topic :-) . I didn’t bring men in to this discussion .

Three quotes from you ...,.
“Crystal , my friends are very serious . I personally think it is because their needs are not met by men.“ (quoted by ladywind)

“Men mostly make you feel like a sexual object .. women do not”. (Quoted by ladywind )

“Perhaps if men are not so controlling and believing they are superior because of twisting scripture and their religion, women would be not so unattracted to the average man “. (Quoted by ladywind).

I stand by my earlier comment :-)



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Jo 's photo
Wed 07/28/21 06:21 AM
If you are a practicing christian, you would want to research the topic.

I can only help by being gentle and humble. What I sow is between you and God to harvest.

There are plenty of verses in scripture that speak about homosexuals. God designed this world. It is "His" creation. It is "His" rules. Therefore, if we love God, we abide to His commandments.

Secondly, we are called to love one another. But we are not called to love the sin. We are called to repent our sins and practice a righteous walk in Christ.

God created Adam first. Then with Adam's rib, God created a helper- the woman named Eve. Why did not God create another man? after Adam Or why did God not create a woman first? Why did God make the role of the man to be the head of the house? Why is God not called "Mother" but instead, "Father?"

Satan is the author of confusion.

God bless.

Lilith was created first

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Sat 12/04/21 04:10 AM


Waiting for Rockgnomes input. He will floor us all x laugh


I have no input.
What two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own
whever, is their own business.


With that said, I won't be in a relationship with a
bisexual woman. Simply based on her sexual attraction
to either gender, there's no one person who will
ever be able to meet her needs. Which will lead to her
either cheating, or having a strong desire to.

Gnomie don't share his playthings.
love love neither does blondey tongue2

Rod's photo
Sun 12/05/21 10:01 PM
I would have to watch them before I could give you an answer.

Regina Daniel 's photo
Mon 12/06/21 02:57 AM
I’m tired of look for a man to love me, now I’m going into lesbianism fully

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Mon 12/06/21 03:16 AM

So many of my female friends have said they are seriously thinking about choosing a woman to be their partner.
Why do you think they say this?
My lady friends are all very strong, independent women....



Woman only know what woman wants - even in the time of screaming - Male and Boys are so innocent because they don't know why the woman is screaming - it's in pain or to make pain... not offending or not Judging... please take it cool.

Aneika_88's photo
Sun 01/09/22 06:11 PM
Women are strong and beautiful beings.. They're naturally nurturing and that makes them easier to love ❤. I can connect with women in such a deep sense..men care about sex and they suck at being emotionally understanding.

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Sun 01/09/22 07:07 PM

Women are strong and beautiful beings.. They're naturally nurturing and that makes them easier to love ❤. I can connect with women in such a deep sense..men care about sex and they suck at being emotionally understanding.

With the right person, if it is truly Love, it is the best in the world to have a partner, but if you are not in love with that person it is very hard to connect, most relationships one of the partners is totally head over hills in love with the other, but the other partner is not or does not love the same and that is what creates the problem, Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, if two people can come together as what we call soul mates !

Ava Adore's photo
Sun 01/09/22 07:22 PM
I'm a straight woman, and I don't think I'd ever want to be in a relationship with another woman, because I find that we ladies have the tendency to be toxic to one another.

I do find women attractive, but I'd rather stay friends than lovers :slight_smile:

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Sun 01/09/22 09:01 PM

So many of my female friends have said they are seriously thinking about choosing a woman to be their partner.
Why do you think they say this?
My lady friends are all very strong, independent women....


Maybe Woman knows what woman wants.

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Mon 01/10/22 07:35 AM
You don't have to be "born that way" for it to be seen as a better option because men are just doing stuff wrong.
not saying it is or not... just saying

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Thu 01/13/22 07:37 PM
Wowen who choose women sexual partners.

hi

Annablizz's photo
Fri 01/14/22 01:24 AM
After kissing her, does it feel the same as kissing a man? I mean that we should be free to make our choice anyway but there is a feeling I get with men

Mike6615's photo
Fri 01/14/22 03:06 PM
Read an article that in womens' prisons, some women form a physical relationship with another inmate, but then go back to men-only after they're released.

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Sat 01/15/22 12:09 PM
I’m finding as a couple women are interested in us. They get both sexual experiences and they know there’s no games. Best of both worlds

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Sat 01/15/22 02:01 PM
Hey babe what can I say, girls are much better kissers :kiss: I'd say go for it x

Dr j m's photo
Sun 01/16/22 08:24 AM
Hey babe what can I say, girls are much better kissers :kiss: I'd say go for it x

may be i agree with you. females being sensual in nature

Dr j m's photo
Sun 01/16/22 08:26 AM
After kissing her, does it feel the same as kissing a man? I mean that we should be free to make our choice anyway but there is a feeling I get with men

not at all, i presume.
both are different in nature.

Rod's photo
Wed 01/19/22 11:54 AM
Can I watch