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We all know the human ego can easily be offended especially when a comment is personal and from someone we know or like .
Is it in ? Is this Condon too big ? That was quick !!! You could do with losing a few pounds ! Have you considered a boob job ? What would make smoke come out of your ears if a potential date or romantic partner said it to you ? When you are offended .. what is your go to response (we all have them) No man should ever tell me to be silent or question my integrity  My go to response is .. the death stare followed by “Go to hell “. Not the biblical hell but the real life equivalent  Share yours .. I double dare you  |
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I usually try and make my SILENCE heard on such occasions, and I have been through some such unwanted incidents! Yeah, I have done it effectively! Though such incidents had nothing to do with physicality or body shaming.
I have an almost zero tolerance too rude behavior, or unwanted curse words, "beeped out words" which some don't think twice before uttering! If she happens to be a date I do give her a chance to correct herself! But as you rightly said, the human ego is delicate and she won't budge! Here, I WITHDRAW. |
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I daily Egg O in my breakfast,
so that's i usually welcomed an addicts from......??  I take all such stuffs in funny ways, never get it seriously, When its upto me.. Either prefer to skip or maintain to remain silent  Stay Positive & Peaceful Minded    
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Already then I don't think were right for each other I'm not ((INTO head games )) or padding someone ego not I if a person can't be respectful I bid them far well I'm not doing that anymore been there done that conceited will get any of me no where MAN pls listen the Beatles,,, I'm a good egg I love myself, I tell myself this everyday, Coldersky minus the halo,
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sometimes when I spend more time to explain the love from my heart forgetting all the anger that was shown to me n suddenly when the person hits back with the words "use your brain"
 I don't anymore feel like putting efforts to explain abt anything anymore   "that peace be with you" moment for me n will take that time to charge myself n get bck my energy   |
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I don't like it when someone tells me to calm down. That never goes over well with me. I also don't like being condescended to.
If I'm upset, I'll usually get quiet; maybe look for an excuse to leave for a while. |
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When someone refers to Indians, Pakistanis, Africans or English people, but they come out with the words "your people" to me...
It's true that I associate with all of those nationalities, and it just presses my buttons  So much so that I may go shopping for a size 12 frying pan the same day  I may even respond with... Have you ever been murdered before? 🤣 |
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Have you considered a boob job ? Share yours .. I double dare you I get offended when they say that to me also! 
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We all know the human ego can easily be offended especially when a comment is personal and from someone we know or like . Is it in ? Is this Condon too big ? That was quick !!! You could do with losing a few pounds ! Have you considered a boob job ? What would make smoke come out of your ears if a potential date or romantic partner said it to you ? When you are offended .. what is your go to response (we all have them) No man should ever tell me to be silent or question my integrity My go to response is .. the death stare followed by “Go to hell “. Not the biblical hell but the real life equivalent Share yours .. I double dare you I don't get offended. Here's your answers: 1) Don't you know it's rude to talk with your mouth full 2) It's ok, I brought my own 3) That's a good thing...the game starts in 5 minutes  4) You're probably right - I could lose about 130lbs..it's over between us 5) I'm not willing to buy your boobs, get the guy you were gonna leave me for, after you got em to pay for them...  |
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I usually try and make my SILENCE heard on such occasions, and I have been through some such unwanted incidents! Yeah, I have done it effectively! Though such incidents had nothing to do with physicality or body shaming. I have an almost zero tolerance too rude behavior, or unwanted curse words, "beeped out words" which some don't think twice before uttering! If she happens to be a date I do give her a chance to correct herself! But as you rightly said, the human ego is delicate and she won't budge! Here, I WITHDRAW.  knowing what I know about you . Your response fits with the Man I know you to be  It is true that something’s spoken in anger or frustration cannot be taken back , so I avoid unleashing in that way . Rather than being silent I tend to express how I am feeling and why. My go to hell response is usually reserved for situations that appear futile .
