Hey Everyone, hope everyone is having a great weekend. I have a question for everyone I have been talking to this girl for a few days online and things have been cool, you responds back and everything. So, last night I asked her as a gentlemen if she felt comfortable in giving out her Phone# she said that cell phone was cut off but, was down with giving it out to me once she gets it back on, she doesn't like giving out her house # which I can understand what does everyone else think ?

You can give her YOUR number and she can *69 her home number to block it.

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You have to think about this from a woman's perspective. I don't like to give my phone number out right away. I like to get to know the person for awhile. It is hard to tell if a person is "real" on dating sites. A woman needs to be careful so don't take something like her not giving her phone number out too soon personally. Let her take her time.

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Very few females will ever give out there phone number after a few days ! The internet is full of nutters (Not saying you are one of them but You know what I mean) and as for an address you are thinking of a few months maybe............Its normal

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I agree with you but if that is the case why not just say that? To say her phone has been cut off (which makes me think this person may be financially irresponsible) is being less than truthful.

Yeah I def understand I didn't mean to ask her too soon I'll just keep talking to her like I am I'll say she responds back to me which is not common for me lol

DONT AFRAID TO ASK THEM FOR NUMBERS ALL THEY CAN SAY IS NO I USALLY GIVE THEM MINE SO THEY CAN FEEL COMFORTABLE CALLING ME IT MAKES THEM FEEL IN CONTROL

Not to sound cocky, but a few girls I've talked to have actually offered their number the first day I talked to them within a few hours, maybe it's because I talk to girls 18-22 and they're more "risk-takey" (that is not a word lol) so I wouldn't think asking after a few days is necssarily a "bad thing" but don't hound her for it, if a girl says "no", it means "no"

yeah your right Mike liked how you broke that down I think I might move on to the next one lol I think that was her way of saying no

Being a woman, I like this idea... I think that is what would make me feel most comfortable... only problem is... I LOSE THINGS!!!

To online women I give out my number. Some women might be a little hesitant on giving out their number to a stranger they've only talked to online.

Quite a few guys have just disappeared after I wouldn't allow phone calls after two or three mails so I don't know what is the standard but I won't do it until I feel comfortable so their loss.

I've done that myself -- given out the cell phone number only. That's just a safety thing. My cell phone uses a different area code from where I live. Initially I did this because of problems with the ex-in-laws, but it has worked out pretty well for other reasons, too.

actually *67 blocks numbers. *69 tells you what number last called

Ty ....

I can understand where she is coming from since I feel the same way. Take the advice of the poster and give the woman your phone number, and tell her to star 69 you, but before you do that, e-mail back and forth a few more times. You need to make sure she is still interested in you. Hate to rain on your parade, but it is possible, she no longer has interest in you and is handing you a story. Hope I am wrong.

it's *67 to block numbers!

Maybe she just feels a little off kilter with phoning at this stage. I wouldn't automatically assume it as a bad thing. If she wants to continue talking online, then do so and see what happens. Hearing someone's voice makes it real, and maybe she isn't comfortable with that at the moment.

People have different time frames.

Straight off the bat, and I could be wrong.

I think she's unsure if she wants thingd to progress into that with you just yet.

A little while longer just on the net maybe?