Me's feeling a bit tired.
Had to get up a little earlier to have my teeth cleaned. I never do well when I have to hurry to go somewhere in the morning. Affects my entire day as it upsets my head (TBI).

Me's feeling a bit tired.
Had to get up a little earlier to have my teeth cleaned. I never do well when I have to hurry to go somewhere in the morning. Affects my entire day as it upsets my head (TBI).

Me's feeling a bit tired.
Had to get up a little earlier to have my teeth cleaned. I never do well when I have to hurry to go somewhere in the morning. Affects my entire day as it upsets my head (TBI).

She actually deleted her account after she started talking to me and her picture disappeared to ..and I just feel that people should take accountability for their actions.
The heavy conversation was started by her . Me just carried it on .... otherwise I think the conversation would have died a natural death..
Live and learning ...thats me ... all the way...

Maybe you would have learnt more about each other from a few video chats (if you didn't have any) before deciding to meet up. Not the same as meeting up but you learn from them in my opinion. Good luck with your search.

happy.. things are moving forward in ma reno's and research..

If you're looking for a relationship and not a hot date, what I said (below) still applies...

Also, maybe next time don't get into hot conversation, no matter how difficult this may be for a guy.
More important to find out if you click and connect when talking about normal things.

Fact she started it doesn't mean you have to follow through with it. Unless you're after a hot date.

Always good to have some stuff to talk about that is not sex. Subject of sex is at times way to easy to go for but it doesn't create a real connection.

In any case, good luck with finding the next date! And at least you are dating :)

Ha, you fixed the thread!!

chalk another up to ma magic wand

happy but not so happy..

my project got derailed cuz the length on the packaging was 2 times what the contents actually were.. and there's none of the same left (discontinued)

the happy part? store gave me a full refund but left me the goods

@ Crystal..

Yes I am looking for the exclusive LTA relationship, and sadly HOT dates are included....what can I say!!

And seriously there is no luck involved. Just starting to talk to women is hard enough for me.... most women tend to be unapproachable. But once I see what I like and I feel there is some SA...I dive right in all innocent like, and hope she carries the conversation way past the Hello stages.....
And contarary to popular belief , getting rejections from women does not make you thick skinned ....it just shrinks you further into your shell, just saying !

I don't think women are unapproachable, they're often very careful because they've come across one too many wankers (online).
Men who are only after sex (a helluva lot of 'em), men who are already in relationship (also a helluva lot), guys that ghost them and so on and so forth.

Women don't grow thicker skin either, they become scared to open their hearts again after a number of idiots trampled all over it.

Maybe it helps to know that emotional safety is extremely important to a woman. We need to know, sense, feel that a guy won't just bugger off, that he's reliable, can be trusted etc.
Only when a woman feels emotionally safe can she soften and open up to a man.
If you're that man, show you are such a man, that you won't do a runner when something doesn't go as planned or desired, that you're not just after sex but genuinely like the woman, things will change.

Most men do not understand women at all, don't even know that we need to feel emotionally safe in order to be able to soften and open up. And that's what you want as that means she feminine.
And also if you want a great sexlife with a woman... if she doesn't feel emotionally safe with you, doesn't feel she can trust you (with her safety, her heart, her everything!!) she cannot soften & open up and then... she cannot have great sex either. She won't be able to climax or won't really enjoy it.
It takes a helluva lot for a woman to open up and become totally vulnerable to let a man in (not just sexually, also emotionally, psychologically etc. etc.).

For men it's different. Men usually just think sex, that's a man's nature. You like a woman, you also want sex with her. You don't think about a relationship or future right away.
Women do!
And also good to know maybe that when a woman has sex with a man, and especially if she climaxes, she bonds. EVEN if she doesn't really want a relationship with the man!! It's the overdose of bonding hormones that are released in her body that cause that.
She can think, "Wait a minute, I don't want this bloke for my partner???" Yet the hormones do make her want him for a relationship.
Meaning...
A woman can become -what you guys feel is- needy. And she can't even help it. Just those hormones.

Best to not go direction sex. Wanting the attraction, feel the chemistry, sure. Nothing wrong with that.
But don't have sex yet (sorry, hihi) if you want a serious relationship. Build a non-sexual connection first. Sure you can flirt, tease a bit.
Might also be good to know that if a man has sex with a woman before he has actually bonded with her he will get turned off by her after he has had his orgasm!
That's because you then produce prolactine (hormone).
So if you're serious about a woman, don't go there yet, no matter how much you want to.
Having sex too soon -before you have bonded- might cost you the real great relationship with her cos you feel turned off afterwards.
And if you then dump her because you're turned off you also hurt the woman. Confirm her belief that all men are @$$holes.

This is all based on hours and hours of research.
Do with it what you like.
I would say, take advantage of it!!
Hardly any other man knows this stuff. When you take it to heart and follow it you might stand way better chance at getting a great woman. Cause you'll stand out from other men who don't know this and don't use this knowledge.