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I daily Egg O in my breakfast, so that's i usually welcomed an addicts from......?? I take all such stuffs in funny ways, never get it seriously, When its upto me.. Either prefer to skip or maintain to remain silent Stay Positive & Peaceful Minded I like my eggs sunny side up Humour can be great at resolving conflict , however that depends on the seriousness /context of what the conflict is . Deflection and silence is not always helpful . |
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Already then I don't think were right for each other I'm not ((INTO head games )) or padding someone ego not I if a person can't be respectful I bid them far well I'm not doing that anymore been there done that conceited will get any of me no where MAN pls listen the Beatles,,, I'm a good egg I love myself, I tell myself this everyday, Coldersky minus the halo, every relationship has its ups and downs . I guess my response would be based on how emotionally invested I am in the relationship and if I believe it is worth saving . I try not to play the blame game .. there are generally faults on both sides . Respect is super important but also acknowledging the other person’s world view and attempting to understand the catalyst behind their behaviour/communication .
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When someone refers to Indians, Pakistanis, Africans or English people, but they come out with the words "your people" to me... It's true that I associate with all of those nationalities, and it just presses my buttons So much so that I may go shopping for a size 12 frying pan the same day I may even respond with... Have you ever been murdered before? 🤣 ..we all have different triggers and thresholds when it comes to buttons being pushed .... I find sticking long needles into voodoo dolls very therapeutic
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sometimes when I spend more time to explain the love from my heart forgetting all the anger that was shown to me n suddenly when the person hits back with the words "use your brain" I don't anymore feel like putting efforts to explain abt anything anymore "that peace be with you" moment for me n will take that time to charge myself n get bck my energy words can be very damaging especially when from someone we have a romantic connection to . Time out from a confrontation and giving each other personal space to reflect in most cases is helpful . .the lead into that , and how a situation is left can be important . The silent treatment is not always effective .
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I don't like it when someone tells me to calm down. That never goes over well with me. I also don't like being condescended to. If I'm upset, I'll usually get quiet; maybe look for an excuse to leave for a while. .. I would generally challenge anything I considered condescending before going quiet but that can just exacerbate conflict . I certainly have a fiery side but I try to remain aware of why someone is acting the way they are and what my part in all that is .
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Have you considered a boob job ? Share yours .. I double dare you I get offended when they say that to me also! making me laugh .. poetry .. thankfully no man has said that to me .. yet lol
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We all know the human ego can easily be offended especially when a comment is personal and from someone we know or like . Is it in ? Is this Condon too big ? That was quick !!! You could do with losing a few pounds ! Have you considered a boob job ? What would make smoke come out of your ears if a potential date or romantic partner said it to you ? When you are offended .. what is your go to response (we all have them) No man should ever tell me to be silent or question my integrity My go to response is .. the death stare followed by “Go to hell “. Not the biblical hell but the real life equivalent Share yours .. I double dare you I don't get offended. Here's your answers: 1) Don't you know it's rude to talk with your mouth full 2) It's ok, I brought my own 3) That's a good thing...the game starts in 5 minutes 4) You're probably right - I could lose about 130lbs..it's over between us 5) I'm not willing to buy your boobs, get the guy you were gonna leave me for, after you got em to pay for them...  you are such a smarty pants bob |
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We all know the human ego can easily be offended especially when a comment is personal and from someone we know or like . Is it in ? Is this Condon too big ? That was quick !!! You could do with losing a few pounds ! Have you considered a boob job ? What would make smoke come out of your ears if a potential date or romantic partner said it to you ? When you are offended .. what is your go to response (we all have them) No man should ever tell me to be silent or question my integrity My go to response is .. the death stare followed by “Go to hell “. Not the biblical hell but the real life equivalent Share yours .. I double dare you Noooo. I'm not feeling any pressure at all now. Thanks, sweetheart. |
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Hi Robin  I like my eggs sunny side up Humour can be great at resolving conflict , however that depends on the seriousness /context of what the conflict is . Deflection and silence is not always helpful . Firstly Hello Blondey Good Day & Always Keep Charming Topic: Insensitive Communitions I took as Forums as fun an humour, not related to any sentiments to be hearted.. as for unknown I'm not supposed to be advisable an known knows me well... Egg = Zero Sensitive = Insensitive Value Importance Roll Hunger+Knowledge  Thanks Tc. 
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When a Woman says "WHAT", itzzzzz Not becoz she didn't hear You . She is giving you a Chance to Change what You Said . |
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