how do you get over a broken heart? it ended over a year ago and for some reason my heart doesnt want let go no matter what my head says.

It takes time, for everybody is deferent.

agreed.


meeting other people is start, you have to lose something good to gain something better.

Here---- You can have this one.

its a hard thing to just forget about a lost love...and you will notjust got to keep your head up and keep plowing along...things will work out...wish you luck ...your pretty and will go far.....good luck in your search

Sometimes we leave people we love. (like in my case) You are inlove with that person but they aren't the right one for you. It's hard to deal with but eventually the pain will go away. Doesn't mean your love for them will. Time is the only cure for a broken heart. Some people find another soul mate and sometimes that makes it go faster. Some of the feelings from your broken heart comes from your memories and things you think. Not thinking these things and changing the subject in your head when he comes up will also help.

Know this,you are not alone in this pain,we have all been through it,we go through our three steps as humans to deal with it,denial,anger,acceptance,there is only one variation that us humans differ in this and that is just how long it takes to reach the acceptance,if it has been a year you should know,really know that it is not going anywhere,you just can't be in love by yourself,it is hell,start with making friends,here is a good place to start,welcome to jsh

Sweetie I know what you are going through! Mine endded almost a year ago, and there are nights I still cry myself to sleep over it. I am still so angry with him for what happened that is why I can't get over it. Trust me it will stop hurting one day just go day by day. If you ever need someone to talk to about it you can always im me (ashnicholelee) on aim. I know how you feel on this, and it is still hard to move on, but you will eventually have to! Good Luck Hun!

I am sorry you are going through this because I am going through it too. I know what its like and how you are feeling and it sucks. I am here if you want to talk.

YOU will NEVER forget, but time and NEW friends WILL help you NOT REMEMBER so WELL!!!

Good memories and NEW beginings...

Having memories of the past loves that I thought I had is tough. With time I have learned to move on, sure it sucks sometimes but it works out in the very end. I have moved on after the three disasters in my life happened and I am glad that I did, it made me realize that those were not the ones meant for me. I believe there's someone out there for you, it's just a matter of time and patience. I know waiting can be a pain but we cannot go rushing after the right one, we may never find him or her. It's best to be patient and place yourself out there in the world and meet others. That's what I'm doing.

Ok, this may be rude.... but get the head examined, it may help with the heart.

ummm,maybe not so much as rude but a little crass don't you think? a broken heart is real for anyone so we must tread gently,no matter

Yeah, thats what happens when its truly Love...

Takes a very long time to heal.

Hang in there, itll get better.

I promise.

thanks everyone for the kind words! i know it will take time and great advice. i will take it and use it.



and yes, if you MUST know i do go regularly, and its NOT because of him.

iam sorry to hear that.for me,at least 3 yrs.to fully get the heartache out.love is one strong drug.

Love is very real as well as Hate,they are the only tangible things you cannot touch but oh so real

sleep with your ex'es best mate.

i dunno, always seems to work for me

too bad hes taken.

so? women have hagical powers, ya know... and i didnt say DATE the best mate... just screw