Have been on this dating site a while now and all I get is messages about sex .. why is there no men interested in actually friendship .. and possible relationship.. it would put you off meeting anybody ..

I'm a bit surprised, haven't you heard the saying "men are pigs"? That being said, there are guys with patience willing to take it slow.
If you spend some time in the forums, you'll see.

Some, not all.

You'll eventually find the right one for you.

I once heard a stand-up comedian address this issue.
He said he met a woman on a dating site. They met for coffee. She said she isn't interested in meeting men who want to have sex right away. She wants to get to know each other. Then after 6 months, they can have sex.

He said that was fine with him. He wanted to know how this would work. Would they just write emails back and forth for 6 months?

Well, the way he presented it was very funny!

Gee I get messages from women every day that want sex and relationships with a man that is 40 years their senior and lives thousands of miles away.

Seems to be the same thing doesn't it?

It is because 99.9% of the users of this site are fakes/frauds/scammers

Where I'm from we have a saying that goes, "men have 9 brains and 1 desire, while women have 9 desires and 1 brain".

That desire controls all his brains. So, his pen*s rules his life.

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Not all, majority are greedy of skin,

but they dont know which will vanish at certain extent after that the rest originality.

Absolutely true but that is how existence created them and they are helpless, there is nothing they can do about.

This is much less out of the ordinary than being from “Unknown” in Northern Ireland as per your profile.

I'm thinking all these women are scammers! guess people should go outside in the public if they want something genuine. GO FIGURE

That's exactly what you should do

Why? Cause men can't count past one!

It all he needs to recharge the ole battery!!!!

Yes I find it quite disgusting to be honest, I’d never want a woman to allow me any sort of sex until minimum weeks if not months had passed with lots of time spent getting to know one another. My thinking is if she allows you in her panties so quickly she would also let others and are not the type I’m looking for after a 35 year loving relationship.

And if you got into a relationship in that manner and you had to be apart for a few days for some reason, you could never trust your other half would be faithful so the relationship would be strained from the very beginning.

Most adult men are not looking for just that 1 night unless they are not available for a longer term. If you have found a sexually compatible partner, why would you not enjoy night 2 or night 102? A few men believe they can find a sex partner anytime they want and a few can. The rest of us are not that popular nor socially adept that finding a new partner is easy.

I think men have a default switch, if they can't hold an intelligent conversation they just flick that switch and resort to talking about s*x or talking like they are 15 hanging about outside maccyds yo bro ect.
if they are over 40 they also have the I'm a player switch so again flick the default.
it's not attractive for most females they talk too. yet they continue even if you say your uncomfortable.
personally I'm ready to give up!!

I'd put that closer to 140%!!! Ron

Oh dear I get that all the time. You will think the person is going to be serious, oh no they don't. All you hear is just sex talk. Asking for nude pictures. I miss the old days where you take things step by step

That's not true, guess you are looking for something in the wrong place