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Topic: I need your help...
Natty68's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:36 PM
I have been dating this guy for about 3 months... he works alot & that is fine... but he makes promises about spending more time with me that he never actually keeps... He took off this Sunday & Monday & we were suppose to spend the entire day together on Sunday & he just texted me that he has to work now because the brakes went out of the guys truck that was suppose to work for him tomorrow... I believe him I am just soooo disappointed... in 3 months we have never been out on a real date because of **** like this & I just dont know if I am overreacting or if it is just not worth my trouble???

Zackattack's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:37 PM

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months... he works alot & that is fine... but he makes promises about spending more time with me that he never actually keeps... He took off this Sunday & Monday & we were suppose to spend the entire day together on Sunday & he just texted me that he has to work now because the brakes went out of the guys truck that was suppose to work for him tomorrow... I believe him I am just soooo disappointed... in 3 months we have never been out on a real date because of **** like this & I just dont know if I am overreacting or if it is just not worth my trouble???
well i would say you need to find someone else really i mean if he doesnt make time for you then you deserve alot better

BizarreKelley's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:38 PM
when you say he keeps doing stuff like this, how many times has he broken promises like this? What's his job?

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:38 PM
HMMMMMMM

Starhawk's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:39 PM
Track him down / you no how this works you been around...

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:39 PM

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months... he works alot & that is fine... but he makes promises about spending more time with me that he never actually keeps... He took off this Sunday & Monday & we were suppose to spend the entire day together on Sunday & he just texted me that he has to work now because the brakes went out of the guys truck that was suppose to work for him tomorrow... I believe him I am just soooo disappointed... in 3 months we have never been out on a real date because of **** like this & I just dont know if I am overreacting or if it is just not worth my trouble???


I'm not buying what he's selling.

Natty68's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:40 PM
He runs the kitchen in a bar & he only has 1 other employee to fill in... we only see each other about once or twice a week & he has broken promises about making more time with me 4 times already...???

itstempting69's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:41 PM
two words.....leave him

Zackattack's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:41 PM

He runs the kitchen in a bar & he only has 1 other employee to fill in... we only see each other about once or twice a week & he has broken promises about making more time with me 4 times already...???
LIKE I SAID FIND SOMEONE NEW

Sharon31216's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:42 PM
I'm only 21, but to be honest with you, some men are scummy, I've learned the hard way. You might want to make sure that's what he's really doing.

BizarreKelley's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:43 PM
Yeah you probably don't want to deal with that.. if you're questioning whether or not you should continue to put up with it, it means you don't want to, and you're just looking for some justification.

lulu24's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:44 PM
coming from someone who has many years of management experience in restaurants/bars...he's probably telling the truth.

managers are held to a MUCH higher level of accountability.

no photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:44 PM
yeah, dump him, im here 4 u... LOL.. im kidding.. thats terrible advice!

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:45 PM

coming from someone who has many years of management experience in restaurants/bars...he's probably telling the truth.

managers are held to a MUCH higher level of accountability.
Thats true

Totage's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:45 PM

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months... he works alot & that is fine... but he makes promises about spending more time with me that he never actually keeps... He took off this Sunday & Monday & we were suppose to spend the entire day together on Sunday & he just texted me that he has to work now because the brakes went out of the guys truck that was suppose to work for him tomorrow... I believe him I am just soooo disappointed... in 3 months we have never been out on a real date because of **** like this & I just dont know if I am overreacting or if it is just not worth my trouble???


Sounds like he's not worth your trouble.

boneyjoe's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:46 PM
damn i tryed to reply,,,,,,but as i was saying,at least he works
but if i had a sweethart like u,,i would find some time

rebecca1210's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:48 PM
I know her and I know this guy ..he is not lying..but what he is doing to you is BS!explode

iRon's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:50 PM
well waht ever his reasons are it still comes down to him being stupid because you are hot and he should be there....

I worked a lot when I was married and now I am divorced. There is something for him to think about

iRon's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:50 PM
well waht ever his reasons are it still comes down to him being stupid because you are hot and he should be there....

I worked a lot when I was married and now I am divorced. There is something for him to think about

Starhawk's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:52 PM
He just using you to peel his banana once in A while...I know I'm a guy........

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