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Topic: 2nd girlfriend
Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 01:37 AM
What would you do if you discovered that you’re the 2nd gf and your whole relationship was a lie?

Morticia's photo
Thu 03/16/23 01:56 AM
He'd definitely end up in the hospital for sure

 Ꮢ Ꭷ Ᏸ ɨ Ꮑ's photo
Thu 03/16/23 02:39 AM
What would you do if you discovered that you’re the 2nd gf and your whole relationship was a lie?

Nothing, start doing exercise and running practice as fast as possible :see_no_evil:
Start looking for third :eyes::walking:‍♂️&....

Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 02:49 AM

He'd definitely end up in the hospital for sure

Lol it’s how to release all the stress

Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 02:50 AM

Nothing, start doing exercise and running practice as fast as possible :see_no_evil:
Start looking for third :eyes::walking:‍♂️&....

Exactly. Move forward and forget all the bs people in your life 🤣 and yes maybe look for 2nd too lmao

 Ꮢ Ꭷ Ᏸ ɨ Ꮑ's photo
Thu 03/16/23 02:56 AM
Lol it’s how to release all the stress

Start up with YOGA.. an relax...
at least for one hour or half..
if not then one nit pac🥃
jzt kidding..:slight_smile:


JulieABush's photo
Thu 03/16/23 03:21 AM
I’d get out of it as quickly as I could:thumbsup: .

Laska Paul 's photo
Thu 03/16/23 03:49 AM

You can have more but only as ' FRIENDS '. But when its time for serious relationship pick the one whose Crazy matches your Crazy.
But having numerous girlfriends in an intimate relationship is a Betrayal to each of them .
Don't do that ..OTHERWISE.....!!!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 03/16/23 03:55 AM
End the charade, heal and move on.
And always look back at how that came to be and how I missed the signs that something was off so I learn from it and make sure it never happens again.

AαƚHҽҽɾα's photo
Thu 03/16/23 04:46 AM
He's definitely not going to bother if the 2nd gf reacts with words or leaves him..Considering the time wasted, analyse why you trusted him n what your soul enjoyed in loving him..may be it helps in understanding your soul better so that you can invest some time to plan on other useful options to heal yourself faster accordingly :slight_smile:

Rock's photo
Thu 03/16/23 05:33 AM

What would you do if you discovered that you’re the 2nd gf and your whole relationship was a lie?


In a situation like this,
even the 1st is nothing more than a side piece.

Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 06:49 AM

Start up with YOGA.. an relax...
at least for one hour or half..
if not then one nit pac🥃
jzt kidding.:slight_smile:.

How about a movie night until you fall asleep lol just 30 mins to it

Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 06:50 AM

I’d get out of it as quickly as I could:thumbsup: .

2nd gf had been thrown out but maybe it’s a blessing in disguise no one deserves to be treated that way

Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 06:50 AM

You can have more but only as ' FRIENDS '. But when its time for serious relationship pick the one whose Crazy matches your Crazy.
But having numerous girlfriends in an intimate relationship is a Betrayal to each of them .
Don't do that ..OTHERWISE.....!!!

I couldnt agree more

Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 06:51 AM

End the charade, heal and move on.
And always look back at how that came to be and how I missed the signs that something was off so I learn from it and make sure it never happens again.

Heal.

Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 06:52 AM

He's definitely not going to bother if the 2nd gf reacts with words or leaves him..Considering the time wasted, analyse why you trusted him n what your soul enjoyed in loving him..may be it helps in understanding your soul better so that you can invest some time to plan on other useful options to heal yourself faster accordingly

Definitely. It’s not one’s fault. But two in the relationship. Or in this situation, three lol

Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 06:52 AM

In a situation like this,
even the 1st is nothing more than a side piece.

Exactly. This is my favorite response so for 🤣

Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 03/16/23 06:53 AM
Go out and buy the biggest ***** you can find and place it on the night stand.
;;joking;;

It all depends...
Is she the 2nd or are YOU actually the 2nd?

Obviously you made a poor choice for an exclusive relationship.
Perhaps you just were not paying attention to the signs?

Consider this:
Were you more attracted to him because he was candy or
because you connected with him on every level?

If he strayed, take a hard look at yourself to make sure it wasn't something you did or didn't do or say before you put all the blame on him. It takes two to make a relationship and two to break it.

Ask yourself if the two of you are actually communicating honestly.

Do your personalities align like pieces in a puzzle or do you need to use a hammer to 'make' them fit?

If you have finally realized you chose poorly, perhaps its time to end the deception and go make a better decision with another.

If you are so fragile and desperate, just ignore the violation of trust and keep doing what you have been doing and enjoy your life of stress and misery.

It is YOUR life...do what you think you should do and stop trying to get other people to tell you how to live your own life.

Maj's photo
Thu 03/16/23 07:22 AM
Trust the process they say

 Ꮢ Ꭷ Ᏸ ɨ Ꮑ's photo
Thu 03/16/23 07:53 AM
What if, have One "GF" which is equivalent to 5ive 🤜:head_bandage:🤛


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